I like this girl and she used to like me as well, like she used to smile and blush everytime she saw me at college. I asked her to add me to msn and she happily did. Yesterday, I spoke to her the first time at msn and unable to control my excitement, I blurted out my passion to her. And she was ok..so? I regret having acted prematurely and now it hurts coz she knows my feelings and she doesnt care for them. What do I do next? She no longer holds a good opinion of me i think :(
2006-11-17 09:27:32 · 8 answers · asked by Koolnal 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just tell her honestly that you may have been premature in expressing your feelings and that you would like to just remain friends. Tell her that you're sorry she may have been offended in any way but you had such a high opinion of her, you just lost your head. Isn't that what happened. Cool it for awhile and carry on in your same friendly manner.
2006-11-17 09:39:32 · answer #1 · answered by Murphyboy 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You mean she didn't recipracate what you expected her to. Maybe she would have liked you to tell her in person instead of on msn. What do you think. Maybe it is just too early to tell.
Don't beat yourself up over it, it won't be the first time this happens don't give up if it doesn't work out, you may not have noticed another girl while you were paying attention to this one, you see, have faith, you will do ok. Peace
2006-11-17 09:31:55 · answer #2 · answered by Neptune2bsure 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
same with me except I'm a girl and it was with aim not msn and I'm in high school. Except, I didn't tell him, someone else did, even though I told them not to.
2006-11-17 09:30:21 · answer #3 · answered by Time goes by 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go and see... Why do u like her so much if its just looks you shouldnt be like that! Expand your feeling over all the girls you like!! Are u obseessed with this girl?
2006-11-17 09:30:41 · answer #4 · answered by Damien 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you did act a little too quickly....just give her some time to let things sink in and try not to act weird around her...just act normal.
2006-11-17 09:30:37 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Let her go. She doesn't know what's she's missing. She'll realize she made a stupid disicion, and come crawling back to you.
2006-11-17 09:31:02 · answer #6 · answered by ♥link♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best you can do is talk to her. Dont be so excited. Be subtle and calm.
2006-11-17 09:30:51 · answer #7 · answered by Kaylie Reanne - Born 08-06-09 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Gain her trust back and then talk about it.
2006-11-17 09:29:59 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋