Hey guys I need some answers!?!?!?!?

Question

It is related to the question about the 2 brothers
I really don't care for the older one anymore though. I was wondering what a guy would do, and would let me do in this situation. Please answer truthfully.
Say that your family and my family were on a camping trip together. It was raining so we were in your trailer til around midnight. It was around 11 though, and I was getting drowsy. I put a pillow up against you and started to half-sleep.
Would you have let me sleep if you knew that I would pursue a relationship with you? Or if you knew I had liked you, would you let me kiss you?
Or would you let me sleep and just imagine me sleeping on your shoulder and next to you every night when you close your eyes?
Lastly, if I just said do whatever and nothing else, and you liked me, what would you do?
I'm wondering because I was in this situation, not too long ago.

Answer 1

Listen honey, I am not a guy, but I just couldn't pass this up when I read this. I am going to give you some advice that you will probably not appreciate now, or even listen to now, but some day you will remember what I said and realize how true it is.

First, you just don't mess with best friends, let alone brothers. You don't get with one and then the other. It is tacky and distastefull and it is not showing yourself any respect at all. Now, from the brothers point of view: You will be nothing more than a slutty girl they both slept with. I am not saying I think you are slutty, I just think you young and inexperianced and misguided. However, brothers will always be brothers and girls will come and go in their lives. No brother will stick with a girl one of them has slept with, regardless of what they may tell you while they are getting into your pants, or under your dress or in your P.Js, or whatever. Guys will tell a girl whatever they think she wants to hear in order to get sex out of them. Guys, especially teen boys, or in their young twenties think of only one thing: Sex and think with only one thing: Their dic*s. This is simple truth whether you want to believe me or not.

Suger, you are putting yourself in line to a world of hurt. Not only will these boys think you trash, they will tell anyone who wants to listen that you are trash, that you are easy and anyone who wants to can sleep with you. You will be a laughing stock, your repuation will be in tatters and your schoolmates will disrespect you. That is only what others will do to you. Now for what YOU will do to yourself.

You obviously have a low level of self esteem and self respect. Otherwise you would be holding yourself to a much higher standard. If you are completely honest with yourself you will see you are not really wanting sex with these boys, but to have a friend and companion with a boy. Women, especially young women really are very much less interested in a sexual relationshp than a boy of the same equal of close to the same age group. Young women think this is what they have to do in order to get the boy. If girls thought they could be with a boy and not give up sex on a regular basis, that is what they would do. You see, young girls just are not as physically interested in sex as boys are due to their inability to get off as easy as when they are older. For young girls sex is just something they do for the boy more than for themselves, even when it feels good to be petted as they know once it is actually time for penetration it is all over. If a boy can keep it up, he still does not have the techniques down to get a girl off very well. He just does not have the skills an older man has, or the ability to understand what it takes to help a woman to that point. A young girl feels this need, deep inside, this welling up of physical feeling which feels really good, but is just unable to get over the top and to completion with a boy once he is actually inside. This is normal, but young women and men just are to embarressed to discuss this and to do what it takes to fix it. So, it is a simple fact of life for young women not to really be all that eager for sex. Oh, the kissing and petting is fun, and if that was all, and then just cuddling, that would be far more than enough, especially IF afterward he talked with her. What a concept huh? lol

Seriously, young woman, regardless of what they may tell you, don't really have much interest in the actual act of sex. They want a boyfriend who they can have fun with, do stuff with, hold hands with, laugh with and most of all, talk with and be friends with. This is what young women want. However, sadly, many young women don't realize that there are young men who don't just want sex. They are few and far between, but they are out there and yet, girls who want a boy like this more than anything are the least likely to have one due to her giving out sex, due to the belief this is how she will get one. Any young man who is worthy of a good relationship will wait for a young woman to be really ready for a sexual relationship, and woouldn't touch a young woman with a ten foot pole who had a shattered reputation as a sleep around Jane.

Young woman know, deep inside that most boys are wanting sex from them, and those who give it out in the hope of finding their prince charming have low self esteem and low self respect. When they give the boys what they want they further reduce their own levels of self worth and self esteem, and they do it to themselves.

Now, girls who make the horrible mistake of messing with best friends or brothers will never get either of them as a long term boyfriend. It is a simple fact of life. Boys put their friends and brothers before they do girls. Girls will tend to betray their own friends to get a boy, and because they do it, they think boys will do it too. But they don't, it is as simple as that.

So, take my advice, or not, its totally up to you, and you probably won't, not now, maybe not for a very long time, but someday you will learn this lesson, why not now instead of years from now?, don't sleep with brothers or best friends. Just don't do it and save yourself a world of dissapointment and hurt and shattered self esteem and self worth and reputation. As unfair as it really is, it is still a males world and as such it is us women who pay the price for sleeping around, not the boys or men.

I hope you listen, but I won't hold my breath. But I wish you all the luck in the world and I hope in this case I am wrong, as there is always the eception to the rule. I doubt this is it however. Good luck my dear, you are going to need it.

Answer 2

1. I would let you sleep no matter what as long as it wasnt very uncomfortable for me.

2. If I wanted to kiss you then I would let you kiss me.

3. I already said I would let you sleep, depends on what was on my mind as to what I would imagine

4. I would have sex with you if I wanted you and you said do whatever.

Answer 3

The first day of school is a big opportunity. I also like to meet girls at places where nobody else that I know will be there such as at the ice rink or a park. Hope it helps.

Answer 4

if this helps..i just broke up with someone and my guy friend lets me lean on him for everything wether its just to sleep on him or to talk or even a small kiss with the understanding were only friends for now.

Answer 5

if u go to sleep on my shoulder that ethier means we have a great relationship as friends...or you like each other if he didnt like you then he woulda acted like he was going to do somthing...even if he was thristy or hungery he would held it back if he liked you...if hes really shy and u said do whatever but if hes had previous girlfriends then he woulda made his move already

Answer 6

I would let you sleep next to me, and i'd hold you tight all night

Answer 7

hah!why should i kiss u?what if i have a gilfriend?

u should know each other and learn how to kiss first,oh yeah,and think an effect if u did that!

Answer 8

only if u is hOt, HoT mEaNs hOt u can sleep next 2 me

Answer 9

I would have to know you before i could really answer this question. but it sounds fine i guess.

Answer 10

i'll do what ever i want with you.