My heart is so broke. I met her over a year ago. We really hit it off right from the start. I've read so many books on relationships, I really thought I was ready. I know it's so important to BE THERE when they need you, and I was. She needed money because she was pregnant when we met, I supported her through that 100% REALLY. She needed money for her mom, I took care of that 8k. She needed a car, I bought her a new one, and YES it's in her name...I really wanted her to feel like she had something that belonged to her. I paid for her apartment and bills, everything she needed. She hasn't returned my calls in 3 weeks, today she sent a note saying it's over...and not to ever call again.
Is there a way I can win her back?
2006-11-17 10:19:10 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i cant see a girl doing that if u were so great..u leaving something out?
2006-11-17 10:22:53 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey if there was a way to win her back i know your gonna hear this time and time again but sounds like she's a gold digger and I'm sorry to put it like that but why bother with your sweet self. There are plenty of women out here just looking for a man to treat them like somebody please get in on that kind of action because you're are really too good for her. And as for a way to win her back try moving on she said it was over well find somebody else and when their bragging about how good you treat them and she ends up with a real loser she'll probably want back in your life but i hope you be strong enough to say"NO THANKS". Good Luck!
2006-11-17 18:28:42 · answer #2 · answered by 2sweet4u 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm so sorry to say this but it sounds like you were used and abused. You have to sit back and see what she did for you too. Was she there for you. Emotionally? She got you to take care all of her problems and now that things are good for her she let you go. Get over her. You dont want her back. And then to wait 3 weeks to tell you thats over. How inconsiderate is that???
2006-11-17 18:23:04 · answer #3 · answered by teekee04 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have great news for you! She will be back as soon as she needs some money again, it shouldnt be long. While you are waiting try finding someone that is not so damn needy
2006-11-17 18:25:47 · answer #4 · answered by Allinwiththenuts 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry she broke your heart, but... she's using you! No guy should be treated like that. She probably only loved you so you could get her out of debt.
2006-11-17 18:25:56 · answer #5 · answered by ♥MsCullen♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You read all the wrong books. Cut your losses and walk away. Next time....in short...play hard to get.
2006-11-17 18:23:56 · answer #6 · answered by hankthecowdog 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont even try.
Waste of time. You are a good man, ... too good !
Live for yourself, and immediately start removing this episode from your life.
2006-11-17 18:22:51 · answer #7 · answered by Sweet Dragon 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yep, she used you for what she could get out of you, she is a losser, find you a real women,
2006-11-17 18:22:48 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wow bro... she just using you..
2006-11-17 18:22:39 · answer #9 · answered by sub.lihhjj 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋