Well, I was trying to help my boyfriend to get a playstation 3. Well, first of all, it was not like I was going to camp out the stores 1 week earlier because I have a life. So I tried to get it anyways on Thursday. Well, all of the stores had lines by the time that I was able to get to them. Well, my boyfriend got mad at ME for not being able to get him the playstation and now he is blaming it on me and that things between us are only going to get worse because I failed him. So I asked him if he rather fight and argue and be on bad terms with me over the playstation and he said yes. He said that the playstation was more important than me. So I can't believe that he is getting like that over the stupid playstation. What should I do?
2006-11-17 09:32:44 · 15 answers · asked by Lessons_in_life10 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Leave him with his toys and find yourself a real man!!
2006-11-17 09:35:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Dump his sorry A S S!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! If this guy told you that a PlayStation was more important than you then he's not worth being with. After all, he doesn't care about you if he tells you some crap like that. If he feels that the PlayStation is so much more important, then him and his game system can have their own relationship together while you get on with your life and find a real man that isn't hung up on some video game system. I personally think you should move on. Anybody that's sitting around telling you that their mad and angry with you over this is crazy. Get yourself a better man.
2006-11-17 18:07:26 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This isnt about his playstation that he wants so badly being more important than you. It's about him being selfish and nasty and will use any means to his gain. You do not have to be in that position. If you REALLY want to stick with this guy, let HIM get his Playstation and you can buy a few games for Christmas. But really, you do NOT need this type of abuse and he deserves the good old fashion lumps of coal from Santa. I'd say he's a frog. You deserve the Prince, so raise your standards and your self confidence and find him!
2006-11-17 17:38:26 · answer #3 · answered by ♀♥☼ alycat☼♥♀ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like he is still acting like a little boy......and he probably won't change. At least not until you stand up and respect yourself enough to know that you deserve to be treated better than that.
Love is not based on what someone else can give to you. Love comes from your heart and your soul. Two people who are close to each other will always have times when they get mad at each other and argue. But the fact that you love that person shouldn't change because you don't get what you want or didn't get the response you wanted!
Beware. I had a boyfriend like this once. He got mad at me for a very silly reason, and left without saying goodbye one night. I didn't hear from him for about 6 months. He called back the week before valentines day and wanted to get back together. By that time I had figured out who I was and had gained the respect for myself that I deserved.
Always be good to yourself!
2006-11-17 17:44:58 · answer #4 · answered by wolf_star19 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
let him go! he is obviously using you to get the things that he wants and likes. if he thinks that the playstation 3 is more important than you than he doesn't love you at all! he's just using you. you deserve someone better. theres plenty of more guys out there for you that I'm sure will love you for who you are and not for your money! get over him and let him go!
2006-11-17 17:48:23 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Break up with him. He doesn't appreciate your efforts and he says the playstation is more important than you. Chances are if he had it right now he'd probably be neglecting you anyways, holed up for days with his new game. Get rid of the jerk and fast.
2006-11-17 17:35:40 · answer #6 · answered by SexyLady 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
This is your idea of Prince Charming? The fact that he is childish enough to expect you to camp out to get him a toy should have been enough of clue. Tell him what he can do with his PS3 and dump him. It is very easy to find someone better than a jerk like him.
2006-11-17 17:37:42 · answer #7 · answered by notyou311 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
You learn things in life. I've got people saying
' We love you ' and are both treacherous and hippocritical. Roll with it. I'm constantly on the move and looking to make an honest friend. Don't compromise. Don't settle. You'll know what to do. Just don't allow yourself to become like what you don't want to be.
2006-11-17 17:44:41 · answer #8 · answered by vanamont7 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It sounds like he lives up to the word BOY in boyfriend. If you like playing mommy to him, he's your boy. If you're tired of this big baby routine, tell him to write a letter to Santa Claus and ask for a new girlfriend.
2006-11-17 17:39:28 · answer #9 · answered by Violet Pearl 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
first of all i do not agree with sugar. i think you should find someone who thinks you should come first. you might love him but if you gice in to him hes just going to learn manipulation and keep doing it and your just going to keeo getting hurt over and over again. get away from him and stay away
2006-11-18 02:57:07 · answer #10 · answered by Michaela G 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd suggest a new boyfriend. Why would you want to take 2nd place to video games?
2006-11-17 17:36:23 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋