there's this guy.HAHA cmon guys, read on.i read somewhere that you shouldn't date someone without the will to marry them. but he means so much more to me. when i first moved, life was hell. but you know he moved here and we meet in church. we both moved in the same month, and life was hell. and he's the reason why i'm still here, why i can't go back. and i'm the reason why he comes every sunday to the church that is a mile away, when theres a church 10 mintues away from his house. but he doesn't praise God as much as he should.
i thought i was in love with him.
but then i meet this other guy, who is a different race, and totally imperfect. but i love the fact he loves the Lord, and he said he would cook for me when he never cooks for anybody else.
so maybe, i do need to wait. for the right person and just focus on God. but this is driving me crazy. i'm a teen. a hormone driven teen. i can't control my feelings, nor do i want to. i find myself sinning constantly bc even though we are
2006-11-17 11:42:00 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
not dating, my heart belongs to two people. can someone please help me? i know it's wrong, but i like liking both of them at the same time. i HATE doing this in front of God.
and gee, i sound like a psycho. hahahaha
but seriuosly, i want to live. i find myself sparked and willing to go through the day because of these two people. even when i'm going through hell. can i still like them.. and talk to them.. and flirt with them? lol
2006-11-17 11:44:51 · update #1
um thanks for sharing?
2006-11-17 11:43:42 · answer #1 · answered by sugar n' spice 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can actually love more than one person. There's no magic that makes everyone unattractive once you hook up with one person. You have to pick which one is the most compatible and make the commitment.
Dating is not the first step to marry. Dating is like test driving different cars for the fun of it. Once you get into one that seems like one that you want to keep, then you get more serious with the dating.
2006-11-17 19:49:06 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is committed to the lord then he'll respect your need to wait until marriage.
What's stronger your will or your libido?
2006-11-17 19:45:47 · answer #3 · answered by sprydle 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋