I broke up with this guy because he didn't do anything. He acted like a friend instead of a boyfriend. He never hugged me or held my hand or kissed me or anything. Should I talk to him about it and see what he says? I still kind of like him but i'm not sure what to do.
2006-11-17 10:45:07 · 19 answers · asked by Brianna 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You should definitly talk to him and let him know that you are ready to be in a relationship with him where ya'll hold hands and kiss and what not. And if he's not ready to do that stuff them move on. But talk to him cause maybe it's just that he's too shy and that's why he never really showed you affection.
2006-11-17 10:48:15 · answer #1 · answered by bktp37 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really think it will make a difference then by all means talk to him. But, I would try to have a relationship with someone who wanted to actually be a partner. It does not sound like he really knows what is going on. How many people has he dated before you? That may have something to do with it. Maybe he doesn't know how to act like a boyfriend.
2006-11-17 18:49:38 · answer #2 · answered by melwil25 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well gurl the same thing happened to me with this guy luis who i still have feelings for but you no what i did i got back together with him and i did all tthe stuff like kiss himand hold his hand and finally he went along and a day later he did everything i didn't have to do anything except love him and you no why he did everything and didn't have to because you got to show him you wanna be loved and you love him and if that doesn't work then he just doesn't love you and he just was using you
2006-11-17 18:51:33 · answer #3 · answered by shaiana h 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really still like him, definitely talk to him. Maybe he is just shy or was wasn't sure if you wanted him to hold your hand or kiss you. Remember, guys do NOT think like we do. Never assume what they might be thinking. ;)
2006-11-17 18:48:20 · answer #4 · answered by JennyJen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really want a relationship you will not be settled until you try to talk, sounds like he may just be nervous, or just want to be friends---never turn down a good friend though
2006-11-17 18:47:00 · answer #5 · answered by Meme 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
...number one.... why.....I'll repeat the question!!!...WHY???... would you break up with someone and then go back out with him without seeing a significant change in them!!!???... that doesn't make any sense!!!... and secondly... never break up with anybody before you are truly sure that you are ready to break up with them.... that is one of the worst things you can do!!!... because i have done the same thing and re great it terribly in the long run!!!... talk it out first...decide later....talk it out first...decide later.... read.....repeat...read.....repeat DO!!!!!
****something to consider: maybe he doesn't want to be with you anymore because he thinks the way that you handled the situation and his feelings was childish and harsh.... i mean i know your emotions can get the best of you sometimes but a major part of growing up is learnign to deal with them no matter how strong they are or what outrageous things they make you want to do.... you have to learn to deal with them first and react later..... this is a good lesson not only for relationships but life itself
GOOD LUCK!!!!
2006-11-17 18:54:33 · answer #6 · answered by honey_coated_love 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah date him again and talk 2 him about kissing or hugging!
2006-11-17 18:48:23 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he was into you he would hold your hand kiss you or give you a hug. move on to someone who wants to be with you and don't put yourself in the postion to be rejected again and again
2006-11-17 18:47:52 · answer #8 · answered by autumnbrookblue 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you broke up with him for a reason, so don't try to change him, just find someone who suits you better.
2006-11-17 18:47:10 · answer #9 · answered by Violet Pearl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave him alone and stop trying to string him along just because u cant decide on what to do!
2006-11-17 18:50:32 · answer #10 · answered by Loving life! 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋