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What do we are supposed to feel when we are ready... an alarm saying " ready, ready "? :-S

2006-11-17 11:08:47 · 43 answers · asked by ? 4 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

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It will come naturally... don't worry about it. If you are unmarried, use contraception and/or condoms. If you are very nervous or scared, you probably are not ready.

Realize too, that there are emotional and psychological consequences to becoming sexually active. So, you have to consider your own level of maturity, and be realistic in your expectations of having a sexual partner (or partners). Talk to your parent, an older sibling, or a mature trusted friend that is sexually active.

2006-11-17 11:14:47 · answer #1 · answered by Jack C 5 · 2 0

You will know you are ready when the two of you are not uncomfortable talking about birth control and condoms. You will have been on the birth control pill for a couple of months or so, and be responsible enough to take it at the same time every single day. He will have practiced putting on a condom a couple of times so he knows how to do it correctly and is comfortable wearing it. They can feel a little strange at first and can tear if put on wrong. The last thing you want is to ruin a whole box of condoms when you are ready for your first time.

You and him will be close to each other and care for each other very much. You would have kissed and made out a lot of times before, and you would have felt him get hard through his jeans even though it did not lead to sex. Basically you will lead up to it. An alarm doesn't just go off.

2006-11-17 11:15:38 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

When you are married I would think. I had sex before marriage and I really wish that I would have waited for marriage. I would have loved to give my virginity to my husband. And, Sex changed everything. If you think your relationship is great. It COULD go awful after sex. or it could go great! But do you want to take the chance. Not only that but The condom could break and if you are taking Birth Control, that doesn't make any difference. My sister got pregnant with a condom that didn't even break and she was on Birth Control. So, When you are ready to be a mother for THE REST OF YOUR LIFE. then you are ready to have sex. I hope you make the decision that you won't regret when you are older or married.

Good Luck. God Bless and Happy Holidays!

2006-11-17 11:15:04 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

the easy answer to this one is............"if you have to ask if you're ready for sex, then you're not ready". You will know if it's the right time, and like many others have said, if and when you do have sex, use an effective form of contraception, preferably more than one, use a birth control device or pill to prevent pregnancy, and condoms to help guard against STD's, and remember it's real easy for somone to say " I love you" in order to get you into bed, so make sure they mean it, dont just have "SEX", make love there's a world of difference.............. take care

2006-11-17 12:23:11 · answer #4 · answered by a1ways_de1_lorri_2004 4 · 0 0

Some good advice from the guys and gals above me. Remember that if, for some reason, you are being pressured into sex by that person - you have the right to say no - i.e. if you don't want to. But, as the above have said, remember the consequences - STDs or pregnancy. Sex is powerful and with power comes responsibility. If you feel the urge but you think it is still too early then MASTURBATE!
Good luck.

2006-11-17 11:21:47 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

its not an alarm. it is just a feeling. you know when you are making out and you get the sense "you have to stop", well when you are ready the little voice inside your head will shut up and let you do what you want. it may not be with the right person the first time but it is all experience. life experience. dont regret just enjoy and remember "no glove no love"

2006-11-17 11:12:30 · answer #6 · answered by VIRGINIA C 2 · 1 1

When you can handle getting pregnant if it should occur.

When you can handle getting an STD (some are incurable) if it should occur.

When you are ready to use birth control properly and are on some of it.

When you know how to use condoms and insist any guy that has sex with you wear one.

When you are ready to deal with the emotional repercussions of being intimate and sharing your body with someone.

When you've got those bases covered...then you're probably ready to have sex.

2006-11-17 11:11:54 · answer #7 · answered by . 7 · 1 1

omg dont listen to all these morons who tell u to wait for marriage or when u are 'ready to raise a child'. The truth is, u should wait until u feel completely comfortable with ur partner and u trust them. as long as u dont regret it, thats all that counts. Use protection, and if the condom breaks (which is unlikely), take the morning after pill. there we go, no need to go learn how to raise a child haha. good luck

2006-11-17 11:29:17 · answer #8 · answered by ckgirl_sa 1 · 2 0

If your 0-16 then your not ready. If your 17-25 then make sure you have been with this person and if you feel yourself wanting him more than just kisses, not feeling insecure, and have protection your ready. If your 22-27 and married your ready. If your 39 and up..... Hell your ready!!!

2006-11-17 11:13:38 · answer #9 · answered by tika ukie 2 · 0 2

It depends what age your are sweets and if your man is prepared to wear a condom

I first had sex under the age of 16 which looking back was a stupid thing to do

Do it when and where you feel comforable .... there is no do's and dont's it is entirely up to you . be carefule though

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2006-11-17 11:15:30 · answer #10 · answered by toon_tigger 5 · 1 0

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