my parents are divorced and i live with my mum. my dad called maybe a month ago saying he won't be able to pick us for christmas when my mom has been having us for christmas for the 3rd time now. this is a man who lies ...to his mom ..to his children and just about every one. im not sure i like this very much. he jst now this year has started to pay his child suppport. what should i do? i won't to say somthing but...to scared
2006-11-17 08:47:23 · 9 answers · asked by littlered102012 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I have been there myself. My parents had gotten divorced when I was a very young girl. My dad cheated on my mom. And he disowned us for a very long time. It wasn't until I was 9 years old that he decided to start having visitation rights again. Parents can sometimes hurt the ones they love, then they want to let you back into there lives when their ready. Sometimes it is to late and sometimes you can accept that. Your father will always be in your life no matter what. He needs to figure out what is more important to him and then he will start to come around.
p.s. My mom never saw a dime of child support. I am now 35. He is gone. And I always wonder what he was really like when I was younger for those years missed. So your dad has faults, and he probably needs to let you know that he still cares, even though everything has happened. Good luck!!!
2006-11-17 08:54:44 · answer #1 · answered by squeaky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Life's a Biitch at any age. Seems your Mom was stupid to marry this type a guy anyway. But still, he's your Dad and you should love him, what's the point for hating him, he's trying to make things better even in his lies. Lairs are always trying to make things better, what's wrong with that, you should know better by now. The best thing you can do is to show you love him and care. Improvements can always happen, keep up your effort.
2006-11-17 08:59:48 · answer #2 · answered by honker 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My dad was never there he left when I was 6. He never called for Christmas,birthdays or anything else either. He put my brothers and I through a lot but I still dont hate him. I hope your father realizes what hes doing unlike my father
2006-11-17 08:51:56 · answer #3 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it really is more durable, loving people whom you don't love, or loving those who do compared to you? maximum individuals might want to be problematical pressed to respond to that, yet we are many times said as on to do those very issues. How functional, how all the way down to earth is the interest of God! It deals with topics good the position we stay. This very week you may want to nicely be said as on to love someone you don't love, or love someone who does compared to you.
2016-11-29 05:45:21 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No need to do anything. Spend the holidays with your mum and let her handle the details. You're allowed to hate his behavior right now, even if you don't feel up to hating him.
2006-11-17 08:49:57 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Love him because he is ur dad just think he will start helping ou some time soon.
2006-11-17 08:51:03 · answer #6 · answered by little1234580 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nobody is perfect , he can have some mistakes but he is still ur dad and i'm sure he loves u , try to forgive and love...
2006-11-17 08:54:29 · answer #7 · answered by Dali 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him your feelings. Even if you are afraid. Do it afraid. If you are honest and tell him in a loving way that it hurts, it may open his eyes. You can do it. I wish you the best.
2006-11-17 08:54:24 · answer #8 · answered by Michelle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Help him
2006-11-17 09:52:40 · answer #9 · answered by One Love 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋