Family & Relationships - 17 November 2006

okay i have a friend who is 38 with four kids and her husband is in prison.........he has been telling her that when he gets out he wants to try and have another baby. she does not want any more kids but cant tell him this now (while he is in prison) because he is very jealous (he would beat her up) and will automatically assume that she is having an affair and that is why she wants to tie her tubes........

...........so is there anything that she can say to her husband to make him believe that it was highly recommended for her to get her tubes tied?? like.......they a cancerous orsomething??........she wants to do it while he is in there and just not tell him.....but she is scared that one day she will get sick or have an infection of some sort due to tying her tubes. and the drs will tell her husband ''well sir your wife's life is in danger because of tying her tubes'' he will freak out and probably kill the dr.....


so now that you know the story is there anything that she can say

2006-11-17 10:32:22 · 18 answers · asked by beauty i 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

See I know a girl. She's my friend. While we were in 7th grade I started to get feelings for her. She had feelings for me too. SO we hooked up over the summer. However she broke up with me before we went back into school and my heart was ripped. We still remained friends. We're now in 8th grade and she likes this other guy that's one of our friends. She still hasn't told him and I'm the only one who knows. Now I don't know what to do. My emotions are mixed. I'm kinda jealous (Cuz I never really got over her) and then again I don't care. The thing that's bothering me what should I do. I want to help her but that would hurt me. I'm confused. i can count on you guys to help

2006-11-17 10:32:12 · 9 answers · asked by Magnim Opus 3 in Singles & Dating

I mean it's really is a piece of crap, but so is she. Heck the tires are all flat (kinda like her) everything leaks (again her) all the cracks in the floor squeak (again) and it smells real bad (again).
The thing is, the house, ok trailer, is worth about 500 bucks. More that she is by about 400 bucks. On a good night.
If I do, do you think she'll quit sitting on the trailer hitch of my truck?

2006-11-17 10:32:04 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Did you make any lifestyle changes? How has life changed for you since? How do you see life differently?

2006-11-17 10:31:44 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Ok..I've been with my boyfriend for 2 years (I'm 21 he's 25) and here lately we have been fighting a lot. The main cause of the fight is that I work to much. Which I understand because I do. I work at a police department and here lately we have been having to pull some pretty long shifts. If I were him I'd feel a little neglected myself. My problem is he wants me to get a different job because he doesn't like my hours and I don't get paid enough. I agree with that also but I LOVE my job. Is he somewhat right in wanting me around more? It's not like he is being bossy or controlling about it because he's not TELLING me to do it he's just askin. I just really don't want my job to be the cause of so many fights when we've made it 2 years with hardly fighting at all. Any suggestions are great. THANX!!

2006-11-17 10:30:49 · 5 answers · asked by mthcowgurl 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-17 10:30:35 · 19 answers · asked by yo mama. 1 in Friends

2006-11-17 10:30:05 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

OK girls does size matter to you?

How small is just too small for you?

Is a slim 5incher too small?

Would you prefer your boyfriend/partner to have a slim 5incher or a thick 7incher?

2006-11-17 10:29:49 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-17 10:29:21 · 8 answers · asked by DREAMY 2 in Singles & Dating

theres this weird creepy gross kid at school who people have said he likes me which is the grossest thing in the world. Now the guy i do like makes fun of me for it and i reallywant him to know i like him but someone told me he has a girlfriend. what on earth do i do?

2006-11-17 10:29:16 · 1 answers · asked by Ashley M 2 in Singles & Dating

weve seen each other on webcams and talked over mikes. weve expressed love for each other. but theres really no telling if she REALLY means it. how stupid am i?

2006-11-17 10:28:52 · 6 answers · asked by audidriver88 1 in Singles & Dating

We were all having a wonderful time in the bath tub just relaxing and bathing and then I felt so guilty that my husband and my grandpa had to watch our baby. I know that isn't a man's job, but they were so nice to do it anyways. We must have been bathing for atleast 30 minutes. How can I repay my husband and my grandfather for being so nice to babysit?

2006-11-17 10:28:26 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

i'm in detention and am very bord.

2006-11-17 10:28:19 · 10 answers · asked by jimmyskingdomhearts 1 in Family

i have been married almost a year what do i get her for the 1st anniversary i want it to be something to do with paper and please no gift certs thanks to all

2006-11-17 10:28:04 · 14 answers · asked by ocairde 2 in Weddings

...and puts his hand on inner thigh...what does it mean?
...And do guys do that for their own pleasure or the girl's..or both?

2006-11-17 10:27:54 · 14 answers · asked by sparkzxx 4 in Singles & Dating

I grew up hearing from every woman and man that there is no such thing as a loyal man, I always accuse my husband of cheating and then he proves me wrong. i think this can ruin our marriage.

2006-11-17 10:27:26 · 18 answers · asked by maria o 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Ok so I asked my on and off again gf of 10 months back out last week. She said yes and she was happy to be with me again and blah blah. So last night she tells me "I dont know if we can fix everything" so I ask her what is she trying to say and then she dumped me. So I told her ok and just give me space cuz I dont know if I can be her friend after that. So this afternoon she sent me a email saying that we should just forget each other and no more making up no more talking no more anything and that I should forget the last 10 months and move with my life and I should never doubt that she loves me. Really wtf is that, that doesnt show that she loves me or even gives a crap about me. What should I do? What is her problem?

2006-11-17 10:27:02 · 8 answers · asked by slaphappy 3 in Singles & Dating

OK fine, you can't win the argument. Go to sleep and then cup a fart at her. You will laugh your a$$ off, trust me. Especially if she almost wakes up and stirs in dusgust. Then you might not feel so bad.

2006-11-17 10:26:58 · 9 answers · asked by ? 4 in Singles & Dating

He was recently murdered last month and we have a 3 month old together. We were together for a year and a half and never once mentioned to me that he had three other children all in steps ranging from 10, 9, and 7. He told me that our son together was his first and how he was so excited.So you can imagine my dismay when all these women showed up @ his grandfather's house the day of his death with their kids all looking exactly like him . I was so !@#$#@ peeded off that I didnt attend the services for him out of town nor have
I attempted to contact his family . If anything I felt totally betrayed and just down right hurt. Me personally I feel like a damn fool. Please am I wrong for being so angry?

2006-11-17 10:25:53 · 9 answers · asked by LIBRA34 2 in Family

my last patner cheated on me after 13yrs and 3 kids later how do i trust my new partner he goes out alot i dont mind that but now and then i panick and think hes cheatting on me help

2006-11-17 10:25:47 · 9 answers · asked by kat 1 in Singles & Dating

Would you leave your spouse, family (spouse and children), or girl/boyfriend if you knew a relationship with the past lover was definite?

2006-11-17 10:23:53 · 9 answers · asked by Laughing Libra 6 in Other - Family & Relationships

has a father with one arm or missing fingers cant remeber which one

2006-11-17 10:23:10 · 2 answers · asked by julie m 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-17 10:22:41 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-17 10:22:22 · 84 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-17 10:21:22 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

( The farmer insists )

2006-11-17 10:21:00 · 18 answers · asked by ? 5 in Weddings

Me and my BFFF went to a party. and nothing really happend, but we played a game of truth or dare and i told her bf what happend and now she flipped out and said i was a b**** and that she dosent want to tallk to me that iam a terrible person. I did what i thought was right. Her bf is like my really good friend and now shes telling him he cant tallk to me anymore but he does anyway. I've crieed to her face and told her i was sry but she dosent care.and now shes telling everyone that "we are no longer friends." im so sad and i need help!

2006-11-17 10:20:56 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2006-11-17 10:20:48 · 4 answers · asked by MsMoneyPenny 1 in Family

What would you do to express your love to her?

2006-11-17 10:20:16 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My heart is so broke. I met her over a year ago. We really hit it off right from the start. I've read so many books on relationships, I really thought I was ready. I know it's so important to BE THERE when they need you, and I was. She needed money because she was pregnant when we met, I supported her through that 100% REALLY. She needed money for her mom, I took care of that 8k. She needed a car, I bought her a new one, and YES it's in her name...I really wanted her to feel like she had something that belonged to her. I paid for her apartment and bills, everything she needed. She hasn't returned my calls in 3 weeks, today she sent a note saying it's over...and not to ever call again.

Is there a way I can win her back?

2006-11-17 10:19:10 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating