is it cheating?

Question

is it cheating if u have phone sex and email flirting with a guy off the internet if ur both seeing other people

i am on a break from my boyfriend but he is not from his girlfriend

Answer 1

This is a good one!. It always depends on how stable you are in a relationship. I always see it as if you are happy with your partner, then why do you need to flirt?. If you are doing phone sex for money then it is just a job, if any other reason, then stop!!!, especially if you are with someone. On the internet, the whole flirting thing is just words typed out. To some people it can mean something, to others it doesn't, so be careful, it can all be blown out of perspective. My partner has flirted with a few women of different ages,(always in front of me, the cheeky bugger!) the oldest one being late 5o's, but he flirts with men too.it's all fun to him!. I'm secure in our relationship, although the flirting does bother me if i think it gets too much.i.e....gets to the point of the other person is getting too much attention, then i sulk, lol! (i know, typical woman). Everyone is different with the "flirting"thing, but i will say that it is alot better if the two people concerned are single and no one else can get hurt. I dont class it as cheating, but it can lead to cheating, so just becareful hun.
Soli

Answer 2

it's not cheating but it's stupid. why are having these conversations with a guy over the internet anyway?!! and how do you even know he's a guy i mean come on use your commone sense and if your boyfriend finds out you're gonna risk the relationship over someone over the internet, that doesn't sound right. sooner or later one thing will lead to another and you're gonna want to meet this "guy" and you may end up really cheating on your boyfriend, besides that's dangerous so be smart and think this through before problems get out of hand

Answer 3

Yes it is, and the fact that you're asking would suggest you suspect it is too, but are hoping for confirmation from others that its not.

Ask yourself this question ... would you both be able to reveal to your other halves the entire content of your internet "relationship". The phone sex and flirting? If not, then its cheating.

Just because you're not meeting in person, doesn't mean its okay.

The fact remains that both of you are withholding part of yourselves from your other halves to give to each other. There's secrecy involved, which follows close on the heels of deception. The next step is to meet up in person to carry out your fantasies.

If you both value your relationships, give each other up before you both get found out. If you can't do that, then you have to wonder just how strong both your respective relationships are.

Answer 4

You just hit the nail on the head silly. WE ARE ON A BREAK BUT HE IS NOT FROM HIS GIRLFRIEND. Dont be so silly **** him off if you both feel the need to see other people then you clearly shouldnt be together

Answer 5

Technically you could argue no its not....as in no exchange of bodily fluids. But the betrayal is still there as in your mind. There is something lackingin the relationship with a partner if you feel the need to indulge in either

Answer 6

You shouldnt be flirting with other guys if you are in a serious relationship & yes it's cheating!

Answer 7

yes it is,think about it for a minute...you had phone sex with someone you never physically touch...but you have a boyfriend who you can look at when you talk to and be intimate...maybe something is wrong in your apparent relationship if you had to go outside of it for the feeling of been wanted...so think about it...

Answer 8

Yes it is, any intimate relationship outside of the one you are comitted to is cheating. Cybersex and phone sex fall into that category.

Answer 9

If ur seeing other ppl then it isnt but if ur just taking a break from each other then its wrong.

Answer 10

yes because it is still an affair of the heart. if your heart isn't true to your bf or gf then set them free.