See I know a girl. She's my friend. While we were in 7th grade I started to get feelings for her. She had feelings for me too. SO we hooked up over the summer. However she broke up with me before we went back into school and my heart was ripped. We still remained friends. We're now in 8th grade and she likes this other guy that's one of our friends. She still hasn't told him and I'm the only one who knows. Now I don't know what to do. My emotions are mixed. I'm kinda jealous (Cuz I never really got over her) and then again I don't care. The thing that's bothering me what should I do. I want to help her but that would hurt me. I'm confused. i can count on you guys to help
2006-11-17 10:32:12 · 9 answers · asked by Magnim Opus 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i understand how you could be hurt. but be supportive. maybe she will eventually get over this guy and go back to you. who knows. just be a friend
2006-11-17 10:34:58 · answer #1 · answered by Bear 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are 14-15 years old, and in the next few years you are going to see a ton of this type of thing, so in your best interest my advice is let the girl make up her own mind, you stand back and watch which way things fall and then you get to step in or out with no one the wiser
2006-11-17 18:39:02 · answer #2 · answered by rkilburn410 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've been in you position before and expereince has taught me that the best course of action to take is to just step aside and let her do whatever she wants to do. If helping her doesnt feel right to you then it probably isn't, just leave the situation as is. To be quite frank with you, her situation really isn't any of your business, unless she asks for your help, just stay out of it. Butting in will end up messing your friendship with her.
2006-11-17 18:48:22 · answer #3 · answered by dreamer 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
find a girl friend and move on there r so many fishes in the sea as girls on earth :D
in life there r good and bad thing never always good and never always bad. try moving on u r still young u will may have this situation again
move on man
2006-11-17 19:27:49 · answer #4 · answered by Edvard F 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just told her you've got knock your head over her. There's nothing wrong of telling the thruth.
2006-11-17 18:37:53 · answer #5 · answered by Ashlyn_47 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you cant make her like you you just have to get over it and you will find someone else. She is probably better as a friend to you,
2006-11-17 18:34:31 · answer #6 · answered by mash 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just move on. You still have a long away to go.
2006-11-17 18:37:28 · answer #7 · answered by joesy617 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her you still have feeling for her but you would like to help her ggo out with that other uy she going to think about what you said and she is going to reconsider probaly in liking you always work
2006-11-17 18:35:37 · answer #8 · answered by shanikaking71492 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she sounds kinda rude. find another girl to get close to ull make her jealous and get over her at the same time GOOD LUCK!!!
2006-11-17 18:34:50 · answer #9 · answered by practicully_famouse 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋