Family & Relationships - 16 November 2006

is it better to have sex after marriage?

2006-11-16 00:56:12 · 20 answers · asked by jennifer s 2 in Singles & Dating

Exes ever forgive or want back?
my ex and i broke up quite a while ago. although i think he loves me well he says his heart is with me.he sed if u love some one let them go if they come back there awlays ures. i have been a ***** to him since we broke up because i didnt know how to deal with it. threatening him with various things. ehich i regret totally.
he says he needs to find out who he is , he sed his heart is with me but his head isnt and circumstances mean we cant be together at mo becaus at the monet he cant forget the bad stuff that happened at the end? some explanations please. is he needing this time to forget the bad stuff , if so do u think he ever will? or can

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the whole purpose of not finding somone knew is thta i love him and know it can be good


i asked if he wnats me to move on , and he sed no he doenst but he cant be with me at this time.

2006-11-16 00:54:55 · 8 answers · asked by lola f 1 in Singles & Dating

there is this lad (greg) and i like him bad time and i no he likes me two but i was out at the week end and he has seen me kiss some 1 eles and now he ant talking to wot should i do to make it up to .........
i have been texting him and he has said he is still mates but not as much wot shill i do i realy like him bad time

2006-11-16 00:54:51 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Class was about to start and everyone was coming in and taking their seats. These two girls came in with short skirts, but I mean short, it looked like they went just right below the butt cheeks. Me and Mickey were talking and then I spotted one with her legs not crossed, so we started looking at her crotch. Then we looked at the other one and they noticed us and told the teacher. I told the teacher we were just trying to get a better look at what a Vagina looks like, we were in Sex Ed. I also told him they wanted to participate that's why they wore trampy clothes. We got sent to the principals office. They did me wrong.

2006-11-16 00:53:55 · 8 answers · asked by Pimp of the Day 1 in Friends

what is love at first sight?

2006-11-16 00:53:55 · 4 answers · asked by jennifer s 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-16 00:53:54 · 9 answers · asked by Natasha B 1 in Friends

It sounds really stupid but I think a have lost all of my confidence. I'm 21 and have recentley moved out of my parents house because of the hard time I get from my dad. Getting pulled down for whatever I do. Not a recent thing, but for some reason I seem to have just put up with it and not really thought about it too much until now. You know, just kind of thought that how life is. But for the last few months it's all I have thought about. I am finding myself feeling so angry all of the time & really paranoid about what other people think about me. Its like wherever I go I feel like I'm different & don't really fit in, even when I'm with my friends. I always feel like im wearing the wrong thing or going to say or do something stupid & people will laugh at me. I feel like I'm so far away from other people because of whats going on in my head & don't know how to deal with it? Worst thing is, I hate being on my own right now aswel because I start thinkinh about it all. What do I do?

2006-11-16 00:53:41 · 2 answers · asked by Stace 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I live in New orleans, LA I have been homeless for 4 months now and continue waiting on a FEMA trailer. I have been turned down by the local housing authority because I was not a recipiant of public assistance or sectio 8 housing before the Katrina Disaster. and turnd away by the shelters. no room available for my son and I . I told my son they told this to Jesus so, what do we do from here. I am really wondering if there is any posibility of assistance. To try to get off the streets. I have been working however, the rents are out of controll here so, my money goes to live in hotels when I can afford to. I have a son, he is 15. he has been a real wonderful kid going through all this displacement. I'd just like to ask if the Red Cross or some orginazation could help me get him some warm clothes and if possibe something for Christmas. He has been such a wonderful little man inspite of what is going on. I just want to give him a happy time and a litttle hope. Please Help

2006-11-16 00:53:32 · 3 answers · asked by mita 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

i know she likes me, but im uncertain on whether i really like her. Im plannning on breaking up with her and seeing how i feel and if i miss her, then ill ask her out again. Is this a good plan?

2006-11-16 00:52:44 · 12 answers · asked by big e 2 in Singles & Dating

we went out last winter break but I had gotten JUST gotten out of a bad relationship.We really liked each other.now we see are talking again,things are just getting back to being friendly.His 22nd bday is this Saturday.I want 2 wish him a happy bday,probably over the phone since I dunno when I'll see him again.He only told me once,a yr ago when his bday is.He's shy,computer nerd/loves anime/fantasy.I still have strong feelings 4 him.I want us 2 hang out and see if he might want 2 get back 2gether.He recently told me that the last time we had gone out he saw that I was too attached to him,so will i appear like that if I call him n c if he wants 2 go out 4 dinner and watch an anime later?btw I was his first g/f,probably his only so far.

2006-11-16 00:52:25 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Here's the thing... I've begun to crush on a friend of a friend.
I'm a little prankster so I started talking to him through the Internet without him knowing who I am. I eventually told him it was me and since then we've kept on talking.
The problem is that recently a female friend of mine told me that she has a crush on him. I didn't tell her from the beginning that I'm crushing on him, too, and she's kept on talking to me about how she feels and what happens when they cross paths.
So now I'm in a strange position, where I'm helping my friend conquer my crush.
On some level, though, I feel it's unfair, because my friend has already got a boyfriend and she's mostly looking to cheat on her current boyfriend. I have no boyfriend and my motives are pure.
So, since I talk with my crush regularly now, he gives me the impression he doesn't want to get involved with my friend.
I would've liked to eventually ask him out, but I'm afraid I'll be betraying my friend.
What should I do??

2006-11-16 00:52:21 · 15 answers · asked by christilef 2 in Singles & Dating

Me and my boyfriend have been dating for almost 3 years, and we have a 9 1/2 month old daughter. I don't know what to do about our relationship, because all he wants to do is talk on the phone and text other females. he says he's never cheated on me, but how can i know that when he's done stuff on his phone (ex. had a girl send pictures of her butt to his phone). i don't know whether i should believe him or not. He says he loves me and he would never cheat on me, but i don't know if i can believe him after that stuff he's done and he continuously keeps hiding his phone when i try to look at it to see what he's typing and who it is he's talking to. I need help major with my relationship. I've tried to break up with him, but i have no car or license (because i got pregnant when i was going to try to get it and he didn't want me driving) So if i did break it off i would have nowhere to go. I don't know how to stop being dependent on him. HELP ME PLEASE!!

2006-11-16 00:52:20 · 5 answers · asked by Munkee-Luv 1 in Singles & Dating

i work everyday. i make 9.41 an hr. after i pay rent, lights, buy food, car note i'm broke until the next time. my friends do not have a job. they get free rent,food, medicaid and get to party every night and sleep long as they want. so once again why should i work to pay these bills when i can stay home and party and get them paid for free.

2006-11-16 00:52:16 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

and I have been at wits end should I leave him or not. He didn't cheat. What he did do was offer drugs to my at the time 18 year old son. Thank God he was smart to say no. We just got married Sept 16 2006. I'm finding it very hard to stay married to him because of this and other issues. I only found out about this yesterday.

2006-11-16 00:51:05 · 36 answers · asked by Ms.Deb 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-11-16 00:50:38 · 15 answers · asked by bnichole90 1 in Singles & Dating

My husband is always late coming home from work...he says he's talking to the guys from work/drinking a couple beers or he stops in the stores to look at things he is needing, the traffic is really bad etc. etc. Seems kinda fishy to me and wondering if anyone else would think this is normal???

2006-11-16 00:50:35 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i love my elder bro a lot.but he lives far away from us.he lives in hostel.he dont call me himself,i had to call him.so one day i took my father's mobile and sent him an sms it said"candy had died today in an road accident"that is me.he at once called my dad's mobile and he was shivering and tremblingwith fear.then i talked to him.he started scolding me.i know he was right.since then he never talked to me.i know i hav done a great blunder,but i am realy sorry for that.now he ll come tomorrow,i dont have courage to face him.plz tell what should i do?

2006-11-16 00:50:16 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

he got marriage with hindu girl by force his parents,he loves me too much.. he gave divorce her,now he is single n waiting 4 me what shud i do? his parents threats us.. coz m muslim n he is hindu...!

2006-11-16 00:50:04 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

Hello, I wonder if anybody is dealing with a similar situation. I have been happily married for 8 years now and I deeply love my husband. We are leaving abroad so we do not see family too often. Sometime ago his brother-in-law came to visit us and stayed with us for a week. I have known him since I started dating my husband about 11 years ago and we have always had so much respect, admiration and adoration for each other so we both deeply care for the other. Our relationship has always been good and fun because we feel so comfortable around each other but last time he was here I felt something more. I realized I was falling in love with him and once he was gone I knew for sure. I have not been able to stop thinking about him ever since and miss him so much. I know he feels the same even though we have not told each other. We both love my husband and would never hurt him so we both try to go on with our lives. Is anybody dealing with a situation like this? It's killing me softly!

2006-11-16 00:49:24 · 12 answers · asked by ZackStar 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I know a girl's email address. Would it be safe to email her as she would know my real name?

2006-11-16 00:49:08 · 9 answers · asked by mini 1 in Friends

I live in New orleans, LA I have been homeless for 4 months now and continue waiting on a FEMA trailer. I have been turned down by the local housing authority because I was not a recipiant of public assistance or sectio 8 housing before the Katrina Disaster. and turnd away by the shelters. no room available for my son and me. I told my son they told this to Jesus so, what do we do from ere. I am really wondering if there is any posibility of assistance. To try to get off the streets. I have been working however, the rents are out of controll here so, my money goes to live in hotels when I can afford to. I have a son, he is 15. he has been a real wonderful kid going through all this displacement. I'd just like to ask if the Red Cross or some orginazation could help me get him some warm clothes and if possibe something for Christmas. He has been such a wonderful little man inspite of what is going on. I just want to give him a happy time and a litttle hope. Please Help 504610384

2006-11-16 00:48:45 · 2 answers · asked by mita 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I have a friend witch has got it in2 her head that me and my lad friend like each other.. He is like a brother 2 me and we are very close.. There is NO feelings at all in that way,we have discused this because it was getting really silly at one point wiv peiople tryin 2 set us up.... We txt n c each other loadz n because ov that my girl friend wont give it up.. Shes even put it up on yahoo ansews n says were ment 2b wiv each other.. ITS DOIN MY HEAD IN!!!! Is starting 2 make me feel unconfortable that i cant act myself around him just incase my friend reads more in2 it.. HOW CAN I GET THROUGH 2 HER!!!!!!!!!!!1

2006-11-16 00:47:53 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

My Boyfriend is dating my friend,when i ask him about it he denied.
when i saw them together he started give me non sense excuses.I have resently notice these days that he is sleeping with her.AM CONFUSE I REALLY NEED ADVISE.

2006-11-16 00:45:00 · 24 answers · asked by Khadija D 1 in Singles & Dating

im a beauty myself but in a few weeks i will be attending a social gathering ..i want this guy whom i know will be there to notice me,how do i stand out

2006-11-16 00:44:23 · 24 answers · asked by tot 2 in Singles & Dating

I am from Ohio and my fiance is from Wisconsin. I moved to NC a little over 2 yrs ago and met my fiance in the state after I moved here. We both moved here for our jobs. Neither of us has family here. I thought to be fair we should have the wedding in NC rather than in OH. I know typically the wedding is held where the bride is from, but I would hate to leave out his family and friends. Is this a good compromise?

2006-11-16 00:43:35 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

Is there a certain type of guy that doesn't like to eat p***y ? I heard something and I was wondering if it's true.

2006-11-16 00:42:38 · 20 answers · asked by pink lady 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-16 00:42:09 · 15 answers · asked by relaxplease2005 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I would like to point out I myself am very open with her all the time of dangers on the internet and life ect I totaly respect her privicy it was by chance I came across her email and questions I gave her permision to use yahoo as I didnt see much harm in it and use it myself but I gave her boundreys no email ect I found she has three email address now why I wonder ? Iknow I have to talk with her today and I thank you all for your resent answers

2006-11-16 00:39:43 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I emailed a guy I know and like, that I thought he was a heartbreaker.
He wrote back to me, "I do not know if I could break your heart, but I bet it would be a lot of fun trying."

What in the heck does that mean???


WTF

2006-11-16 00:37:43 · 15 answers · asked by *Lovely* 2 in Singles & Dating

all the girls in my country go for older and married men for money and other goodies and younger guys are seen as kids. i dnt feel ok with this but if you are not a part of it, people see you as a jerk. is it true

2006-11-16 00:35:43 · 40 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating