Family & Relationships - 17 November 2006

Yes, it's probably a most common question but what can i do?

I'm in love (at least that's what i think i am, like thinking about her everyday and if i see her or speak to her i enjoy every second of it) with this girl.
However, there are a few things/problems:

1. She studies in the same class as me (philosophy/literature).
2. I don't know if she's got a boyfriend at all, which makes it even more difficult to make a move.
3. I'm cowardly in expressing my love for her, or even hinting about it. This is very strong and of course works against me.

So, i'm at a stalemate. I want to do something, but at the same time i don't dare to act as i might ruin the 'neutral' relation with her and have her ignoring me for the rest of life, which is a very heavy sentence (something similair happened to me 5 years ago, might have traumatized me a bit).
So, i realize this sounds hopeless (it is actually), but any advice considering these points would be very much appreciated.

2006-11-17 11:46:05 · 1 answers · asked by Magius Paulus 2 in Singles & Dating

Well their guy that i like and week ago i told him that i liked him, he did not give me an answer, but i asked his friend and he said that he does like me. But scence i have told him ha is always staring at me, always talk to me, and when ever we are in the same room he is always showing off!!!! does he like me

2006-11-17 11:44:32 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Is is true that in some states when one does not have a WILL that the state can take custody of their children and much more?

2006-11-17 11:43:39 · 8 answers · asked by Donald S 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Long story short: im planning on asking this guy out but ive been told that i should flirt a little first. How?

2006-11-17 11:43:23 · 12 answers · asked by MorganR 1 in Singles & Dating

Is it just a feeling or is there more, and what is the difference between lust & love if there is one

2006-11-17 11:43:00 · 12 answers · asked by Kurious Tee 1 in Singles & Dating

Listen I am not lazy, its just that I don't really like to work very much. I have just never found a job that doesn't put me to sleep. So since I am sleeping anyway why don't I just stay home, and enjoy some of the true pleasures in life; sleeping and eating! I think it would be pretty fun training for something like this. I could eat tons of steaks, bacon, eggs, drink glasses of butter(seriously it tastes good). My wife says she will leave me if I do it but my other gf is actually encouraging me. She says she will stay home and serve me so I won't burn calories. So my question is how much, and should I go for it? Thanks

2006-11-17 11:43:00 · 8 answers · asked by da-chi-town-man 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

he doesn't know and he stays with me like a friend.

2006-11-17 11:42:56 · 17 answers · asked by kdmatharu21 1 in Friends

Up until about 5 months ago me & my best friend were very close. Maid of honors at each others wedding. Then one day it seems like she fell off the face of the earth. When I would call, she wouldn't call back. Then 2 months later she called & left a vague message on my machine. After a while I stopped calling, hoping she would call ...but never did. We never had a fight & my feelings are hurt. What would you do? This is a friendship that I really valued.

2006-11-17 11:42:41 · 5 answers · asked by nikki 1 in Friends

How do you feel when guys make this statement?

2006-11-17 11:42:10 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-17 11:42:04 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

there's this guy.HAHA cmon guys, read on.i read somewhere that you shouldn't date someone without the will to marry them. but he means so much more to me. when i first moved, life was hell. but you know he moved here and we meet in church. we both moved in the same month, and life was hell. and he's the reason why i'm still here, why i can't go back. and i'm the reason why he comes every sunday to the church that is a mile away, when theres a church 10 mintues away from his house. but he doesn't praise God as much as he should.
i thought i was in love with him.
but then i meet this other guy, who is a different race, and totally imperfect. but i love the fact he loves the Lord, and he said he would cook for me when he never cooks for anybody else.

so maybe, i do need to wait. for the right person and just focus on God. but this is driving me crazy. i'm a teen. a hormone driven teen. i can't control my feelings, nor do i want to. i find myself sinning constantly bc even though we are

2006-11-17 11:42:00 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I was 21 and she was 23, but she said after 2 months she couldn't deal with it anymore, in particular she hated me giving my opinion even tho it may have been right simply because she felt she was older, and that my opinion didnt matter as much because of that....I thought it was a pretty lame excuse to call it quits.

2006-11-17 11:41:25 · 8 answers · asked by hegimony1 1 in Singles & Dating

So here's the deal. I catch her looking at me in class all the time. She gave me her phone number and we talk online/text/phone all the time. We usually meet up after school a couple times a week to study, too. BUT... normally I'd say shes out of my league and she dateing someone else right now. Also, she doesn't hag with me duringschool around our other friends. What's the deal?

2006-11-17 11:40:44 · 7 answers · asked by One_Man_Show 2 in Singles & Dating

do u ever wonder how did i get here. im 20 years old married and have a baby. im happy with my life. and i know im the one that made these decisions and thats why my life is the way it is. but is it wrong to miss my old life? i feel like iv lost myself in the past year. my husband works alot every weekend and mostly nights. so we hardly ever go out. i use to have so many friends but don't anymore cuz i don't have much in common with most 20 year olds. i get so stressed out so easy. and get unhappy some days. and take it out on my hubby. i miss having alot of friends and having fun. (not drinking or datin) just doing stuff. u know? does anyone feel the same way? is it wrong feeling like this?

2006-11-17 11:40:38 · 13 answers · asked by sexymama06 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-11-17 11:40:37 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

earn the name of players just like guys when they sleep around instead of s*** or w****? If we're not in a relationship how can we earn that name too?

2006-11-17 11:40:19 · 2 answers · asked by 2sweet4u 4 in Singles & Dating

I have ask, you, ebay, to unsubsribe me a month ago and you still send me your ****!!!! I do not want to hear from you again or ever see you on my p.c. again... Is this understood? I have asked only 5 times now! I will call my atterney the next time I see you!!!

2006-11-17 11:39:54 · 13 answers · asked by Terry P 1 in Singles & Dating

I love in Washington. We have Wal-mart, Fred Myer, dollar stores, Costco...any comments or suggestions? And I don't mind purchasing online.

2006-11-17 11:39:20 · 12 answers · asked by chelleedub 4 in Weddings

2006-11-17 11:38:55 · 9 answers · asked by Joyce 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

is being stationed in iraq a crappy job-watch the vid

http://youtube.com/watch?v=su_pkD_UXPQ&search=iraq

2006-11-17 11:38:23 · 1 answers · asked by bolounit1 2 in Friends

ok here wats going on i have a friend how is cool with every one n huges EVERY girl he sees i on the other hand im not like that i only say waz up to the ppl who im cool with n only talk to a girl if she talks to me can u give me some advise on how i can be more girl friendly (i am not a nerd not a peep i look kinda gangsta i dont have bad looks) girls do i like to talk to me but im kinda shy like when i talk one on one i dont knwo wat to say any advise plz help thanx alot

2006-11-17 11:38:08 · 10 answers · asked by kurdish999 1 in Singles & Dating

Friends ... family ...older siblings ...or even the people (i.e. boyfriend/girlfriend) that the question is about ...

Why ask on here... really ... Is it just attention seeking ..?
or clean harmless fun ..?

2006-11-17 11:38:08 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok well i met this guy and he gave me his phone number, but we didnt really meet he just sort of told me his name and gave me his number. i want to call him but im really shy and i dont no what to say! please help me!

by the way...im only 14 so don't tell me advice you would give to someone older please!

2006-11-17 11:37:43 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

there are some people that have lots of money but are lousy in bed and tends to put a dent in the marriage. others don't make alot but can rock your world. so what is right

2006-11-17 11:36:23 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

how do i get a 60 year old money man ta fall in love with me

2006-11-17 11:36:08 · 5 answers · asked by Jeannie T 3 in Singles & Dating

but i love him and i will never do that

2006-11-17 11:35:58 · 23 answers · asked by booky 1 in Singles & Dating

if one day hes all over u then hes like it u and him dday the he memorizes everything u do and then he goes out with girls he doesnt even hang outy with than he doesnt even talk to them because hes all on you but then one day hell ignore u completeley

2006-11-17 11:35:49 · 3 answers · asked by mandy 2 in Friends

If she was you first in something(ie-kiss,sex,etc) Would you tell her?? If you really liked something about her would you let her know?? If she felt like a burden for wanting to be held in ur arms, would you tell her how you really felt??(if you liked it or not)??

PLEASE ANSWER!!THANX!!!

2006-11-17 11:34:11 · 12 answers · asked by Sakura 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-17 11:33:23 · 67 answers · asked by pinkychel 1 in Marriage & Divorce

these two girls Chelsea and Sydney i know like my bf. i've been friends with Chelsea since prek and she's gone out with my bf b4 but now evry1 told me she liked him again after she brok up with him and her other bf. but, a week ago she said,Are u mad at me? and i said, "yeah u like my bf that's what every1 told me" but she was like, "no i don't".But she flirts with him all the time. Then there's Sydney. She's always really nice to me but always flirts with my bf who she also broke up with. One day chelsea and sydney even both told each other they wished that they wish they nevr broke up with my bf. But Sydney one day before my bday party said that my bf wasn't goin to kiss me but her instead! and she said that he would brake up with me but he didn't want to hurt my feelings. But evry1 talked 2 him and he had no idea what she was talkin about and he said he would nevr brake up with me and she denied evrything she said!!!! what should i dp about these lying backstabing b!tch3s!!!

2006-11-17 11:33:11 · 13 answers · asked by cada-dia 3 in Singles & Dating