is it better to have sex after marriage?
2006-11-16 00:56:12 · 20 answers · asked by jennifer s 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Wait to you are married to have sex. It wil be much better and you won't carry so much baggage with you.
2006-11-16 00:58:38 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Not only better...but the best thing to do. Some guys do marry no matter if the girl is still a virgin or not...for as long as they are deeply in love with each other. But...if would be a big bonus for them if the girl is still a virgin. It would be the best and priceless gift that a woman can give her man on the first night of their honeymoon.It would be a plus factor that will boast a man's ego ...knowing he's the first and hoping to be the last.
2006-11-16 01:15:47 · answer #2 · answered by dimma59 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is better to wait for marriage simply to avoid extreme heartache. Sex brings a lot of emotion into a relationship usually a lot more with girls then guys. If things don't work out and you breakup it is truely devastating. Sex intensifies all emotions in a relationship and works best when in a marriage because a marriage is secure. If you can wait till your married if you meet a guy who dosen't want to wait respect his feeligns and move on to someone who you know will be worth waiting for. You will enjoy sex so much more if you wait and have it the way it is meant to be had, in a marriage with someone who completly loves and respects you and loves your inner beauty as well as your outer beauty.
2006-11-16 01:09:44 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes it is because once u lose your virginity, and u try to stop its going to be hard. its better to hold out because u want miss something that u never had. Sex comes with a lot of emotions and sometimes i messes with people the wrong way. There's nothing wrong with being celibate, and it so many STD going around and it aint no need to say im going to use a condom cuz those things aint 100% and birth control aint a 100% against no STD. And there's so more answers in the Bible.
2006-11-16 01:02:07 · answer #4 · answered by shronda s 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
possibly? It relies upon on what occurs and how you experience. I propose that you wait a minimum of till your 16 or 17 earlier you've sex with the alternative sex. What I strongly propose, is that you commonly use condoms. there is no excuse right now for any youthful individual to contract HPV, Chlamydia, Herpes, HIV or the different STD. Be sensible and guard your self. All of this can impression you and damage your life once you become older. you may get cervical maximum cancers from HPV many years when you're contaminated. There are not any indicators or indicators of the virus that inform you that you've it. only be careful and use protection.
2016-11-24 22:23:28 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it's better to save yourself for marriage. I'm in an abstinent (saving for marriage) relationship right now myself... Yes, it's old fashioned, but it works. Doing the right thing is always the best way to go...What better gift is there to give to your future husband than the gift of purity? YOu shoudln't have to ask this world if it's the right thing to do, you should know, just like I know...It's a firm decision for me, and no way around it... & to flashpro...if it's safer, doesn't that automatically mean it's better?
2006-11-16 01:00:04 · answer #6 · answered by i ♥þîÑk☆ 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I personally would think twice before marrying someone who has no experience sexually with another person. The thought of them staying with me only for the rest of their lives. They are bound to be curious and stray. Too much of a risk. Sex before is better.
2006-11-16 01:01:37 · answer #7 · answered by Darlin 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you lose your virginity with your husband, you'll always be curious about sex with other people, and that'll tempt you to cheat.
Get all the random sex outta your system now, before it messes up a relationship.
2006-11-16 01:00:11 · answer #8 · answered by JediKnight 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
For me yes, because I know that my income is not enough to support a child, and that sex is something I want to share with my future husband. I know that I'm not ready. Plus I don't want to risk getting an STD. I want my first time to be with someone who I'm in a very deep relationship with, and I don't want to regret doing it just to do it, or just to keep someone around. Those are my reasons for waiting, to be completely impartial religion-wise. However, as a Christian, I choose not to because it's not what God wants for me.
2006-11-16 01:03:55 · answer #9 · answered by GLSigma3 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It fully depends if one is comfortable and ready to have sex. It's not a matter of "is it better to wait until after marriage" or not..
2006-11-16 01:01:23 · answer #10 · answered by CHA0TIK 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋