How get though this time of year not having family that want you their. And Have not wanted you their for years. But they do want your 15 year old child their. Yes I have done wrong stuff but that was when I was 17 and I'm31 now and Their was stuff that happien that I had to call cops . but no one will talk to me just my child
2006-11-17 09:26:18 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
The wrong I did was when I was a kid and the abuse started before I can even know. But becuase I call the cops they don't want me. You're not to let things like that out of the family.
2006-11-18 08:51:49 · update #1
What can you do? Apologize and if that doesnt work, its not like you can NOT let your child go there if he/she wants to... ya know? I think your family should DEF forgive you for things that are that far in the past, but its not my call... Good luck sweets.
2006-11-17 09:28:34 · answer #1 · answered by Angel Eve 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
write a letter to them expressing your growth. Point out what you have done that is positive (as people tend to focus on the negative) are you raising your child? Express to them you are trying now to set a good example for your child and that you are working really hard at being a good person and need their support. Admit your mistakes, apologize if necessary, tell them you love them and miss them and would like another chance to show them you have matured, changed and want to be included as a part of the family.
If they give you that chance.....don't mess it up
2006-11-17 17:30:19 · answer #2 · answered by dribble 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I will say a prayer for you than God will soften their hearts . Life is to short for this petty fighting . If you find that you get too emotional , find someone to talk to . If you need to, I have a 360 page and you can email me . The holidays are hard to get through alone , I know .
2006-11-17 17:40:41 · answer #3 · answered by Geedebb 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you invite them to your place? If they won't come, there are many lonely people who would love to spend the holidays with you. Make new friends and let them be your family.
2006-11-17 17:28:35 · answer #4 · answered by notyou311 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Never go to places where you are not wanted.
Go seldom to places where you are wanted.
Go often to where you can be when your child needs you.
Do these things and watch your life come together.
2006-11-17 17:35:19 · answer #5 · answered by mindtelepathy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats really wrong . no family is perfect they can either accept u for who u are or youll have to just deal with however u do
2006-11-17 17:31:17 · answer #6 · answered by that black chick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The worst thing is to be alone, so why not volunteer to serve dinner to homeless to be around people.
http://www.volunteermatch.org
2006-11-17 17:30:23 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
awwww, really how sweet. but thats mess up how ur family doesnt want you. well i guess its okay, just go live somewhere else so that your kid wont have to be with your parents. like go live your own or something.
2006-11-17 17:29:33 · answer #8 · answered by sugar 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
write a letter and ask for forgiveness if they dont give you the gift give it to yourself,Trust is earned
2006-11-17 17:28:32 · answer #9 · answered by eternallygrateful 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you feel comfortable send your child. its OK if they wont talk to you. hang in there
-Colin
2006-11-17 17:28:46 · answer #10 · answered by Colin Night 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋