i know she likes me, but im uncertain on whether i really like her. Im plannning on breaking up with her and seeing how i feel and if i miss her, then ill ask her out again. Is this a good plan?
2006-11-16 00:52:44 · 12 answers · asked by big e 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes it is because you can't keep draging her threw a relationship that might end you will hurt her more in the end so yes but I would tell her how your feeling tell her you need some time to make sure you feel the same way she does and that you don't want to hurt her. So you just have to sit her down and talk to her that would be the best thing you could do.
2006-11-16 00:57:23 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tough one...if you don't think it is there maybe you should just move on. If she has feelings for you and doesn't have questions then you are going to hurt her by breaking up with her and she may not want to have anything to do with you to get over how she feels. You can suggest remaining friends. It would sound to me like you want to keep her around in case nothing better comes along.
2006-11-16 08:57:41 · answer #2 · answered by Hopey 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you reallly wanted to break up with her you would just do it you wouldn think twice about it. I think you should just talk to her. maybe whatever the problem is can be fixed but you can't know how it will be unless you try so just try but if you feel very strongly as far as not wanting to be with her then let it go
2006-11-16 09:09:16 · answer #3 · answered by ImOuThEreUdigg!! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude big mistake as if you break up that is the end of it. Go on a date and talk and then make you decision as you don't know what you may find probably she is the one and because you know it you are afraid.
2006-11-16 08:59:47 · answer #4 · answered by antionette_jazzy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Heck No! Why dont you all spend some time together and get to know eachother so you can see if you like her, then you ask her out. Dont play with other peoples emotions!
2006-11-16 08:56:09 · answer #5 · answered by shanya w 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
why are you assuming that she's your bek & call?
why do u think she'll still be available until you make up your mind?
don't u think its possible that she'll hate you for breakin up with her & go find someone who'll appreciate her better?
she's not a "thing" that'll wait around til u make up ur mind, she's a person with feelings.
would you like it if you knew that a girl broke up with you just to "try" & see if she misses you, thats like lab rat treatment!
next time around, make sure you like the girl before you make her your girlfriend & attach her to you.
good luck.
2006-11-16 08:58:05 · answer #6 · answered by Whatever 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well it could bite you in the ***, seriously, you could break up with her break her heart, then she finds someone else and you'll want her back. If you don't know if you love her than I don't think you do, if you could hurt her just to see if you would miss her, than how could you love her, if you could hurt her, I don't know, I know I would never break up with someone just because I think they would go back out with me I wouldn't take that chance/
2006-11-16 08:56:58 · answer #7 · answered by ladylunamina 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No,
Just think you could decide you miss her, but she decided to get another Man.
Women aren't stupid you know!
But you could always try it.
Its better than cheating.
2006-11-16 08:59:16 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give her the best orgasm of her life, she'll want another one!
2006-11-16 09:00:01 · answer #9 · answered by Pardon Moi? 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No...asshole.,
A better plan would be to get your ego in check.
2006-11-16 08:56:31 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋