2006-11-17 10:12:49 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
its hard because she wants to be a good friend but she also has feelings for him. She still loves u but guys can make a girl not see straight. give her some slack and talk to her about it. Put urself in her situation. GOOD LUCK find a better guy and make sure he is not ur friends sloppy seconds.
2006-11-17 10:15:38 · answer #1 · answered by practicully_famouse 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she obviously likes him but if she knows that ur in love with him, then guys may be more important to her than friends, or maybe her feelings for him were stronger than her feelings for you. She could have liked him for ages and not wanted to tell you because ur her best friend. My advice is, he cant go out with you at the same time as her. Try to move on and find someone new. He may realise later on that he likes you. Or you may find someone cool that you never knew about. And also i wouldn't stay mad at your friend. If you talk to her about it, she may be able to explain herself. Or not, in which case you don't have to be mad, just don't let it affect you. Hope it works out ( :
2006-11-17 10:23:25 · answer #2 · answered by sing_like_ur_alone 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound young. Your friend is more important than some guy. Wait 3 months and then take your turn. Next time learn that you need to give a guy signals before she does.
2006-11-17 10:16:01 · answer #3 · answered by hankthecowdog 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Demote her as a "BEST" friend. That's selfish of her and heartless. The obvious thing to do would be to confront her and ask her why? Tell her whats on your heart and in your mind. Hear her inexcusable excuses out then cut her off as a BEST friend.
2006-11-17 10:28:08 · answer #4 · answered by daydreamer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, one of my best friends went out with my BIGGEST crush. My whole grade knew I liked him. I was furious. We haven't been friends since. That was 10th grade.
Well, in the end, I married him. We've been together for 5 years.
2006-11-17 10:16:03 · answer #5 · answered by lkjgfyfukh 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Look, I hate that stupid rule..if YOU are not with him, it's free game to anyone!!!!! I mean you probably didn't even go out with this guy, so why are you being all possesive?? He obviously likes her and she likes him, sorry but you are the one left out-the third wheel.. I'd say have class and dump the drama. Not worth it.
2006-11-17 10:18:05 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obviously she is not a friend because a friend would at least ask you if you minded. And if you did mind then she wouldn't go out with him. She is not your friend. You better watch out for her. Sounds like she's sneaky.
2006-11-17 10:16:23 · answer #7 · answered by teekee04 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
time for a new best friend..
Love? do even know what Love is?
if your " best friend " is with your crush you must be in middle school...
get over it...
2006-11-17 10:17:04 · answer #8 · answered by ♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your crush is eatin it up let them be but disown your bff. talk 2 her bout it but try 2 stay calm
2006-11-17 10:16:27 · answer #9 · answered by MENTALLY UNSTABLE MAN 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well maybe you didnt make your move quick enough if shes a good friend shes not doing it to make you jealous shes just doing it cause she likes him just cause you like a guy doesnt make him off limits to your friends
2006-11-17 10:17:12 · answer #10 · answered by Zoey 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋