Family & Relationships - 17 November 2006

I'm 19, not been in a serious relationship to the degree that I have still not kissed anyone, hate loud music, hate people getting drunk and smoking, like football, like computer games, like helping people with there problems, no mates at the moment cause they slagged me off, stay in every night, mostly on myspace or yahoo, only seem to go out these days to go to job centre. :-(

Is there any hope for me?

be gentle lol

2006-11-17 09:38:05 · 21 answers · asked by Michelino 4 in Singles & Dating

She now hates me so if what if she telles my secret to everyone what shgould I do?

2006-11-17 09:37:26 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

married 7 years together 14 with four kids involved and hit a bump in the road and an illegal has her hooks in my husband trying to get everything thats mine. he doesnt want to be there but she just had a baby 3 days ago and has been hanging it over his head for ever noe that she will take the baby to hondorus and never see his daughter. shes been in legal trouble here. gets benefits i cant even get and thinks she is legal because her baby was born here. does that make her legal. she left 4 kids behind over there. i have literally been through hell this past year trying to get my husband back i love so much and he obviously loves me but is very messed up in the head. there is obviously more to this story but those are the high lites can somebody please shine some lite on my situation. please help

2006-11-17 09:37:18 · 10 answers · asked by ASHAMED 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I really like this guy that i am close friends with but theres one small problem; he likes my best friend! hes not totaly interested in her but he started asking me questions about her yesterday.He was going to ask me out before but his friends were watching and he chickened out; hes really shy but he tried his best. It wouldnt matter to my friend or not if i asked him out because she is obbsessed with this other guy. Would it be akward if i asked him out? i dont think he would say no because we are really close friends and we have alot of fun when we were together but would it be too awkard?

2006-11-17 09:37:14 · 11 answers · asked by MorganR 1 in Singles & Dating

My divorce settlement in Virginia states I must pay an additional $250 per month for extended day for my two children. Two years post divorce they have not done extended day for over a year (there are no other child care expenses) but I still pay the additional $250 per month. Do I still have to pay this? Does the settlement have to be rewritten? What happens if I just stop paying the $250? I have offered to put the $250 in a college fund but she has ignored this suggestion. Appreciate your thoughts on this. Thanks, Jim

2006-11-17 09:36:51 · 8 answers · asked by Jim 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Besides their facial appearance, do most guys prefer short females as to tall ones? Short you can wear heels and be very tall and tall women can wear heels and be even TALLER!

I am tall but wish i was tiny, like 5'4 or something cuz with heels which i would wear all the time i would be 5'7. which is how tall i really am. I LOVE HEELS BUT i feel like people stare awkwardly at me when i am in public. i almost feel like a giant on display.

2006-11-17 09:35:03 · 9 answers · asked by mandi lala 1 in Singles & Dating

i am a 22 single girl with no friends cuz i just moved what should i do it is friday night?

2006-11-17 09:34:48 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

also i really relate to his generation, his taste of music and all. and phisical attraction is ultimate! i mean he just cant stop touvhing me and the same with me. so ? would you be with a girl 11 year younger than you unde these situations?

2006-11-17 09:34:03 · 22 answers · asked by ooeeoo 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-17 09:33:37 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

there seems no way out i cut myself the other day i dont know what to do my foster family is rejecting me i dont feel loved and i am so lonely i get called stupid and daft which dosent help i have no confidence or self-esteem please help

2006-11-17 09:33:11 · 21 answers · asked by panga 2 in Family

I found out in May she says she never meant for it to go far, it was an emotional phone connection first. She says she wanted to work on the marriage. Through 3 therapists she lied about not seeing or speaking to him..come to find out after 5 months of me trying she was always still speaking and seeing him. Now she blames me for stuff I did 5 years ago 15 years ago and even when we were dating 28 years ago..stuff she never complained about before. I JUST CAN'T BELIEVE MY 30 YEARS..DIDN'T HOLD UP TO 5 MONTHS WITH HER FIRST LOVER AT 14 YEARS OLD

2006-11-17 09:33:07 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

What would you do if you were dating a guy 4 like a 5 months & he just suddenly broke up with you for no reason he just tells you that he doesn't love you anymore but you find out a couple months later that he actually broke up with you because you wouldn't have sex with him?

2006-11-17 09:33:00 · 8 answers · asked by ~brunette♥~ 2 in Singles & Dating

What do you look for in a mistress? Have you ever cheated on your wife?

2006-11-17 09:32:53 · 8 answers · asked by wildladyreba 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Well, I was trying to help my boyfriend to get a playstation 3. Well, first of all, it was not like I was going to camp out the stores 1 week earlier because I have a life. So I tried to get it anyways on Thursday. Well, all of the stores had lines by the time that I was able to get to them. Well, my boyfriend got mad at ME for not being able to get him the playstation and now he is blaming it on me and that things between us are only going to get worse because I failed him. So I asked him if he rather fight and argue and be on bad terms with me over the playstation and he said yes. He said that the playstation was more important than me. So I can't believe that he is getting like that over the stupid playstation. What should I do?

2006-11-17 09:32:44 · 15 answers · asked by Lessons_in_life10 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

She walks across the room
Blood dripping on the floor
Shes not sure what to do
She just cant stand the pain anymore
Everyday she cuts deeper
Drawing more and more blood
Today she cuts so deep
The floor begins to flood
She starts to get dizzy
Needing to sit down
But cant make it to a chair
And suddenly hits the ground
Now as she lies on the floor
In a puddle of her blood
She thinks about her life
And all the wrong shes done
She makes one last decision
As she picks up her blood stained knife
She slides it once again across her wrist
This time ending her worthless life.


No this is not about me, nor does it show my feelings in any way. Its just something i wrote. So what do you think??

2006-11-17 09:31:58 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i like this girl and she likes me we have been talking to each other for 5 months but the problem is that her brother is my best best freind i dont no how to tell her brother that i really love your sister thats really hard to tell your best freind me and the girl really love each other i would be really happy if her brother (my best freind) would no that we are bf and gf but i dont no how to tell him some one please help me

2006-11-17 09:31:53 · 16 answers · asked by red devil mike 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-17 09:31:52 · 14 answers · asked by Girl 2 in Friends

2006-11-17 09:31:29 · 7 answers · asked by ill shoot an arow thru ur heart! 1 in Singles & Dating

How should I Flirt With This Guy I Really Like?

2006-11-17 09:30:46 · 14 answers · asked by LaDyPiMpEtTe16 1 in Singles & Dating

What Kind Of Girls Do Most Guys Like?

2006-11-17 09:29:43 · 9 answers · asked by LaDyPiMpEtTe16 1 in Singles & Dating

there is this gurl and i HATE her and she was my Best Friend and now she said she is going to beat me up and im not scared i just dont want to hit her and get in trouble at school
what do i do ???

2006-11-17 09:29:10 · 11 answers · asked by Mandy M 1 in Friends

I have been going through a very difficult time with my dad being close to death. I thought she understood why I have been distant. I think this is why she is seeking affection from another man. Should I be forgiving or cut her lose for hurting me during this difficult time?

2006-11-17 09:29:03 · 21 answers · asked by huskeyhips 1 in Singles & Dating

It is related to the question about the 2 brothers
I really don't care for the older one anymore though. I was wondering what a guy would do, and would let me do in this situation. Please answer truthfully.
Say that your family and my family were on a camping trip together. It was raining so we were in your trailer til around midnight. It was around 11 though, and I was getting drowsy. I put a pillow up against you and started to half-sleep.
Would you have let me sleep if you knew that I would pursue a relationship with you? Or if you knew I had liked you, would you let me kiss you?
Or would you let me sleep and just imagine me sleeping on your shoulder and next to you every night when you close your eyes?
Lastly, if I just said do whatever and nothing else, and you liked me, what would you do?
I'm wondering because I was in this situation, not too long ago.

2006-11-17 09:28:38 · 10 answers · asked by Time goes by 2 in Singles & Dating

I like this girl and she used to like me as well, like she used to smile and blush everytime she saw me at college. I asked her to add me to msn and she happily did. Yesterday, I spoke to her the first time at msn and unable to control my excitement, I blurted out my passion to her. And she was ok..so? I regret having acted prematurely and now it hurts coz she knows my feelings and she doesnt care for them. What do I do next? She no longer holds a good opinion of me i think :(

2006-11-17 09:27:32 · 8 answers · asked by Koolnal 2 in Singles & Dating

Tell me some wacky, laugh until-you-cry stories about stuff you did as a kid.

2006-11-17 09:27:04 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Sorry if this is graphic...Ok, so my fiance loves oral. I have no problem giving, he has been tested clean (so dont worry about that), and I love it just because I like to make him happy. Well, when that time comes for him to ***, I will swallow for him. But he is a smoker, and when he smokes, I literally cannot stand what it tastes like. It makes me sick. I dont like the fact that he smokes and I have asked him to quit. He has promised me over and over he will quit, but months later, he isnt even close. So I decided that until he stops smoking, I will not give him oral. He thinks its unfair, but I dont think so. Is it wrong for me to do this?

2006-11-17 09:26:58 · 15 answers · asked by swtgrl84 1 in Singles & Dating

At 23 years of age, what is the youngest age guy a woman could date? And what would you think if you saw someone with a guy younger than your suggested age?

2006-11-17 09:26:53 · 24 answers · asked by greenday_fan 3 in Singles & Dating

How get though this time of year not having family that want you their. And Have not wanted you their for years. But they do want your 15 year old child their. Yes I have done wrong stuff but that was when I was 17 and I'm31 now and Their was stuff that happien that I had to call cops . but no one will talk to me just my child

2006-11-17 09:26:18 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

For me it has to be Hostel.

2006-11-17 09:25:55 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

the players, the drug dealers/users, the ones with no plan, no home, often no job, no means of transportation, no insurence, treat women like crap.....ete

I dont understand it

2006-11-17 09:25:39 · 11 answers · asked by Count DiMera 2 in Singles & Dating