i love my elder bro a lot.but he lives far away from us.he lives in hostel.he dont call me himself,i had to call him.so one day i took my father's mobile and sent him an sms it said"candy had died today in an road accident"that is me.he at once called my dad's mobile and he was shivering and tremblingwith fear.then i talked to him.he started scolding me.i know he was right.since then he never talked to me.i know i hav done a great blunder,but i am realy sorry for that.now he ll come tomorrow,i dont have courage to face him.plz tell what should i do?
2006-11-16 00:50:16 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
What u did was completly write in oneside , but wrong in other. You did this because u love ur brother alot and want to be with him all the time. That's ordinary. But it seem hurting to ur brother. May be because he loves u alot and when he heard that u had died in accident . But later on told that ur completly alright. And it was just a joke. Ur brother took it seriously because no brother in this world would like to hear joke concerned with his sisters life. So, I would like to give u an advice that go to him hold his legs and say sorry for what u did. And if not so send alot of flowers and cards with apologisation. If he real loves u , he will forget u. Because we get hurt most with the things of our dearers. And no dearer can keep one apart from himself. I wish he will forget u. And remember never do this again. Not with anyone. Because it hurts and affects us alot. I wish I am able to solve ur answer. Thanks for sharing ur question and giving us a chance to solve it. If I was able to solve ur problem please notify me. It was a pleasure for me. Thanks once again. Take care
2006-11-16 02:33:22 · answer #1 · answered by Fariha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only way to undo your blunder is to gather your courage and face him. You have to admit your mistake and express your regrets. There is no other way out. Expect an initial barrage of tough reprimand. Once he cools down, tell him why you did that. And instead of going into arguments or trying to justify your act, just plead with him to forgive your mistake and talk to you more often on the phone. He being your elder brother, things wouldn't be too tough.
2006-11-16 11:46:57 · answer #2 · answered by Modest 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should face him anyway. Tell him how sorry you are and how much you love him. If you can't do this face to face, have someone hand him a card with this written inside. Tell him you were just trying, with any way at all, to get him to talk to you. Let him also know you understand it was wrong to do that and you'll never do it again. Good luck to you
2006-11-16 08:53:55 · answer #3 · answered by shizzlechit 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all. How old are you? You must be pretty young to pull a stunt like that. My advice to you is to face your brother and tell him how sorry you are for what you did. Evedintally, you desperatly want his attention or you wouldn't have pulled that trick. Explain to him your reasons for what you did and show some remorse. He will forgive you in time.
2006-11-16 08:56:48 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah dont worry he is U R brother U have to face him ask him sorry and U have to understood that everybody has there own problem which make them tension and so hereafter be carefull thats enough
2006-11-16 09:01:38 · answer #5 · answered by Ramasubramanian 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that was a pretty stupid thing to do .. I would not talk to you either , you scared him and mad him feel lost inside .. you need to write him a letter and tell him how sorry you are for making him feel the way he did .death is no joke !!!!!!!!!!!! then give him the letter, and leave it at that , if he forgives you , then you have a forgiving brother , if not I do not blame him ..
2006-11-16 14:23:32 · answer #6 · answered by blueflowerscs 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU HAVE DONE BIG MISTAKE OF YOUR LIFE. NEVER DO IT AGAIN WITH ANY BODY. YOUR ONE JOKE CAN TAKE THE LIFE OF YOUR DEAR ONE. NOW WHEN HE WILL COME HUG HIM AND SAY SORRY FOR ALL THIS. ALSO PROMISE HIM THAT YOU WILL NOT REPEAT SUCH A NON SENSE THING IN YOUR WHOLE LIFE.
2006-11-16 22:48:22 · answer #7 · answered by RAMAN IOBIAN 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi, Candy..Don't worry! He is your brother who will excuse you for your childish act, once you make-up your courage to face him.
2006-11-16 23:20:05 · answer #8 · answered by mkm 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him that you know what you did was stupid, but you were desperate for him to call you. Tell him you are sorry for scaring him so badly, and next time you will call him just to say "hi".
2006-11-16 08:55:22 · answer #9 · answered by angeleyes 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You cant hide from him forever. Talk to him and he'll forgive you. It might take a little time but he will. Try to figure out why you did it and explain it to him. Don't avoid him.
2006-11-16 08:54:00 · answer #10 · answered by Jer 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋