Family & Relationships - 17 November 2006

I 've been married 9yrs. My husband cheat on me twice in a yr.I for gave him. Both times was no sexually in counter, So he say.
He say he loves me and he mess up bla bla bla crap. Do i belive no. Do i think i can't trust him no.So why is it hard for me to just say enough. Why can i just walk away. I know I'm not in love with him anymore, but I love him. I hope that makes since.Anyways my other question is why do I deal with his mental stress he always finding something to point out i do wrong. This man complex me.cry out help

2006-11-17 08:56:33 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-11-17 08:56:05 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

city?

2006-11-17 08:55:47 · 16 answers · asked by scott f 1 in Family

she is simply a sweetheart...loves to play soccer...

2006-11-17 08:55:23 · 5 answers · asked by sas231085 1 in Friends

Are there any women out there who smoke cigarettes and like guns who would love to shoot a man in the belly just to watch him die? Or is that cold hearted femme fatale just a myth?? Contact me at smokinggun2814@yahoo.com if you have an answer or want to discuss this further.

2006-11-17 08:54:34 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-17 08:54:12 · 12 answers · asked by laedeb 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-11-17 08:54:07 · 22 answers · asked by The What Should I Do Retard 1 in Singles & Dating

i think i should now tell her because you only get one life and i know i want to spend mine with her. shes the one i just know it. i have no idea what to say to her and how. plz help should i tell her or wait untill i know how she feels or just not tell her at all. im so confused i want to tell her but dont want to ruin the friendship but i truly love her i llllllllooooooooovvvvvvvvvveeeeeee her i feel wiered , like good but scares plz help

2006-11-17 08:53:44 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I think I'm pregnant, how can I tell for sure? Can you get pregnant if you have sex, but you're standing up? Also, my boyfriend cheats on me all the time, but he says that he still loves me - how can I make him stop cheating and stay with me? Will it help if I lose weight - I'm 5 feet 9 and 120 pounds, but I think I'm fat . . any good diets and exercises? Also, my parents had no religion, so I'm thinking of joining a religion - which one should I join? And I'm thinking about starting to be political after last election . . ? should I vote democrat or republican? If we get married, I want to play that regular song that I hear alot at weddings - what's the name of it? And how come I lose 5 points when I ask a question and when will I make the next level? Also, I need a job, any ideas on how to make a lot of money really quickly or a good job to get? Thanks!

2006-11-17 08:52:46 · 14 answers · asked by a_blue_grey_mist 7 in Other - Family & Relationships

I'm married, and two pretty lil girls,great family. But all I want to do is hide and cry.. sad I know :-(

2006-11-17 08:52:46 · 11 answers · asked by ...... 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Prize catches always get ignored in the singles world, and I get offended when I'm ignored . I should be in much bigger demand with the women in my town . How can I put myself in bigger demand ?

2006-11-17 08:52:14 · 3 answers · asked by I_hate_being_single 3 in Singles & Dating

I'm about to meet up with a girl I've known online for ahwile and we're really close and like each other a lot. She knows what I look like through my pics, even thinks I'm 'hot' but well here comes the silly part...I dont like my teeth where on both sides of my front teeth kinda push against each other where one wud be pushed back and one pushed forward so it looks like I kinda have vamp teeth, she obviously hasnt seen that my teeth arent straight since I dont smile with my mouth open in my pics. The rest of my teeth are fine and are white. Should I tell her about this incase she might not like them when we meet?

2006-11-17 08:52:05 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

even tho. you know you gonna leave the person your with.its just a matter of time. would you sleep with someone else. please just a yes or no

2006-11-17 08:51:32 · 30 answers · asked by having fun in life 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-17 08:51:20 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ladies - when you are on a long car trip, does your husband or boyfriend complain that you ask for "too many" bathroom stops?

Have you ever had to hold it in because your man refused to make a bathroom stop?

2006-11-17 08:51:16 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

im trying to add a bit of spice to mine and my parters sex life but we are limited on positions as i have a smashed knee so i cant kneel! an idea's on any positions that would give us a change but not cause me much pain?? please help we are kinda stuck in a rut, sex is getting a little boring

2006-11-17 08:50:54 · 9 answers · asked by petra3822 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I have been married for a long time. With in the last year, my wife has put on 25 lbs. I don't find it attractive so our sex life has slowed down. She ask me if I mind her extra weight and like an idiot I said she could stand to lose a few pounds. She says I should love her unconditionally even if she gained 100 lbs. I do love her but I don't find her very attractive. I know you'll ask what about you! I am 6-2 and weigh 200 lbs, I exercise regularly. So I should not mind because I love her uncondtionally. If this true for both partners? I wonder if I came home and said I quit my job, I just don't want to work anymore. And by the way, we are going to have sell the house, sell her BMW and live in a crappy apartment. And you will have to get a job. I know that is tough because I have busted my hump off so she could stay home and raise our kids. So if I quit my job, shouldn't she still love me unconditionally. Men are visually atracted to women and women are more attracted by security.

2006-11-17 08:50:54 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

And it was the wife's idea to lets say take an equity line of credit out of the house to do some remodeling to the house. Ultimately as husband or wife you come together to make decisions and respect each others opinion regardless of what choice you ultimately make. Is it fair to blame the wife since it was her suggestion in the first place if the financial choice made them go through hard times money wise? My husband is blaming this on me even though he didn't even disagree in the first place with the choice. What do I do? This seems unfair to me and it hurts me that he is putting all the weight of our financial choices on my shoulders instead of us going through it together.

2006-11-17 08:50:11 · 13 answers · asked by Bellas Mama 1 in Marriage & Divorce

If your under 25 do you like guys who late 20s or early 30s?

2006-11-17 08:49:41 · 20 answers · asked by anjel 2 in Singles & Dating

So...my last question was on how I think I'm falling in love with my best friend, and everyone seemed to agree...but me wanting to see him more one on one, doesn't seem to be just me. He had a 'party' and I was invited, but ONLY I was invited. There are days when I seem like I'm angry or upset, and when he asks me what's wrong, I get lost in his eyes...and everyone tells me that I'm crazy for not being able to see how much he loves me...they tell me they can see it in the way "he looks" at me. But I never really noticed...I never really looked for the signs before. Any thing I should maybe try to spot in his actions to tell if he having some different feelings?

2006-11-17 08:49:28 · 3 answers · asked by XxSouthern CutiexX 1 in Friends

HELP I DONT KNOW A WEBSITE TO FIND MY ANSESTERS SOMEONE GIVE ME A WEBSITE

2006-11-17 08:49:15 · 7 answers · asked by Panda-chan. 2 in Family

having a threesome with my g/f and her mom.....It's their idea not mine mom it okay looking for a 40 y/o she has been with widowed for 10 years she's not involved with anyone. but she has needs to I know. and my g/f wants to help her out but i am not sure its right?

2006-11-17 08:48:12 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My friend just called me with a weird question. I can't answer it because I have never had this problem so please help me. She asked what can be done to get wet for sexual intercourse. She says she wants her man bad and is terribly horny but she just can't get wet even with foreplay. Suggestions anyone?

2006-11-17 08:47:55 · 10 answers · asked by muffin198486502 1 in Singles & Dating

are getting married

2006-11-17 08:47:53 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i got circumsized four months ago and my glans before were pinkish and now they're turning to a pale-ish color. And now there's not any feeling when I touch them. whats going on? also i have had a scar udner my glans ever since i got circumsized...when does that go away?

2006-11-17 08:47:35 · 8 answers · asked by ? 1 in Singles & Dating

my parents are divorced and i live with my mum. my dad called maybe a month ago saying he won't be able to pick us for christmas when my mom has been having us for christmas for the 3rd time now. this is a man who lies ...to his mom ..to his children and just about every one. im not sure i like this very much. he jst now this year has started to pay his child suppport. what should i do? i won't to say somthing but...to scared

2006-11-17 08:47:23 · 9 answers · asked by littlered102012 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I've never had a boyfriend. I get nervous when I talk to them. I dont know how to flirt. Is there any hope? What should I do?! I really wish I had a boyfriend...I'm starting to fell really desperate.

2006-11-17 08:47:19 · 10 answers · asked by sweetheart--xo 2 in Singles & Dating

my b/f has the same name as my ex and when ever i say his name i get really annoyed. so whats a good nickname for a guy thats not mushy and stupid?

2006-11-17 08:47:18 · 12 answers · asked by Scarlet5 2 in Singles & Dating

My husband recently confessed to a short lived affair that occured back in July. He cried, begged me to forgive him and stay, showed remorse, agreed to marriage counseling, has treated me like a princess since, and when we're not focused on the affair, its like our marriage has never been better. Not that there is a ever a good reason to cheat, but I can clearly see that I was part of the problem. (Constantly refusing him sex and treated him poorly). My question is, can a man make a mistake like this, and learn from the guilt and pain its caused and be truthful when he says he wont do it again and be sincere when he says he wants only me and to focus on making our marriage survive this and be better than ever? I do see it in it his actions every day that he is sorry and that he does love me, but I'm afraid to commit again. The betrayel and the destruction of trust is taking its toll. Is it possible to stray once and realize everything you could loose and vow not to do it again?

2006-11-17 08:47:13 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Anywhere in the world, doesn't matter, but it has to be your closest friend. Not your boyfriend or girlfriend.

2006-11-17 08:46:13 · 5 answers · asked by Jackie 2 in Friends