2006-11-17 10:29:21 · 8 answers · asked by DREAMY 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You cant help him until he admits he has a problem and wants help. You cant fix him. He needs professional help.
2006-11-17 10:32:01 · answer #1 · answered by shirley e 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
By being involved with a liar, you are telling them it is OK. Only when you raise your standards and refuse to associate with people who lack honor, fidelity and truthfulness - maybe then they will make an effort.
The liar is the only one who can make the change and as long as someone will hang with them, they have no reason to change, he has you, why should he change?
For your sake , I hope you raise your standards about what you will accept as boyfriend material, then, maybe, he might clean up his act.
2006-11-17 18:36:42 · answer #2 · answered by kate 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's very hard to have a relationship with someone who cannot tell the truth. If he knows he does it and admits to it, he is testing you. Ultimately you will leave him because you won't know what to believe. So ask yourself this, Is your relationship true or false?
2006-11-17 18:35:38 · answer #3 · answered by SCORPIO 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
A better question is "Why are you dating this loser"?
Why do you have such low self esteem that you would date a guy who lies about everything?
2006-11-17 18:32:03 · answer #4 · answered by coloradopsych 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You are the one who needs help! When you get tired of the lies, you'll leave.
2006-11-17 18:33:47 · answer #5 · answered by commonsince76 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You can't... Can you really be comfortable with having a liar for a boyfriend? How do you know when he's lying to you? he has to stop on his own.
2006-11-17 18:33:39 · answer #6 · answered by Rhea M 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you cant. he has to help himself. it could be that he is insecure, and perhaps counseling will help fix issues like that.
think hard about spending your life with a compulsive liar. lies ruin life.
2006-11-17 18:32:44 · answer #7 · answered by SAINT G 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you can't and you better run while you can. i hate liars and i will always hate them
2006-11-17 18:31:20 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋