I'm about to meet up with a girl I've known online for ahwile and we're really close and like each other a lot. She knows what I look like through my pics, even thinks I'm 'hot' but well here comes the silly part...I dont like my teeth where on both sides of my front teeth kinda push against each other where one wud be pushed back and one pushed forward so it looks like I kinda have vamp teeth, she obviously hasnt seen that my teeth arent straight since I dont smile with my mouth open in my pics. The rest of my teeth are fine and are white. Should I tell her about this incase she might not like them when we meet?
2006-11-17 08:52:05 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hi,
Don't worry about it. She may notice your teeth, but that is not going to put her of you.
I always hated my teeth, the two front teeth stuck out slightly more than the others. I could do a great bugs bunny look. Then finely I got braces and I was always the oldest person in the Orthodontist waiting room.
After 2 years my teeth where perfectly straight and nobody noticed. Know one had ever noticed my teeth were ever sticking out in the first place.
My point is!
your teeth look bad to you but I bet know one else thinks so, and besides your friend likes you and she won't even notice your teeth.
Noelene
from Down Under
PS. Hope you guys have a great time together
2006-11-17 09:09:27 · answer #1 · answered by DY Beach 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I met my partner who is now the father of my baby son through internet. I always wondered why he wouldnt smile on the webcam ,then I found out, he has 2 of his teeth missing! I have a thing about nice clean teeth, but that didnt bother me after 10 mins after I met him cos he is the nicest person in the entire world and his missing teeth were something that was just medically wrong and he didnt have money to put right. If you really are that bothered about it, then you should tell her with 'by the way, ive something to tell you which you may not like about me...' she'll think the worst and then just laugh it off when you tell her it's just your teeth! Good luck! I'm sure you are hot!
2006-11-17 09:15:40 · answer #2 · answered by ~Kitana~ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that it is your own personal insecurity, and meeting someone in this context it is normal to start to worry about your personal appearance (since of course your relationship up till now was never based on it) But the truth is, she likes you for you not because of the way you look, and to me that is one of the most positive things that you both could have in your relationship right now. Although physcial attraction does contribute to what the relationship would be like, I doubt your teeth is going to be a huge issue. Let her notice it, and if the topic comes up tell her how you feel about your teeth, I am sure it would be more of a conversation that an insult, or something she doesn't like about you.
2006-11-17 08:56:08 · answer #3 · answered by micheypoo 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Stop worrying! She doesn't want to meet you for your teeth, she wants to meet the person she's fallen for and If she's so shallow that she'd be put off by your teeth then you've really got to ask yourself whether she's worth it.
Who cares what your teeth look like if you are an honest and decent person who is fun to be around?
Relax and be yourself, everyone has their flaws and she is probably just as nervous about hers!
Good luck with your date!
2006-11-17 08:57:53 · answer #4 · answered by Witchywoo 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Dude, she probably doesn't look anything like you're expecting. And even if you're "really close" online, you won't be in person. Its just not the same thing. Let her make her own decision about your teeth. When you're 30 and have a great job you can get braces and fix it.
2006-11-17 08:55:53 · answer #5 · answered by ShortnSweet 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You think more about it than anyone else will! Look at David Bowie, did anyone not like him because of his teeth? If she isn't going to like you just because you have crooked teeth then you wouldn't want her anyway would you? No don't tell her. Don't worry, she already likes you and most people aren't that shallow. Go meet her and enjoy yourself!
2006-11-17 09:09:05 · answer #6 · answered by wish I were 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Teeth can be fixed, personalities can't. It sounds like you are getting along well and should not dwell on this. If it is something that would "turn her off' then maybe she isn't the right person anyway. Don't say anything.
2006-11-17 09:10:34 · answer #7 · answered by Mr Mugwump 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think a bad tooth will make ANY difference ... you said you two have been talking for awhile now ... and are really close ... so I'm sure she likes you for your personality a lot more than your looks ... plus it's not like you can't ever get it fixed ... dude stop being so girly & act like a confident secure man - ready to sweep this lady off her feet ... lol ... good luck ... !
2006-11-17 08:56:50 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I always say it is best to be honest when meeting people on the internet. I personally met a guy who said he was "average" in height/ weight and he ended up being quite large, and in his picture he had hair and when we met he was bald...big turn off compared to the picture, but it would have been better if he was honest before the meeting
2006-11-17 08:56:41 · answer #9 · answered by joker:P 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you shouldn't feel obligated to tell her what your teeth look like. If she really likes you it shouldn't matter to her. If she stops liking you because of your teeth then shes not worth your time anyway.
2006-11-17 08:54:36 · answer #10 · answered by Hippie Chick 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋