ok, i really like/love my best friend of 10 years. problem with that? he doesn't want a relationship right now. i don't know if i love him or am infatuated with him. we click so well in and out of the bed. to be honest, we have been a little closer than friends (yes, sleeping together) for the past 4 years (off and on when i'm not in a relationship.) but, the guy i'm trying to find from Jacksonville, i love him too. he and i never slept together, and we communicated on such a great level. could i be in love with both of them?
2006-11-17 11:07:54 · 12 answers · asked by trisha_r_c 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Its not possible. Find one and be true to him. Don't lie, Its whoever you feel you'd want to spend the rest of your life with. And If the other one cares he'll be happy about your pick. And you'll find out how much of a friend you really have. Or If he dosent stick around you'll know how much of a friend he wasn't. Take It from me I've had this happen to me.
2006-11-17 11:15:50 · answer #1 · answered by Blackjack 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can be in love with 3 or 4 men, or more, and women, too...
Falling in love, does have an element of fascination & infatuation to it...it's a very slippery slope!
2006-11-17 21:01:40 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it is possible and a very sticky situation. I would date both of them for a while and trust your instinct on which one you like better. Ask yourself what kind of guy you are looking for either a long term relationship or a shorter fling... you can do it.
2006-11-17 11:12:19 · answer #3 · answered by Katie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your best friend is your sex partner. you say you are good in bed together but you don't know if you love him and he doesn't want a relationship right now.
So it is the sex only ..
The other guy...You need to be with to know for sure if you love him.
You have love for the best friend but not true love.
2006-11-17 11:16:54 · answer #4 · answered by StarShine G 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think I seen that movie too, it doesn't look like a true romance novel in the making. One good one is worth a thousand one night stands.
2006-11-17 11:13:28 · answer #5 · answered by snowstalker06 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure, you could be in love with two men. But ultimately once things get really serious, it works best to choose just one. You can love someone best if you don't let yourself get distracted by someone else.
2006-11-17 11:11:21 · answer #6 · answered by sailing_orienteer 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it is possible,but not a very good idea
someone in this is going to get hurt
you need to make up your mind and stick ti it
2006-11-17 11:11:48 · answer #7 · answered by Bren 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes it's possible but be very careful it could go very wrong.i've been in your situation follow your heart it will lead you in the right direction
2006-11-17 11:16:20 · answer #8 · answered by Kiley 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
of course you can love multiple men
how many of them you sleep with determines whether you're a slut or a good girl
2006-11-17 11:12:05 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes it is possible but I think you need to choose one and stick with that one.
2006-11-17 11:10:29 · answer #10 · answered by Mary Smith 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋