Family & Relationships - 17 November 2006

Well alot of my friends turned back on me yesterday and i talked to my mom and she said i could change schools but then all my friends I have at my school now wouldnt be my friends anymore and my secrets that I told them would now be rumours ??What should I do??Is it a good idea to change school to avoid these situations or should I deal with them??

2006-11-17 10:18:52 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I've fallen for this guy, we've met, text, emailed etc.. and he tells me he really likes me but he doesn't want to hurt me! His ex-wife cheated on him and now his ex-girlf of 7 years has also cheated on him!

I understand that he's still very hurt of what has happened, I know he needs his space, and I tried to be there for him as a friend, shoulder to cry on etc.. but that is so out of my character, its something I've never done and I'm really going out of my way to help him.

I have told him that he can contact me when he feels he's healed from the pain and suffering.. I won't contact him cos I don't want to hound him. I'm in total devastation, and he knows how much its hurting me cos I know he's the one I want to be with.

Do you think I should wait til he heals? or shall I move on?

2006-11-17 10:18:49 · 17 answers · asked by happy soul 2 in Marriage & Divorce

OK I know this 6th grader who likes a Senior in High School!!!She thinks hes cute and he always looks at her and like gives her the I guess the gives her looks like he likes her kind of..She met him when she went to a camp called Outdoor Lab he was there as an high school leader and she was a camper...She came to me and asked me what should she do??Does he like her???Or what?? So I told her I would tell her tommorrow..So I came to u guys to help me...So PLz help me...

2006-11-17 10:18:47 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I Went Out WITH THIS BOY AND HE DUMPED ME FOR A UGLY ONE DO I TRY TO LOOK MY BEST OR LET IT GO.....SHE JUST DUMPED HIM YAESTERDAY DO I TRY TO GET HIM BACK?

2006-11-17 10:17:50 · 9 answers · asked by LaShonda 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

i still don't have a career because my parents only sended my brothers to college. Now that the job market is tougher, my question for you is do you want your kids to have a career or do you want your kids to be stuck in a retail establishment in which they didn't make enough money to survive in this world and let them work their way to college?

2006-11-17 10:17:18 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2006-11-17 10:16:53 · 5 answers · asked by Rachel 1 in Singles & Dating

i feel so secure when im w him. and the only time he ever cried is when he was alone with me, and i think its a kind of trustfull act. he always watches over me. and i always watch over him bc regardless of his age, he is a MATURE BABY. phisical attraction is also great. but no- we havent been together bc he respects my desicion of waiting until feeling fully ready.(we have been together for 9 months). we understand each other so well that it almost unbelivable. we share the same taste at a lot of things. and we also have the courage to tell each other if we do no like sth about each other. anyay. this is my second post about the same situation. bc i think im misunderstood. also its legal in my country to go into bars. and me claming to be mature and using a childish english- well english isnt my mother tounge.even i believe in myself out being mature, i feel the need to ask this question here bc i want to know how society feels bout the situation. hope this explains the missing points

2006-11-17 10:16:28 · 12 answers · asked by ooeeoo 2 in Singles & Dating

He has moved on, with another girl. It's obvious he doesnt think or care about me any more, but why do I still care? Its been almost 4months ago.

2006-11-17 10:16:00 · 14 answers · asked by Crazy Heart 1 in Singles & Dating

this guy i've known since i was like 4 gave me my 1st kiss 2 weeks ago. well i asked him if we were goin out and he said" i dont know. i'll think about it" so i call him 3 days later and he said" i got a gf 2 days ago." i was so happy. so i said" so we're goin out" and he says " no, i go out w/ a girl named alicen.srry i forgot about u." i was sooooo mad.so i call him and we talk and all he talks about is alicen. he says stuff like" i don't think we'll ever break up. we're the perfect couple." and he tells me that alicen want to kiss him but shes scared and if they do kiss, then she might make out w/him. so do u think he's trying to make me jealous or something like that. i like him so much i could die. plz help. need answers ASAP!!!!!!! thx.

2006-11-17 10:15:25 · 14 answers · asked by rock chic3 2 in Singles & Dating

i have been married almost a year what is a great gift to get your wife the first year for your anniversary

2006-11-17 10:14:30 · 14 answers · asked by ocairde 2 in Weddings

My ex and I are friends and his girlfriend doesn't have a problem w/ our relationship(just friends remember). Her and I have become friends. Well he said he's thinking about breaking up with her to go out with this other girl. I don't want him to.What if she isn't okay with our realationship? Anyway he took his current girlfriends first kiss.. Doesn't that mean something?Ecspaecially to a girl. I don't know if I should get involved or not. Is it my place? He hurt me soo bad when him and I were dating(emotinoally) and I wouln'd be able to see him do it to her. What should I do?

2006-11-17 10:14:01 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2006-11-17 10:12:49 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

there is this girl that i like when we are in class and in the hall she all ways talks to me,she is all ways looking at me with a big smile, she is all ways touching me, she all ways flirts with me. every one says that she likes me. but when she is with her friend or with some one she no she dont even say hi or look at me . do you think she likes me

2006-11-17 10:12:27 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

both of you covered in strawberry jam. BTW her name is Ho Fat and we are in love.

2006-11-17 10:12:11 · 16 answers · asked by ? 5 in Singles & Dating

Look i broke up with my boyfriend and i still have feelings for him and i told my best friend and she said that she liked him to but she wouldn't ask him out because she knows i like him. But now she asked him out and they are going out and i am really hurt because i really like him a lot but she doesn't care cause she still is going out with him. What should i do?????

2006-11-17 10:11:58 · 12 answers · asked by GREATGRL 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-17 10:11:55 · 7 answers · asked by Alex 2 in Family

Ok, if he was a jerk this would be easy. He is kind compassionate wonderful man. But, on the flip side...there is the ex-wife.
When we first got together, I knew that things were going to be hard for her (seeing us together) so out of respect for what they had and the kids that they have brought into the world I tried to be understand and even compassionate. Now she is attacking my charcater, I know that I will have to deal with her for the rest of our lives. He gave me a ring (btw awesome..the zales diamond) I said I have to think about it. The question is not about love, the love is there, the question is can I survive this relationship without wanting to strangle both of them? Him for not taking a stand, her for not being mature enough to handle our relationship

2006-11-17 10:10:39 · 21 answers · asked by Sweet T 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-11-17 10:10:38 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-17 10:10:35 · 18 answers · asked by sami 1 in Marriage & Divorce

he gets in trouble all the time, he gets bad grades. HE is really mean, i hate him. he cheats on her too, but she wont beleave me, please help me find a way to convince her to stop going out with him. rember i hate him :)!

2006-11-17 10:10:33 · 3 answers · asked by bailey4mail 2 in Friends

Is this incest?
My 16 yr nephew keeps masturbating too much, and his father (my brother) has asked me to spend some "quality time" with him. Should I? I am single and in two minds. Please help.

2006-11-17 10:10:01 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i am german and my friend is polish and we get drunk every day

2006-11-17 10:09:29 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Her boyfriend won't talk to her so what is his problem?

2006-11-17 10:09:22 · 3 answers · asked by pinkjonsie 1 in Friends

I recently split up from my g/f (which strangely enough was quite amicable and mutual) and I am a type of person who isn't comfortable being single for too long ((i generally get very lonely and depressed))

I do not like clubbing, so i dont consider this a right way of finding someone (why would i want to meet somewho who does if i dont?)

I do not do 'internet dating' so no one suggest any web sites for that, it really isn't my thing ((and will be reported as abuse))

I'm self employed, so work is out of the question...

So, i'm really open to suggestions here... or offers... lol j/k

2006-11-17 10:09:08 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

so i had gone to hang out with my friend and his girlfriend at the local game store, i texted my GF and told her we were there and that she should come by, she got really upset that i did not call her before i got there. and just wanted to be left alone, what should i do to apologize for what happened? and do i give her time or try to talk to her?

2006-11-17 10:09:00 · 8 answers · asked by Chirs potick 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-17 10:08:39 · 8 answers · asked by Brianna k 1 in Family

this morning my car was broken into by some crackhead i guess that stole my amp,speakers,ss cards, and even my necklace my boyfriend got me for my first mothers day.now my question to you is what would you do if it was you?

2006-11-17 10:08:22 · 6 answers · asked by whitetigereyes8485 2 in Friends

I mean come on guys what the hell!?! So me and my friend / boyfriend got together and had a great time Friday night and all day Saturday and things are great. SO why did he not call me all day Sunday? That’s just messed up I hate that ****!! I mean when you can’t tell where you are in the relationship and then just when you think you know what’s going on BAM!! They totally change directions on you and now I’m all confused again. I hate this ****!! Maybe I should become a lesbian and just give up boys all together. Dose anyone know what this crap means or do you have any explanation. OH and WHAT should I DO?

2006-11-17 10:07:38 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

They aren't your brats, why waste your time?

2006-11-17 10:06:58 · 12 answers · asked by Thumbs Down 1 in Singles & Dating

Hey My Problem is that i m very shy i like this girl that is in my pe class and i want to ask her out the problem is that she has a boyfriend and ya so you know
so what do i do plz help
I dont know how to talk to her so help girls tell me what i should do i really do like her

2006-11-17 10:06:55 · 8 answers · asked by Altaf M 1 in Singles & Dating