i got into a fight with my sister and.....?

Question

i got in a fight becouse she never comes to see me, and only ever dose what her husband wants and goes see his family all the time. so today she called and asked if she could come over for thanksgiving, she also said she wants to becouse its on the way to her husbans familys house so they would come to my house them have a party or whatever are his parents house! should i invite her over or tell her i have plans?

Answer 1

it sounds like you are hurting because she doesn't come see you. i would invite her, tell her how you miss her and let her go. she might go, but, she won't forget how you feel. sometimes it is easier to avoid a fight in a marriage to just do what one partner wants all the time. you might find out she really doesn't have a say. it's not right, but it happens. make her make a plan to talk to you soon. you'll both probably feel better.

Answer 2

I would only invite her over IF I had already planned to have Thanksgiving at my house. I would not have it at my house just to convenience her.
You know, we really don't have to suffer because of someone elses thoughtlessness, even at Thanksgiving. God be with you.

Answer 3

Life is too short to harbour ill feelings with your siblings and loved ones, she wants to come visit you ,enjoy the time with her make all her fav dishes, tell her how much you love her click a lot of pictures and keep the happy memories safe in your heart

Answer 4

Do you want to see her?
It sounds like you do, I'd have her stop by, and while she is there tell her warmly that you wish you could see more of her.
Then see what she does with it--maybe his family puts a lot of pressure on them to visit. It does sound like she wants to spend time with you, though her phrasing sounds a little awkward.

Answer 5

Invite her and her husband. Enjoy the time you have together. Don't waste a lot of time being mad. You are the one hurting yourself.

Answer 6

invite her and her husband its thanksgiving