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We have being very close for the past few weeks espescially, and for a few months been good friends. She broke it off with her b/f 3 weeks ago and ever since weve been ever close. Ive been to couple of movies with her, been to countless lunches with her, and also the odd coffee after work etc...We share laughs all the time, and the girl likes to touch me alot, sit on my same seat, kick/hit me too?......are these signs she likes me?.....i think shes getting really impatient now, as in the last week, ive had lunch just the one time, and she hardly responds to my txt's, and in general seems to be mad towards me....is she getting annoyed im not doing anything?The thing that really hurts me though, is that shes now bringing up my mate in conversation, and saying hes cuter than me etc....she knows hes taken, and also she talks to him, but thats as far as it is...she never goes to movies, or lunches etc with him. I dont know whether she knows i get hurt when she talks like this. Please help!

2006-11-17 11:56:27 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

OK, forgot to mention, shell be on msn and ill be in a convo with her friend....and then shell go oh "my mate" is cuter than you...is that a way of trying to make me jelous?....She invited me to a big lunch with a few people, my mate being one of them, and i said no, you guys go i got other plans, and she forced me to come, and in the end she had to make the plan a week ahead, cause i was busy the week she planned the lunch for.....

2006-11-17 12:04:27 · update #1

Note: what should i do?, she gnna be leaving in the next month for holiday, and need to do something quick, i havent spoke to her since yesterday when she brought my mate up into conversation....even though it was over nothing big, i just hate when she does it, and it hurts.

One other thing, i told her to go to an event i couldnt make it too....i was going to go with her and my mate, i couldnt so i told her to go with my mate(the one she tried to make me jelous about) and have fun.....she never did, she said no im not going to.

2006-11-17 12:12:01 · update #2

8 answers

It sounds like she just wants to be friends with you right now. Maybe she was interested in you before, but now she seems to be more interested in your mate. If you like her a lot and you feel comfortable doing so - make a move....like bring her flowers or something to let her know you're interested in being more than friends.

2006-11-17 11:59:26 · answer #1 · answered by sarahjaniepoo 4 · 0 0

sounds like she may be upset that you haven't made your move yet and maybe she's thinking if she can get you jealous about your "mate" that will motivate you to go in for the "kill". Don't take it personally and don't feel like you HAVE to move to the next level in the relationship if you're not ready to do that. As far as her talking about your friend all the time, don't pay any attention to that. Like you said, he's already with someone else and I believe she's only doing it to make you jealous. Hope it works out for ya, buddy!!

2006-11-17 20:06:00 · answer #2 · answered by baybeegrl5 4 · 0 0

well, she likes you a lot. the reason she isn't responding to your text and talking about your friend like she cares about him is because she really expects you to tell her how you feel. No girl whats to be the one to tell you how they feel first it really makes us feel like the guy doesn't care as much, but as a girl i can tell you we want it desperately. She thinks if she pulls away and doesn't respond to your text you might say something like please talk to me...and that might not seem like that big of a deal but it lets her know you care...and when she talks about the guy she is really looking at how you respond thinking she can figure something out...i hate these games...so if you really what to make things better just come right out and tell her you care about her...and you want to be more than friends...or you will break her heart

Hope i helped...good luck

2006-11-17 20:00:10 · answer #3 · answered by White Flower 2 · 0 0

She's not interested in you if shes talking about other guys especially if shes saying he's cuter than you are. You need to move on and find someone else.

2006-11-17 20:01:46 · answer #4 · answered by missprissy1004 2 · 0 0

If there was a textbook on dating your paragraph would be used as an example. She likes you, she is trying to make you jealous because you didn't show interest in her first attempts. I would bet my last beer quarter that if you liked her and was honest and told her that you just "didn't get it" (obviously you didn't) and showed interest you could date her.

2006-11-17 20:07:17 · answer #5 · answered by Suwsi 1 · 0 0

YEah, she likes you....she's pissed because you haven't made a "move" yet. Hurry up!

2006-11-17 20:02:47 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

yep.She flirting

2006-11-17 19:59:05 · answer #7 · answered by s_lopez_2006 3 · 0 0

Maybe she has her period

2006-11-17 19:58:34 · answer #8 · answered by trombonegirl 4 · 0 0

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