What do you look for in a mistress? Have you ever cheated on your wife?
2006-11-17 09:32:53 · 8 answers · asked by wildladyreba 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
you should rot in hell.... sorry my life was ruined over my dad's mistress...
2006-11-17 09:35:20 · answer #1 · answered by that guy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Beggers can't be choosers, but since I'm married, I'm not a begger, so I get to be a chooser.
1) She'd have to come after me. I hated dating when I was single, why in the world would I want to go back? So much energy spent on absolutely nothing worthwhile. And the guessing games as to if she's actually interested... I'm not up for that. No, she has to say it right up front, she wants me, no ifs,ands,ors or buts.
2) She has to accept the fact that I don't need her. I've got my wife, my wife is really enough for me. Extra would be exactly that: extra. That means she can't make any demands on me.
3) She'd have to be 100% totally faithful. She's extra, so no head games even. I've got my wife for a real, meaningful, fair relationship. An affair would be about my being selfish. My wife swoons over a couple of movie stars and musicians... fine. My mistress? Nope, not even... if she looks twice at any other guy, it's over.
4) She'd have to give me some kind of very good blackmail material on her. I wouldn't look for it, remember, she's extra, she has to come to me. She would have to hand me something I could use to blackmail her if I waned to, since the affair would be something for her to blackmail me on. It would have to be better than the affair. Something that could send her to prision would be acceptable.
5) She'd need to have approval from my wife. I don't keep any secrets from my wife.
So, with that list, is it any surprise that I haven't had an affair?
2006-11-17 18:08:25 · answer #2 · answered by Sean J 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are 2 reason men cheat.
Reason 1 - When he feels that his needs are not being met, some men turn to their work, others to drugs or alcohol and many to the arms of another man or woman. It is very individual what is missing and therefore it is hard to say what one looks for.
Reason 2 - Although this appears to be the most common cause, there are others who engage in an affair or infidelity purely for the sex. Those people are looking for someone with similar attitude, intelligent and good in bed.
2006-11-17 18:13:03 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
men look for what they are missing in a relationship. and a sexy glamourous woman that is a bombshell.
My mistress would wear vintage RHT stockings a garterbelt anmd sexy open shoes 24/7 and she would have easy going personality and love sex she would dress like the gals on the secretsinlace.com site
2006-11-17 18:18:08 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No I don't cheat on my wife although we have an open marriage. I look for physical attributes only because I don't want any emotional involvement... just sex. She must be clean, neat and not someone I'd be embarrassed to be seen with.
2006-11-17 17:56:23 · answer #5 · answered by open_phunguy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not married, but I look for a woman to be a good headmistress.
2006-11-17 17:44:42 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing, No one could replace my wife.
2006-11-17 17:35:57 · answer #7 · answered by Cam 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your a dog.............
2006-11-17 17:48:47 · answer #8 · answered by One Love 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋