i want to die?

Question

there seems no way out i cut myself the other day i dont know what to do my foster family is rejecting me i dont feel loved and i am so lonely i get called stupid and daft which dosent help i have no confidence or self-esteem please help

Answer 1

Where are you? I would take you in.
Move to a new foster family and know that this will be a strong foundation for your fabulous adult life.

Answer 2

Don't hurt yourself. It's not the way to go. If you're having problems with the foster family, contact the social worker you're assigned at the Department of Children and Family, or the police. Try to talk to them about it-but don't get your attention by hurting yourself. If you need help, talk to someone you trust like a friend, a teacher, a priest, maybe a shrink. Suicide isn't the answer. Have confidence and self-esteem in yourself. Don't let them bring you down. I don't know how old you are. If you're close to 18, when you're that age, move out.

Answer 3

YA is not the place to come with this issue- you're not going to get the support or counseling you need.

There is a way out, but it takes time. You have to wait until your 18 which, no matter how young you are, is NOT far off. Another few years, and then you have the rest of your life ahead of you to get help, and find love, and be successful, and leave your past behind you.
You are none of the rude, inconsiderate things people call you.
I'm sure you are intelligent.
I'm sure you're beautiful.
I'm sure you're talented.
The world doesn't want to lose you. There are so many great things in store for you if you can get through the struggles you have to endure right now. Don't worry about anyone else for the moment, concentrate on yourself and your own needs. If no one else is looking out for you right now, then it's your job to.

I wish you the best of luck and better things in your life.

Answer 4

I have the same problem. I have been cutting for a year. The scars don't remain, but the mental ones do. I was sexually molested (not raped) by my great uncle. I was 12. He was 64. I am depressed, my mom shipped me off for councilling (I am stuck with my grandparents. I hate Jepoerdy.), my dad has abused me since I was five, I just got out of a really bad and long relationship, and my sister is going out with my ex-boyfriend. I am home schooled, and the only social event I am allowed to go to is Church, so no duh, I have NO friends here. I know what you are going through. I know you are gonna hate me saying this, but the reason that I am alive today was because of my mom and God. It filled a void in my life, though I am still struggling with the fact that no matter what I do, I'll always be loved and forgiven. Kinda hard to believe, huh?

Answer 5

there are people who love you though it doesn't sound like you are in a supportive environment right now. No one wants to see you hurt yourself. There are suicide hotlines you can call. Contact your local social services and tell them what's going on in the home. I was a foster child too. Please don't hurt yourself, I will be here to talk to if you need a friend or some guidance. I will send you my e-mail and even give you my phone number if that's what it takes to help you. Life is precious and very short. It will get better for you I promise!!!!!!!! I know it's hard but hang in there.

Answer 6

You're school age, right? Talk to a counselor or teacher at school. Pick one that acts like they might have sense, first. You need to see someone for counseling. You're not stupid/daft or whatever. Tell your couselor or teacher - or social worker, since you've mentioned a foster family - and quickly - about what you're feeling. You're here for a reason. You may not know what it is, but you're a valuable human or you wouldn't be here.

Answer 7

I wish i knew more but do not. I wish i was smarter too. So my advice is listen to what others are saying about your behavior and try and modify it to something you can control. Hurting yourself and suicide attempts are serious screams for help/attention, however the one who suffers the most in the end is not the one screaming for the help, it is those left behind who weren't sure how to help you in the first place and live the rest of their existence feeling awful because they didn't have the answer. The one who did have the answer killed themself and left the emotional burden on others.

Answer 8

I had a friend the committed suicide. It was very sad as he had lots to live for. Everyday there is something new and different to see. If your young and school and parents got you down you can look forward to the day you move out of there house into your own appartment or college place etc. Listen life changes daily. Lifes short enough as it is. Seems your smart enough to seek out answers here, be smart enough to continue along lifes path...

Answer 9

I have also been so low in my life that I actually did try to kill myself . I am really glad that it didn't work . My life is better now . That was 5 years ago . Honey do what ever you have to do to get your mind straight because let me tell you , no one or nothing is worth you taking your own life . Find someone you can trust and talk to them . I'll say a prayer for you !

Answer 10

Look sweetie, we all here are being so touched and worried about you.
We could all be friends. Chose ... make your pick... be in touch with anyone here, and life will be different.
Be brave, and have friends. You will get support.
Meanwhile, dont even try to hurt yourself. It does not help. And those people around you are not the only humans down there.
talk to us, and be in touch.
LIfe can be great!