white guys always flirt with me but still are initmidated by my beauty and color. why?
2006-11-17 10:43:32 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
who cares??
i like ALL GUYS!
maybe they are intimidated by your CONCEITEDNESS!!
2006-11-17 10:44:49 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would ask you to look inside and see if they truly are intimidated, or are they not interested? I know of several couples who are mixed races, and the woman is black, and the man white, and also Asian women with white men, so I doubt if it is intimidation of beauty and color -- otherwise, why would they have a white partner?
If this is a serious question, and not just a lark, then look at how you carry yourself. Perhaps you seem difficult to get to know, are somewhat distant, and perhaps shun them. The mixed couples I know got together because they had mutual interests and mutual attraction. So, it doesn't make sense that they would be intimidated.
Try engaging these flirting men in a conversation -- not just flirting. If they are in a location (coffee house, bookstore, business, school, etc.) then bring up a topic of conversation relating to where you are flirting. Once you get to speaking to them and they see you as a "real" person and a "real" possibility to date, THEN you will have success.
You can also make the first move -- subtly -- and offer -- after a brief conversation related to something similar (even if it is a topic about where you are) -- your phone number and have them contact you -- or you them.
Otherwise, if you really feel that the guys are intimidated, I'm afraid that it may be the impression you are giving them. Guys are attracted to many women, so if they are flirting, they are waiting for you to make the next move: talk to them, find something in common, and exchange phone numbers.
Good luck!
2006-11-17 13:53:35 · answer #2 · answered by Isabella 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with David that the guys may be afraid that you will reject them because they are white. Its hard to know if someone is OK with dating a different race or culture, and the rejection can hurt really bad.
If they are flirting they can't be too intimidated, so I think the only reason they are not asking you out is because you don't flirt back. You have to let them know you are interested...all it takes is a smile and some eye contact.
2006-11-17 10:55:16 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that white people are especially scared of assimilating a culture that is unfamiliar to them. I think that a white guy would have to be pretty darn sure that he would not be rejected before he made the first move. If you like white guys, ask one out. Don't wait for them.
2006-11-17 10:50:15 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
People shouldn't care this much about the color of other people's skin.I am white and I am currently dating a nice, sweet, black guy and I am fine with it. Just find somebody that you like the peronality of, and forget about his outward appearance.
2006-11-17 10:50:24 · answer #5 · answered by monkey_woman3425 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I never met a chic that intimidated me... I have always dated outside my race. (Black, Hispanic, Filipino)... I'm married to a black woman now. But just like with you, Black women are the main ones who flirt with and approach me.
2006-11-18 01:45:19 · answer #6 · answered by BORED AT WORK 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm sure they are just trying to get in your pants. Cause besides beauty and color i'm sure you have nothing else going for you.
the light are on but no one is home.
2006-11-17 10:48:57 · answer #7 · answered by goingfasterbmw 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think you like your self to much and that is ashame. Let your self be friendly and you will find someone. cheers
2006-11-17 10:47:39 · answer #8 · answered by flightmedicine 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I like asian girls and I'm waiting for one to flirt with me
2006-11-17 10:45:23 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Don't know...find one that likes you back
2006-11-17 10:45:06 · answer #10 · answered by ♥Sweet Girl♥ 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋