My BABY DADDY'S MOM HATES ME!!!! help?!?!?!?

Question

I began dating Jeff when I was 15 and I fell in love with him fairly quick. We began having sex when we were 16 and I had what I thought was a close relationship with his mother. She knew that we were having sex and often teased up about overhearing us do it. To make a long story short I got pregnant soon after my 17th birthday. I was devistated because I was a junior in high school ,but I knew I had to own up to my responsiblity and I wanted to keep the baby. I thought that I would have support from Mrs. Wilson but I was wrong. She was upset b/c Jeff is getting looked at from colleges for football scholarships and she began voicing that I WANTED to get pregnant as a ploy to keep him with me. She began calling me a 's**t' 'whore' 'b***h' you name it! The last straw was when she tried to pay for me to get an abortion! I cursed her out and we almost fought! I have recently had Brianna and Jeff has been a very good father to her, but his mother is still a b***h to me! what should I do?

Mrs Wilson also voiced many times that she doesnt think Brianna is Jeff's baby. I have only had sex with him and although I believe Jeffrey trusts me if we ever get into an argument her suspisions sometimes are expressed by him and I HATE that. She has not at all been in Brianna's life and is only focusing on what school Jeff is going to not even taking into account that he has a 9 month old daughter and I dont think I can get her to realize that. Im so heartbroken about this situation

Answer 1

oi. have you thought about marriage counciling?
I know you aren't married, but that's what you need. good group session family/ marriage counciling. and a marriage.
:-) good luck.

Answer 2

The upmost ingredient you should is Jeff's help and observe of on you. because you won't be able to replace the making an allowance for Jeff's mom on you then you may also ignore her. do not communicate over consisting of her except is neccessary. attempt now to not be consisting of her with Jeff isn't modern-day. both Jeff and also you today might want to be to grant all of your like for your toddler. on the sametime, get a very good grade and are available across a very good interest. by that aspect, both one among try to be previous sufficient to flow out and set a kinfolk by yourselves. purely bear in mind Jeff and also you'd be mutually until eventually your very last breathe. Please do not rigidity and difficulty on the thanks to regulate Jeff's mom making an allowance for you. as long as you're satisfied, Jeff and toddler might want to be at liberty too. DUN difficulty be at liberty!!! all the finest to you.

Answer 3

Leave the mother alone. Raise your baby the best you can, and if she continues to bother you, let her know. If she goes over the edge, contact the police and consider getting a restraining order. My friend (who was 11) got a restraining order for 15 feet away @ all times. If she's a minor and you're not, you should eb able to.

Good luck and god bless you

Answer 4

You better make Jeff stand up for you and stop being such a mama's boy. He's the one sleeping with you not her. As for the baby's paternity, go on Maury and make her apologize in your face when he says that Jeff is the father.

Answer 5

Sometimes mothers act like this because they want their children to accomplish things they did not themselves. She probably just feels that you becoming pregnant ruined her son's future. She's bound and determined to prove she's not going to allow your baby to stand in the way of his future since you mentioned she's still checking about colleges for her son. She sounds more like she's in denial. She is denying that baby is her son's child. But you know what? She can't do this forever and if she does, well she's the one going to miss out on her grandchild's life. ;o) hang in there and try not to allow her to bother you. ;o)

Answer 6

shes mad cos u were still in high skool thus why just tell her u re sorry 4 that & everythin will fell in its place (GUUD LUCK) with that.