i really like this girl and we have been going with each other but she doesnt want to go steady and keeps on going with other boys and this makes me fell really depressed and i cant stop thinkin about her!!! i just dont know what to do
2006-11-19 06:35:40 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I know it sounds tough, but break off the relationship.
2006-11-19 06:39:23 · answer #1 · answered by Calvin James Hammer 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, wait, give her time so that she can find out if she wants to have a relationship with you. If she doesn't want to, then I'm sorry. There are many other girls, like her or even better. I know you're sad and that you feel you won't be able to let her go, but that's just for a while, you won't feel like that for ages, I tell you that right now. With time you'll realize that she was just a crush, and with time you'll understand that your life isn't just her. Life goes beyond the feelings for someone. Sometimes it's better when you can't have someone. Everything happens for a reason. Don't force destiny. You don't know, but maybe God is saving you from something
2006-11-19 14:41:49 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why hold on to someone that hurts you? Look if she really was intrested in you, or loved you, she wouldnt be going with other guys. The best way to get over a person, which is what you should do, is to let her go. Stop going out with her, stop calling, stop looking for a relationship with her. Look in the end what can come of someone unsure of themselfes is hurt. She isnt giving you anything to base your feelings on. So move on, find someone who is willing to give you the respect you deserve.
2006-11-19 14:43:56 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does she know that you care about her very much? If she doesn't, tell how you feel about her. She might not be aware that you have deeper feelings and she might be open to having a relationship with you. If she doesn't share the same feelings, then it would seem that you should try to move on. Spending some time away from her will probably help you mend your broken heart.
2006-11-19 14:50:33 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's going to hurt for a while but if she doesn't want to go steady then u got to let her go and find someone better than her and that will go steady but be careful don't let ur self get hurt again.
2006-11-19 14:53:03 · answer #5 · answered by sexyblakk 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do the same thing she is doing. Date other girls and go to the same places she goes. Broaden your scope of life and don't be in a hurry to nail one foot to the floor. Anyway, she's probably just trying to make you jealous. Give her some of her own medicine and have fun doing it.
2006-11-19 14:42:47 · answer #6 · answered by llewintx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you are really meant to be with her things will work out...if not just hold on because the right ones coming!!!!
2006-11-19 14:39:12 · answer #7 · answered by madaboutyou55 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just try to respect her, and wait for her is what i can say
2006-11-19 14:39:47 · answer #8 · answered by ihaveoceaneyes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋