2006-11-17 11:46:43 · 15 answers · asked by noon 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
sweetie-BE outgoing why do you think theres ugly *** people everywhere that have had more reltionships then you?
2006-11-17 11:48:17 · answer #1 · answered by Ronnie P 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because boys are scaredy cats. I always did the asking. If I liked a boy I asked him to go with me and mutual friends to a movie, the mall, bowling, parties, it was always a group thing. That way if I got rejected it wasn't so personal. If we ended up going as a group and hit it off then we would eventually end up dating one on one. I don't know about anyone else, but that worked for me.
2006-11-17 11:54:55 · answer #2 · answered by sexmagnet 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-25 01:33:16 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi Ragiini,
I really do beleive that it is because they are too afraid of asking you out because men have a need to want to impress a woman, but a hot woman, they just think that you can have your pick of any man you want and if they ask you, they would always feel as if they will never be able to impress you when you are so attractive.
I have the same problem as you have and yet, I am very friendly and very nice, but my looks seem to scare men away and I end up thinking it is to do with me but I do attract very ugly or very desperate men!. It is always to do with them and not you, so please don't think that it is because you haven't scared them away - they scare themselves away!
Men, when they see a 'hot' woman, they seem to feel intimidated as if they are not going to be good enough for you to want to go out with them and this is why they keep their distance. They feel inadequate in themselves and not confident enough to ask you out and it is usually the more uglier ones that aren't so worried because they don't fear rejection so much.
The best way around this, is the next time you see a nice man you really like, try to talk to him. If he is too shy and runs away, then he is a coward and doesn't feel very good about himself so remember, it is to do with him - not you. Confident men are the ones that will not be afraid and they are not all ugly! - one of them will want to know you.
Another way I have found useful is when I have not worn any make-up or dressed fully from head to toe in a long skirt and top that hides my figure - this make a woman more approachable as she doesn't appear too confident in her appearance. This does work.
But the important thing is this, if a man is too frightened to ask you out, then that says a lot about him and he will be too afraid of ever getting to know someone beautiful inside and out, so it is their loss at the end of the day, not yours.
You will find somone to like and love you 'hot' or not and I think getting out and meeting other people more will increase your chances a great deal. Be proud of who you are!
2006-11-17 12:08:40 · answer #4 · answered by Shikira-trudi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they are shy, if they think your hot many of them maybe scared to ask you out, or think you are out of there league. I'd say take some initiative and ask someone out yourself.
2006-11-17 11:49:08 · answer #5 · answered by bigbob33 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
most definetly guys would be afraid because they probably dont wanna be known as the first guy to get shot down by one of the hottest girls in school you just intimidate them
2006-11-17 11:50:15 · answer #6 · answered by Matt Koz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cause they're scared you'll say "no."
Who says the boy has to do the asking though?
2006-11-17 11:49:11 · answer #7 · answered by bgii_2000 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why dont you just ask the boy you like instead of him asking you
2006-11-17 15:19:50 · answer #8 · answered by bailey4mail 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think you should ask a guy out that you know likes you and a guy that you like.
2006-11-17 11:56:29 · answer #9 · answered by dude 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
cuz guys r stupid and u have to ask them and well hate to tell u this but umm ya guys r IMATURE!!! thats y it takes a mature girl to ask a guy
2006-11-17 11:49:40 · answer #10 · answered by *Living a {{ღяøM@N!Cღ}} Tragity* 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would like to take you out for dinner....would you care to go out with me? Jack
2006-11-17 11:48:37 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋