Well alot of my friends turned back on me yesterday and i talked to my mom and she said i could change schools but then all my friends I have at my school now wouldnt be my friends anymore and my secrets that I told them would now be rumours ??What should I do??Is it a good idea to change school to avoid these situations or should I deal with them??
2006-11-17 10:18:52 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
They turned back on me because i told my friend to shut up because she was telling my secrets to every one.
2006-11-17 10:25:05 · update #1
deal with them. it's great of ur mom to be supportive of you.. however, u may someday look back and regret it =T.
just keep ur head up high, no matter what. try hard to right the wrongs u've done; don't beat urself up for the past, just try to make things Better, and Change for the better.
remember, the Future = the ability to change! :)
what have u done , what kind of secrets are they going to say? and why did they turn their back on u? try really hard to keep an OPEN mind: if u've done something to deserve this, apologize. if they *THINK* u've done something, but u didn't, still apologize, or at least tell them ur side. if they are not open to discussion, Ignore them and LIVE Ur own life. study hard, do well in school. keep up w/ the friends u already have. take care of ur relationships w/ family, freinds, and teacher. work Hard. no matter what they say about u, at least they can't say ur lazy or stupid u know?? good luck, and be strong. even the worst person can change, and they do deserve a chance.
2006-11-17 10:24:50 · answer #1 · answered by sasmallworld 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't just change schools just becuase of that, not unless you are not satisfied with everything else at school. You should talk to your friends. If you don't trust people very well, you shouldn't tell them your secrets. Not everyone can be trustworthy and be careful who you talk to because they may betray you and spread it making bad rumors.
2006-11-17 18:22:00 · answer #2 · answered by leazngurl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What was their reason for turning their backs was it because of some thing that you did? you can not run away from trouble it will follow you until you deal with it
2006-11-17 18:23:02 · answer #3 · answered by rkilburn410 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say deal with them, once a new rumor comes along, you will have been forgotten about. When you run it makes you look guilty. If this happened on the job when you were an adult, you couldn't quit your job---it will give you character to work it out.
2006-11-17 18:22:34 · answer #4 · answered by Meme 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Um, you told them you are gay huh? tough decision. I'd try and satick it out and see how you are treated, and if it's bad yo can then switch if need be...i think you'll be ok, and probably even have a few date requests now that everyone knows. Be yourself!
2006-11-17 18:21:41 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
so stay at the same school, but make new friends.
2006-11-17 18:37:12 · answer #6 · answered by guess2 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
deal with them
2006-11-17 18:20:40 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
stay in that school dont let anyone run you away from that, they will just be acting imature,
2006-11-17 18:21:20 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
in a few years no one will rememebr all that stuff, and even if they do.. it won't matter anymore.
2006-11-17 18:20:10 · answer #9 · answered by Mike W 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
deal wit it
2006-11-17 18:22:55 · answer #10 · answered by Baby gurl! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋