2006-11-19 06:43:10 · 15 answers · asked by unknown 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
no i enjoyed it its jst an old wives tale that it hurts for the girl she may feel a bit of pain if her hymen isnt broke but otherwise everything will be fine just pick a guy whos not to big in the trouser department if you feel unsure
2006-11-19 06:48:10 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
my fiancee said it hurt her first time. She also said she cried. She was good with the timing, well before marriage and the guy. Comfort of the situation will dull the pain slightly. It's also true the more times you have it the less it hurts. It might hurt the first 3 to 5 times for a girl.
That isn't to say that it won't ever hurt again after that. There are many things that can make sex hurt after that. Lube is needed sometimes, the size of the parts can be non-compatible(which unfortunately you don't know until you're in the thick of things), and sometimes some positions are better than others.
The thing is, every person is different. You'll never know till you do it. Also, some people are just not sexually compatible, so you might not necessarily want to wait till marriage.(whatever you do decide though, as previously stated make sure you use protection) But you know what that's your decision too. Just make sure you take time making all these decisions so in the end you feel good about them, cause in the end that's all that matters.
2006-11-19 16:50:00 · answer #2 · answered by tagden 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. Sex does hurt you for the first time, because its your virginity. It won't hurt forever and it will become more pleasurable when you have done it more than once. I'm still a virgin and I hear that it always hurts the first time, because I ask all of my friends and all of them say that it hurts. Depending on your guy's anatomy, sometimes it might not hurt the first time. It could be because he missed that spot he was aiming for. He could miss that spot completely and it might not hurt. You also bleed the first time you do it, so if that doesnt happen the first time, I guess you can say that your guy didn't take your virginity. I hope I hepled!!
2006-11-19 14:47:23 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
it is uncomfortable and can be a bit painful...depends on your pain tolerance. Some people say make sure your first time is with someone you love..well that can bite you in the butt later esp if you get in a huge fight and he breaks your heart.
I gave my virginity to my best male friend, not my boyfriend at the time...we had an agreement..sex with no string attached. several years laters...when my first love left me 9 weeks pregnant...I didn't feel to bad about not giving him my virginity. Other friends of mine still pine over the lost love and the same lost love that took their virginity...not me I feel better knowing that special gift was given to a friend that has never hurt me.
2006-11-19 15:03:01 · answer #4 · answered by serephinadragon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It varies from person to person depending on several factors. Level of activity- if your really into sports and very active then it tones your muscles.
Vaginal Size-The smaller the vagina the more stretching will be done to accommodate the penis.
Penis size-Every man is made different so this also must be taken into consideration.
I Hope that everything goes well for you, but remember to use some type of protection.
2006-11-19 16:17:32 · answer #5 · answered by Jennifer C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well..... I've heard from every person who's had sex before that it hurts the first time.... and even several times after that.
If you're considering having sex, save it till marriage.
2006-11-19 14:46:42 · answer #6 · answered by ( Kelly ) 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes it does hurt, you will feel pain at first and it will be uncomfortable but after you do it for a while the pain goes away.
2006-11-19 14:51:57 · answer #7 · answered by CANDEE 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes it does and you can bleed. Make sure it is the person you love and trust. Having sex for the first time should be something special. He will be patient and understanding if he loves you and take his time.
2006-11-19 14:44:58 · answer #8 · answered by julieg_68 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depends on the person, since each person is different. my first time was time it did hurt alittle and it was also uncomfortable. but if your bf or husband stops until you feel comfortable with him inside you before starting to move again, it will be alot better for you.
2006-11-19 14:47:29 · answer #9 · answered by crafty lady 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it does hurt, you will feel pain at first
2006-11-19 15:00:33 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋