he gets in trouble all the time, he gets bad grades. HE is really mean, i hate him. he cheats on her too, but she wont beleave me, please help me find a way to convince her to stop going out with him. rember i hate him :)!
2006-11-17 10:10:33 · 3 answers · asked by bailey4mail 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
honestly...... it doesn't matter if YOU hate him... so what.... i think it is very selfish of you to only think of yourself... you never once mentioned the way your friend feels about him... because.. maybe you don't care... but despite your rudeness... i am going to help you anyway!!!... i think you should really sit down and talk to her about the way you feel.... and how you think he isn't good for her and how he can possibly hurt her or cause her unnecessary problems in the end!!!... but....i wouldn't
recommend you go into a list of his faults that you think he has and the reasons YOU hate him... instead you handle this situation delicately!!!......no one wants to hear everything that is WRONG with the one they love because most people in love don't see it anyway.... they will dislike and separate themselves from you for it.... they will think you are jealous or just plain lonely.....
GOOD LUCK!!!
.....be careful!!!... i KNOW that somewhere DEEP down inside you are doing this for HER!!!!.... you don't want to lose a good friend!!!
2006-11-17 10:25:08 · answer #1 · answered by honey_coated_love 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't do anything, if you tell her what to do she will do just the opposite. Its not your job to be her mom, and if you don't like the man the only thing, you can do is to, wit it out and be there for her. SHe has to learn her own lessons on love.
2006-11-17 18:41:49 · answer #2 · answered by Katie W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if i was you i will live her along because remember is her life not yours but anyways is her decision not yours that's waht i think?
2006-11-17 18:22:03 · answer #3 · answered by maria o 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋