Ok so I asked my on and off again gf of 10 months back out last week. She said yes and she was happy to be with me again and blah blah. So last night she tells me "I dont know if we can fix everything" so I ask her what is she trying to say and then she dumped me. So I told her ok and just give me space cuz I dont know if I can be her friend after that. So this afternoon she sent me a email saying that we should just forget each other and no more making up no more talking no more anything and that I should forget the last 10 months and move with my life and I should never doubt that she loves me. Really wtf is that, that doesnt show that she loves me or even gives a crap about me. What should I do? What is her problem?
2006-11-17 10:27:02 · 8 answers · asked by slaphappy 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
just dump her already !!!! move on
2006-11-17 11:41:07 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
take a minute and calm down... :) whoosh.
ok. think of it this way... she has major feelings for u..and i think u do too. *however*, for some reason or other, u guys have too many problems, and she doesn't see a way she can fix it. and, she probalby knows that the more she talks or sees you, the more she cannot move on. and probably same for you. what u need to do is give her space.. sometimes loving someone MEANS letting them go, to find someone potentially better. u know what i mean? don't be angry, don't try to contact her. MOVE ON w/ ur life for now....focus on school, work, family, friends, anything to get ur mind off. work out, exercise. feel better about urself. don't take this as complete rejection.. she said she loves u. just be thankful, and move on slowly. if u are meant to be, u will cross paths again~~~ good luck
remember, this is probably very hard for her as well, try not to be upset.
2006-11-17 18:31:36 · answer #2 · answered by sasmallworld 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is putting the guilt off on you so she doesn't feel guilty anymore. She is making it sound like you are doing something wrong, and than telling you to never doubt how much she loves you. Be glad that she dumped you and move on. That will piss her off more than anything and she will try to get you back at some point if you move on successfully, but she will only want to get back with you to make herself feel better about her life after she has disrupted yours. She needs drama. Good luck.
2006-11-17 18:34:55 · answer #3 · answered by buxomkity 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im so sorry that this is happening! She must be very moody! She is probably just confused. You should talk to her and ask why she broke up with you and what she meant when she said that you can't fix everything, and then if she tells you maybe then it will be a lot more clearer! Good Luck.
2006-11-17 18:32:33 · answer #4 · answered by Korri babe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She probably had enough of the on and off thing and listen to some reeeeeeeeeaaaaally bad advice from her friends.
2006-11-17 18:31:06 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should move on. She is not worth it. She is feeling insecure with you and she is playing around with your mind. It's time to find you a new girl.
2006-11-17 18:29:18 · answer #6 · answered by leazngurl 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
she had feelings for u but u had to much problems for her to handle
2006-11-17 18:30:18 · answer #7 · answered by native,pride 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'll go out with you to make her jealous. -wink-
xD
2006-11-17 18:29:28 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋