Okay i was sleeping this evening and i got a phone call. answered it and it was my girlfriend sayin that she had passed her exam she was studying for weeks for. Still in a sleepy state of mind i didnt react as excited as she wanted me to so she got disappointed and upset. i apologised to her but i dont know if thts enough. im always apologising and we argue alot, i feel like i cant tell her stuff sometimes because of how she'd react. but i love her, we've been together for a year and now im lost and i dont know what to do. help plz!!!
2006-11-17 11:49:45 · 11 answers · asked by rocky 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
did you say you were sleeping?
she ought to understand. ask her how she'd respond if she was asleep. eh?
2006-11-17 11:53:19 · answer #1 · answered by The greatest and the best. 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
A relationship is based on Honesty and Trust. What kind of relationship do you have if your not honest with her and she's believing the things your saying? Everything will be based on lies and like a house of cards....one day...a wind is gonna blow it ALL down. Be up front, if she can't respect your feelings then maybe its time you look into this relationship to see what its really made of. I can understand her being a little disappointed, however, I wouldn't get UPSET about it... So you apologized to HER, after she woke YOU up and SHE gets upset because you didn't do flips on your bed because she passed her test??? I'm seeing High Maintenance!!!
2006-11-17 19:58:23 · answer #2 · answered by Miloree 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you did anything wrong. Your girlfriend is probably super sensitive and takes everything to heart. She should be able to understand that you were sleepy when she called. A relationship won't work if you're afraid to express yourself to her.
You shouldn't have to apologize all the time over stupid little fights like this one. In order to work things out, you guys should sit down face to face and have a long, calm talk about you feel everytime a fight starts, and what you can do to change things.
2006-11-17 20:02:43 · answer #3 · answered by no_butches 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if things aren't going the way they use to go when you both got together, then that just means that your real inside personalitys are coming out...yeah you guys might fight here and there and arguee, but if fighing over dumn things and taking things to the heart then its sad to say that maybe you both need to step back a little....i know she is your gf and all, but not being able to communicate with her and having her get all mad at everthing you say is not worth a fight or arguement....take time talk about what you feel and what is going on with, instead of posting this question maybe you should just let her know and how you feel...what the worst that can happen? her getting mad. you cant say you didn't try to work things out...Best of luck
2006-11-17 19:58:14 · answer #4 · answered by caringloving4you_22 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just sit down and talk to her. Tell her your story and how you feel that you need to examine your relationship.
If things don't work out you could always break up with her. Sometimes that is the right thing to do. Y'know?
2006-11-17 19:53:45 · answer #5 · answered by ¡Free Love! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you argue a lot with means break up is comming soon from her or you but is the path of arguments and fights.
2006-11-17 19:52:57 · answer #6 · answered by PR 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best thing to do is to allow her to cool off but you must always maintain communication with her via small talk.
2006-11-17 20:00:56 · answer #7 · answered by kilroymaster 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you dont think things are running as smoothe as you would like you would haft to break up cant keep waiting for it to get better it wont trust me!
2006-11-17 19:52:25 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop bloody apologising.
apologise once and get your point through, and stop there.
i can't stand people apologise over and over again
2006-11-17 19:52:44 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to her about it and if she dosent understand leave her and im sorry for what the first person said people can be so mean!!!!!my gosh!
2006-11-17 20:01:59 · answer #10 · answered by rockchick182 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋