Is it my place?

Question

My ex and I are friends and his girlfriend doesn't have a problem w/ our relationship(just friends remember). Her and I have become friends. Well he said he's thinking about breaking up with her to go out with this other girl. I don't want him to.What if she isn't okay with our realationship? Anyway he took his current girlfriends first kiss.. Doesn't that mean something?Ecspaecially to a girl. I don't know if I should get involved or not. Is it my place? He hurt me soo bad when him and I were dating(emotinoally) and I wouln'd be able to see him do it to her. What should I do?

Answer 1

He sounds like girls to him are just conquests. Why are you friends with such a shallow person anyway? Even if you told his current girlfriend what a shallow person he is, she is not going to believe you anyway. She has to experience it for herself for her to believe anything. Sounds to me like your friendship with her is probably more important to you than the "friendship" you have with your ex. He has a mind of his own and can do whatever he wants to do, but I suggest if you interfer you could ruin the friendship with his current girlfriend. If he hurt you so badly when you were dating then surely you would know what kind of a person he is, so why do you want to be friends with him? It doesnt make sense. Let him make his own mistakes...the old saying is true...you make your bed you lie in it.

Answer 2

first off you say you do not want him to see this other girl. it is none of your business who he sees.
second. usually when friends interfere in relationships the friend is the one to get the kick in the head when all the dust settles back to earth.
stay out of it and tell him not to include you in his plans to cheat on or break up with his girlfriend.
lastly, learn the subtle art of changing the subject when he brings these kinds of things up to you. if you don't you will be the one holding the bag in the end and the one writing another question.
why am i the one getting blamed?

Answer 3

What is he the only man in the neighborhood? He sounds like a looser anyway! Let him move on and be there for the girlfriend/friend when she goes through whatever she has to go through and then ya'll go out and fine some real men!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Answer 4

a first kiss is so special but it isnt fair to the current gf to be with a guy that likes someone else he is just goin to cheat on her. try not to get to involved it will just start a fight but if u do think of the consequences before u act. GOOD LUCK!!!

Answer 5

Sounds like your ex is a playa and girls need to be warned about his attitude towards girls. Stay friends with her, she's gonna need friends.

Answer 6

If he doesn't want to be with her, then he shouldn't be with her. None of that crap really means anything (first kiss). I suggest you just deal with whatever happens. It isn't about you.

Answer 7

Mind your own bee's-wax. Stop being a busy body and a Chatty-Kathy.

Answer 8

YOU'VE ANSWERED YOUR OWN QUESTION , I DOUBT YOUR SELF CENTERED AND CALLOUS , SO TELL ON HIM HE'S BEING A SWINE AND A PIGG DO WHAT'S IN YOUR HEART , DO THE RIGHT THING DON'T LET SOME ELSE SUFFER...

Answer 9

Meddling exes need to mind their own business... PERIOD, leave them to handle their own problems, no matter what a jerk he is.

Answer 10

tell her to keep her gaurd up and never let it down, if you tell her he will get mad at you and she may even think you are telling her that to get back with him, use your judgement on thisone. good luck!