K, my situation is complex!
My hub. n I have only been married 2 years but have been living together 10. My mother had cancer, I bought a bigger house, moved her in with then fiancés approval...over a year conflicts, things mellowed, marriage, things got insane, conflicts more and more, we are all control freaks, *HIS MAJOR FLAWS: he abuses prescrip. valium and mary jane, mom never totally approved, nor do I of his drug use any more of which he now blames my mom...he propositioned a friend....AFTER marriage...
Just a total mess.
I love him but don't trust him.
Could I ever make it work or am I sadomasochistic (sp)? Is it all my and my mom's fault...
I'm a mommy's girl. She cared for me for years after a debilitating accident...
Who do I choose?
Does husband ALWAYS come first?
Much more to story but it's like a novel.
2006-11-17
11:11:24
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