Family & Relationships - 17 November 2006

2006-11-17 12:00:29 · 8 answers · asked by hegimony1 1 in Singles & Dating

so today my really good friend asked me to give him h**d
and i dont know what do do cause i mean we arnt even going out we are just friends and i just dont know how to respond to this.

guys what would you expect a girl to do in this situation and what would you do if she didnt know how to respond

please help i think my friendship is on the line here

2006-11-17 11:59:45 · 4 answers · asked by musicisme1992 1 in Singles & Dating

She had sex with three different black men while separated from my son (who is white) and I am having a hard time accepting this child. I know it isnt the babys fault, its just the fact that she is gloating about it. HELP

2006-11-17 11:59:03 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

After 8 months I saw my ex boyfriend at my university campus. We go to the same university. He came up to me and seemed REALLY happy to see me, he was smiling and looking deeply into my eyes, he kept asking me all these questions. I kinda seemed annoyed. At the end of the conversation, he said he said he had to go , then he said "give me a shoutout and we can do something" , and I just looked at him, and he said "yeah we can see a movie together or anything you want", I just said bye and walked away. He was the one who dumped me 8 months ago. We only dated for a month and it never went past kissing cuz I'm saving myself for marriage. Now, I would never ask him out, since he dumped me. Is there any ways that I can get HIM to ask me out in a more direct way...? I know I could just ask him to see a movie, but I want HIM to make the first step. I want him to say "so do u wanna see a movie or....? Today he put "Casino Royale" as his msn quote. He likes James Bond movies & the new one is coming out tomorrow. I logged in msn today and he didn’t start a conversation with me & he didn’t ask me to see the movie with me. Since he hasn’t asked me for this movie does this mean that all his happiness & “let’s see a movie” was fake?

2006-11-17 11:58:01 · 14 answers · asked by sweet kisses 1 in Singles & Dating

We have being very close for the past few weeks espescially, and for a few months been good friends. She broke it off with her b/f 3 weeks ago and ever since weve been ever close. Ive been to couple of movies with her, been to countless lunches with her, and also the odd coffee after work etc...We share laughs all the time, and the girl likes to touch me alot, sit on my same seat, kick/hit me too?......are these signs she likes me?.....i think shes getting really impatient now, as in the last week, ive had lunch just the one time, and she hardly responds to my txt's, and in general seems to be mad towards me....is she getting annoyed im not doing anything?The thing that really hurts me though, is that shes now bringing up my mate in conversation, and saying hes cuter than me etc....she knows hes taken, and also she talks to him, but thats as far as it is...she never goes to movies, or lunches etc with him. I dont know whether she knows i get hurt when she talks like this. Please help!

2006-11-17 11:56:27 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What turns guys on the most?

2006-11-17 11:55:42 · 1 answers · asked by sweetheart--xo 2 in Singles & Dating

I love him so much... and i really want him... but sometimes i feel nervous... again, he has been so nice to wait for me and what's more to not have sex for more than two years... should i be being more considerate and give my virginity to him?

2006-11-17 11:55:21 · 37 answers · asked by ? 4 in Singles & Dating

Man some women wouldnt know a good man if he punched her in the freakin face and made her agree!! GOSH!

2006-11-17 11:54:09 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok I was at work today and my boyfriend told me he would bring me lunch. I told him ok, ( I just started this job a wek ago dont really know anyone.) well he came by some employees said hi i said hi and took the food. and i asked no drink ? he started laughing and said cant u go get one at the store. I said yeah i can. Then he said well by and i said bye bye! Well i get a text message a few mins later and it said "I can't believe u didnt interduice me or come give me a kiss or anything. well i called him and he said I guess im going to have to tech u some nice maners and i told him sorry i just wasnt thinking. he said whatever I told him im sorry i didnt mean to hurt ur feelings and he said yeah sure and to let u know i'll never bring u lunch again. I need some opinios Please.

2006-11-17 11:53:15 · 8 answers · asked by fallin_person_help_me 1 in Singles & Dating

Hi, my name is Yen, and I recently promise my younger brother if he did good in school I will buy a PS3 for him. He showed me improvement on his grade, so as promised and I closed my store down and went to wait in line with my girlfriend at the Wal-mart Super Center located in Garland, TX. I arrived 48 hours ahead of PS3 launch date so I was first in line.
I camped overnight and at 8AM, 40 hours before release, the co-manager, night time manager, and electronic department manager came to talk to my girlfriend and I to ask us to leave because their boss (general manager) said they will not start the line until 3:30pm. Eight and half hours before the PS3 release. I double-checked and asked, “Are you sure?” Then they went to call the one they claimed to be the BOSS again and came back to tell me that he said, “This is his Wal-mart and this is how he is going to do it.” Since he was the boss, I guess I had to trust him. On my way back, I stopped by few other Wal-marts and there was lines already forming. So I got worried but I still follow what the BOSS told me at that Garland Wal-mart.
I went home but didn’t sleep at all. I was so worried about breaking my promise to my little brother that I went back to that Garland Wal-mart at 4AM (20hrs before release). And what did I find? I find a line already forming for the PS3. Whatever that boss said to me at 8:00 AM was a lie. I got very upset and went to talk to the night-time manager because the general manager won’t come in until 8 AM. He told me he was sorry, but nothing he could do and he don’t know why either. So, I went to wait in the cold until 8AM then went in to the store to argue with the general manager and of course he did not care what I had to say him. First, he had the audacity to assume I wanted it so bad because I wanted to sell it on e-Bay. And after I explain to him this is for my younger brother, he looked at me in the eye and told me, “You can hate me, but there is nothing I can do.” Please people out there; I’m reporting this store and management. But I need support. Please help me and tell me what I can do.

2006-11-17 11:52:07 · 3 answers · asked by Yen C 1 in Family

Looks
Height
Sense of Humour
Personality
Girth
Width

What does it for you!?!?!?!

2006-11-17 11:52:05 · 12 answers · asked by untanuta 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-11-17 11:51:22 · 19 answers · asked by megzy_d 1 in Singles & Dating

PLZ

2006-11-17 11:51:16 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

So here is the deal...i met my current bf on myspace.We are still together, and things seem just fine except usual arguments time to time which is i guess normal. The weird part is that since we are together, he consistently denies the cute little comments i leave on his page. Not that I care about what it says on that stupid webpage but i'm wondering why? Or sometimes he accepts them but like a day later he deletes them off.When I ask the answer is usually "there was something wrong with myspace everything got weird etc". And recently he told me that I'm not doing enough "romantic stuff". I left a "I love you be safe" note on his windshield, no reaction, when I ask " I thought about calling you" but no he didn't. I text him something cute, no answer..What the hell is that? When we are together everything is ok.

2006-11-17 11:50:59 · 5 answers · asked by stardarko 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-17 11:50:49 · 11 answers · asked by 120 IQ 4 in Singles & Dating

Okay i was sleeping this evening and i got a phone call. answered it and it was my girlfriend sayin that she had passed her exam she was studying for weeks for. Still in a sleepy state of mind i didnt react as excited as she wanted me to so she got disappointed and upset. i apologised to her but i dont know if thts enough. im always apologising and we argue alot, i feel like i cant tell her stuff sometimes because of how she'd react. but i love her, we've been together for a year and now im lost and i dont know what to do. help plz!!!

2006-11-17 11:49:45 · 11 answers · asked by rocky 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-17 11:49:38 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I met someone a few months ago & been dating, He still is married but seperated, He has a 2 year old boy, which I have not met yet, He picks his son up everyother weekend. He said at first the divorce was just not finaly yet, I found out now that they like it this way, because they can do there taxes together & she still get covered with health benifits....This bothers me alot, I haven't said TO MUCH yet b/c its only been a few months, I thought they might persue the divorce after this tax season. I was excided about thanksgiving b/c I wanted to ask him to go with me, But I just asked him what he does for thanksgiving and he told me he goes to his familys & at night he goes to the wifes house and has dinner with them (wife & son) Now I think there is something wrong with that, when I said so, he got mad & said people don't have to hate each other, Me and her just like hang out with our son together & thats all. How do I get it through his head that this isn't right, or am I wrong. HELP

2006-11-17 11:49:15 · 23 answers · asked by Sweetie 2 in Marriage & Divorce

i'm suppose to meet this girl from online for mini golf in a lil over an hour, but i'm not so sure i wanna go now. i have no way to contact her to cancel so its either just go to stand her up. bc i looked at her pics aagain and i'm really not attracted to her...atall. and dont reeally wanna pay money to go on this date when im not into her physically. my friend ashley says dont go if ure not into her. and agrees shes ugly. what shouldi do?

2006-11-17 11:48:44 · 18 answers · asked by ? 1 in Singles & Dating

Hi, my name is Yen, and I recently promise my younger brother if he did good in school I will buy a PS3 for him. He showed me improvement on his grade, so as promised and I closed my store down and went to wait in line with my girlfriend at the Wal-mart Super Center located in Garland, TX. I arrived 48 hours ahead of PS3 launch date so I was first in line.
I camped overnight and at 8AM, 40 hours before release, the co-manager, night time manager, and electronic department manager came to talk to my girlfriend and I to ask us to leave because their boss (general manager) said they will not start the line until 3:30pm. Eight and half hours before the PS3 release. I double-checked and asked, “Are you sure?” Then they went to call the one they claimed to be the BOSS again and came back to tell me that he said, “This is his Wal-mart and this is how he is going to do it.” Since he was the boss, I guess I had to trust him. On my way back, I stopped by few other Wal-marts and there was lines already forming. So I got worried but I still follow what the BOSS told me at that Garland Wal-mart.
I went home but didn’t sleep at all. I was so worried about breaking my promise to my little brother that I went back to that Garland Wal-mart at 4AM (20hrs before release). And what did I find? I find a line already forming for the PS3. Whatever that boss said to me at 8:00 AM was a lie. I got very upset and went to talk to the night-time manager because the general manager won’t come in until 8 AM. He told me he was sorry, but nothing he could do and he don’t know why either. So, I went to wait in the cold until 8AM then went in to the store to argue with the general manager and of course he did not care what I had to say him. First, he had the audacity to assume I wanted it so bad because I wanted to sell it on e-Bay. And after I explain to him this is for my younger brother, he looked at me in the eye and told me, “You can hate me, but there is nothing I can do.” Please people out there; I’m reporting this store and management. But I need support. Please help me and tell me what I can do.

2006-11-17 11:48:40 · 4 answers · asked by Yen C 1 in Family

I ask because I really like that song Lips Of An Angel by Hinder that they play on the radio constantly. I also like Secret Lovers by Atlantic Star

2006-11-17 11:48:38 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Uhm, I dont know what I should do about this...?
I've never had a boyfriend. I get nervous when I talk to them. I dont know how to flirt. Is there any hope? What should I do?! I really wish I had a boyfriend...I'm starting to fell really desperate.

2006-11-17 11:48:37 · 2 answers · asked by sweetheart--xo 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-17 11:48:36 · 15 answers · asked by pinkychel 1 in Weddings

I began dating Jeff when I was 15 and I fell in love with him fairly quick. We began having sex when we were 16 and I had what I thought was a close relationship with his mother. She knew that we were having sex and often teased up about overhearing us do it. To make a long story short I got pregnant soon after my 17th birthday. I was devistated because I was a junior in high school ,but I knew I had to own up to my responsiblity and I wanted to keep the baby. I thought that I would have support from Mrs. Wilson but I was wrong. She was upset b/c Jeff is getting looked at from colleges for football scholarships and she began voicing that I WANTED to get pregnant as a ploy to keep him with me. She began calling me a 's**t' 'whore' 'b***h' you name it! The last straw was when she tried to pay for me to get an abortion! I cursed her out and we almost fought! I have recently had Brianna and Jeff has been a very good father to her, but his mother is still a b***h to me! what should I do?

2006-11-17 11:48:20 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok, so I met a guy through a work contact. We hit it off (so I thought). I have had a crush on him ever since. We go to events together, he has invited me to lunch, he has brought me flowers once, we exchange emails on a regular basis. About 4 months into knowing eachother and acting this way, he completely slips that he has a girlfriend. I mean, he really didn't mean to say it. But now I know - he has been with her for 6 years. She is pressuring him toward marriage and he isn't ready. One day I made a comment about her and he says "Yeah, she's a cool girl" I looked at him and said, that is what you say about someone you have dated for a month. You have been with her for 6 years! He said "Well it took me 4 years to even say I love you back". My question is - does it seem like he would ever leave her....perhaps I should ask him out? Perhaps he is only with her for convenience? We seem to have chemistry - but maybe I am just an intellectual relationship for him.....

2006-11-17 11:47:52 · 16 answers · asked by happeyeyes23 1 in Singles & Dating

I was born 8-9-56. Going to relocate and would like to know if my soulmate is there and what his name or initials

2006-11-17 11:47:51 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

me and her have had our last fight! We have fighted for years! I am so sick of it!!!!She sent me a note saying that she wants to be friends and griping me out for getting on her sn!!! I want to be friends,but..I dont want her to ignore me and hang around my crush's GF like she ALWAYS does!!!

2006-11-17 11:47:30 · 6 answers · asked by b_ball_gurl005 1 in Friends

is it cheating if u have phone sex and email flirting with a guy off the internet if ur both seeing other people

2006-11-17 11:47:15 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-17 11:46:43 · 15 answers · asked by noon 2 in Singles & Dating

My crush is about 17 or 18. He is going of to collage next year and doesn’t really want to have a girlfriend (he said this to my friend Johnny). I talk to my crush about 3or 5 times a week at lunch or at a school club. I usually have to talk to him first BUT today he came over and sat at my table + Johnny was there too (he sat near me thou). Also “My crush” was pocking me the whole entire time. LOL!!!!!! Then Johnny opened his big mouth and said that he knew who I liked (and he does know) of course my crush wants to know who I like. LOL. So I tell him I might tell him if he calls me tonight/this weekend. So do you think my crush likes me or am I dreaming??????? He also told Johnny that he doesn’t like anyone. So is he lying or does he like me and wont tell Johnny the truth because he knows we are friends and that we talk???

2006-11-17 11:46:13 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating