Family & Relationships - 17 November 2006

I broke up with this guy because he didn't do anything. He acted like a friend instead of a boyfriend. He never hugged me or held my hand or kissed me or anything. Should I talk to him about it and see what he says? I still kind of like him but i'm not sure what to do.

2006-11-17 10:45:07 · 19 answers · asked by Brianna 1 in Singles & Dating

he has the biggest ever, Width and lenght, trust me, he beats John Holmes, So can anyone say that they got it like John holmes or not,

2006-11-17 10:44:19 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

white guys always flirt with me but still are initmidated by my beauty and color. why?

2006-11-17 10:43:32 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok my friend cheated on her boyfriend, with some guy that she likes when we were playing truth or dare! they were dared to make out! and they they kept making out though out the night? what should she do about it, she likes her boyfriend alot and she doesnt know what to do and i want to help her!

2006-11-17 10:43:11 · 16 answers · asked by *KiAnA* =] 2 in Singles & Dating

me and my friend have been best friends for two years. things have been getting worse though... now there is a big group of our friends, and whenever shes with one of our other friends, she totally ignores me. i'd be saying something, and then she will just act like its not important and she'll but in. she also is trying to controll me; everyday she asks me over and when i cant come, she gives me this silent treatment. The worst thing shes been doing lately is shes been making fun of alot of people that she hasnt even met yet. shell see strangers in the hall and start telling me how ugly they are, when they could be a really nice person. not to be mean or anything, but she isnt so pretty herself. ive been starting to ignore her when she acts like that, but it doesnt help much. her mother is just the same. ive tried talking to her, but she just brushes it off. what should i do??

2006-11-17 10:42:37 · 5 answers · asked by Katie 2 in Friends

i got in a fight becouse she never comes to see me, and only ever dose what her husband wants and goes see his family all the time. so today she called and asked if she could come over for thanksgiving, she also said she wants to becouse its on the way to her husbans familys house so they would come to my house them have a party or whatever are his parents house! should i invite her over or tell her i have plans?

2006-11-17 10:42:31 · 6 answers · asked by electra 1 in Family

I love him but hes totally in another plane, and lovesick,. I want to stay together but I am scared becayuse he keeps saying things that have me believe hes daydreaming about marriage when weve only been together for about a month. I dont want to hurt this guy, hes totally great but his love is over the top and mine is just getting started. I cant help but worry that if we dont communicate the relationship is doomed. After all, we still are getting to know each other arent we? But what do i say or do? I dont want to hurt him or ruin everything, just want to be on the same page somehow.

2006-11-17 10:42:19 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i've met this european guy on myspace and been communicating with him for more than a year, he's visitng my country for vacation but as the days become closer upon meeting him soon, things aren't as good as before between us. he's in a band and quite have a lot of chicks flirting around him but he kept reminding me that it's me he really wants. (pffft!) our chats are becoming less and whenever we're online he always tells me he's gonna be busy that time, or just talk for a couple of minuites then he'll tell me he has things to do but he's still actually online. i don't tend to bother him anymore. i know he can be a busy person but before, he finds time to catch me online and send a text message quite often. he has time on replying to his girl friends but he doesn't have time to talk to me now. once in a while he's being sweet then disappears. probably 'coz he's just going here i guess. my interest in him also is starting to fade. when he's being sweet, i just give him a casual reply

2006-11-17 10:41:22 · 6 answers · asked by kaatje 3 in Singles & Dating

My ex broke up with me two months ago. She broke up with me the day after she started seeing a therapist for her troubles. Her father died 5 months ago, she has low self esteem, and told me she has been unhappy for a long time. She said that she could not be happy in a relationship until she was happy with herself. She apologized, asked me not to hate her, and said she thought we had really good potential, but the timing of us sucked because of her. She apologized for me having to deal with a crazy person like her but said she hoped we could talk and be friends cuz thats all she could handle for the moment. I told her that I understood and am there 4 her if she ever needs anyone. I have not seen her in two months. I know she goes out with her other friends alot. I may hear from her every 2 weeks. She says that she hopes I am doing well and to drop her a line whenever. So do you think she misses me, or how do you think she sees me, maybe seein me would make her sad???

2006-11-17 10:40:48 · 12 answers · asked by Clrcut27 1 in Marriage & Divorce

should I call the engagement off ?
btw the bleeding has stopped from the shotgun wound now. Thanks for all your concern

2006-11-17 10:40:36 · 74 answers · asked by ? 5 in Weddings

she also comes into the unisex steam room in a super small swim suit

2006-11-17 10:40:27 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

There's this boy, at the beging of the school year he used to look at me every day (in classes, hallways ,lunch , ect).
Once I found out, I looked back. After he caught me looking back, he ignored me.
So, In return, I ignored him. Now, he looks at me again.

Also, I've never met this kid.

I'm seriously confused. Why does he keep looking at me and why won't he talk to me?

2006-11-17 10:40:01 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Well heres the deal i told my BFF about a guy ive like 4 2 yrs. she keep it a secrat, till i heard from another friend tht he found out due 2 some other ppl noing and i asked her bout it and she broke down in tears and strated hugging me and saying tht it was a accident and tht she sry and tht she did nt mena 2 hurt me and tht she tryed 2 stop it from spreading and tht she was sry again and a gain and a agina nd again... well u get the pic so i hugged her back and told her a forgave her, which i do because she is the absolute BEST FRIEND I HAVE EVA HAD andi love her 2 pieces. the way he fould out is tht our other BFF had the same bookbag as 1 of his friends, soo she wrote a note 2 her talking bout it and she put it the wrong 1...
sooo yea i forgive her but is there anyway i can fix this? thnxs!

2006-11-17 10:39:21 · 9 answers · asked by potatobuggy11 1 in Singles & Dating

all of the other girls have boyfriends but none will ask me out. what do i do? im so lonely!

2006-11-17 10:38:59 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

if i am 12 can i change which parent i live with or visit??

2006-11-17 10:38:39 · 6 answers · asked by motor mouth 2 in Marriage & Divorce

its been five days since me and my boyfriend broke up. ive been trying everything to get over it and keep my mind busy. but i find myself listening to sad music, not really eating, and having trouble sleeping. im not tha type of gurl to have trouble finding a man, its just that i have trouble finding the right man. im just so used to talking to him every day and nite. i guess i should have never got emotionally attached to someone (19) two years younger than me(21)!!!

2006-11-17 10:38:13 · 10 answers · asked by kimmie21 1 in Singles & Dating

Because my husband started a new job tonight. He left me flowers and a nice card and I got him nothing. I was kind of aggravated about the timing - he didn't have to start tonight. Should I get him a card and gift or can I skate with a card?

2006-11-17 10:37:52 · 15 answers · asked by Holly R 6 in Marriage & Divorce

I have a crush on my closest guy friend. I have an eating disorder and self esteem disorder and he's the only one who knows about them. He's really caring and tells me I'm gorgeous and has even become angry with me, multiple times about the subject. But I also know for a fact that he likes girls who are generally way more confidant than me. and I've been told things like, guys like girls who like themselves, and different things like that. So, I was just wondering if it sounds like he would be able to accept my low confidance, you know, look past it and consider having a relationship.

2006-11-17 10:37:22 · 11 answers · asked by Mina V 1 in Singles & Dating

this guy i've known since we were like 4 years old.we've been best friends 4ever and he gave me my 1st kiss 2 weeks ago. well i asked him if we were goin out and he said" i dont know. i'll think about it" so i call him 3 days later and he said" i got a gf 2 days ago." i was so happy. so i said" so we're goin out" and he says " no, i go out w/ a girl named alicen.srry i forgot about u." i was sooooo mad.so i call him and we talk and all he talks about is alicen. he says stuff like" i don't think we'll ever break up. we're the perfect couple." and he tells me that alicen want to kiss him but shes scared and if they do kiss, then she might make out w/him. so do u think he's trying to make me jealous or something like that. i like him so much i could die. plz help. need answers ASAP!!!!!!! thx.

2006-11-17 10:36:55 · 8 answers · asked by rock chic3 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-17 10:35:58 · 6 answers · asked by nodumgys 7 in Other - Family & Relationships

My half-sister and I are the same age and in the same grade. I feel like we are constantly compared, like we're one instead of two. We should "get along" because we're the same age. Is it normal I would want to not have the same friends as her, not, well, to have anything to do with her...?

2006-11-17 10:35:40 · 5 answers · asked by _Viv_ 2 in Family

Hi,....well um, i am i guess what you'd call a "clingy and needy person" but what i want to know, is like, how do u know if u really love someone, or if you are just clingy, and emotionally attached?.........

2006-11-17 10:35:29 · 6 answers · asked by Saraaah:) 1 in Singles & Dating

My half-sister and I are the same age and in the same grade. I feel like we are constantly compared, like we're one instead of two. We should "get along" because we're the same age. Is it normal I would want to not have the same friends as her, not, well, to have anything to do with her...?

2006-11-17 10:35:28 · 6 answers · asked by _Viv_ 2 in Singles & Dating

I really, really like him, and we're great friends. We laugh together, talk together, tease each other, walk together - we really are great friends. Ever since we've become friends, I've liked him in "that way" but don't know if I want to tell him, or if he likes be back. How can I tell if he likes me?

2006-11-17 10:34:51 · 10 answers · asked by Beatlemaniac 1 in Singles & Dating

It's my hen night in a few months time. I need some ideas on hen night dares.

2006-11-17 10:34:23 · 12 answers · asked by thefurnissfamily 1 in Weddings

to make you laugh when you were blue??? Or what did he or she do to make you happy again?

2006-11-17 10:34:02 · 9 answers · asked by newbie wife 6/16/07 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

he walks with a cane and lives in a small town called williamsburg in kentucky..

2006-11-17 10:33:44 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Well my sister is 23 and recently got married but I notice she is sad most of the time and has lost alot of weight..it hurts me to see her that way.. but she says everyday it fights and arguments about stupid stuff.. I tell her to pray about it she tells me they both pray together they are fine for a couple of days and its back to the same thing..I told her to come home but she said she got herself into the marriage so she will try to work it out ..What can I do for her she is my baby sister..I thought marriage was suppose to be happy ..I'M single and she tells me I'm better off that way..

2006-11-17 10:33:24 · 18 answers · asked by sweetlatina1272 2 in Marriage & Divorce

She doesn't know I know. But she told a friend and that friend told my friend and she told me. Should i be worried? Is that not kinda young???? And her boyfriends kinda shady........

2006-11-17 10:33:12 · 33 answers · asked by love_guilt_n_longing 1 in Friends

2006-11-17 10:33:04 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating