how do i stand out in a crowd of beautifull spoiled girls.......?

Question

im a beauty myself but in a few weeks i will be attending a social gathering ..i want this guy whom i know will be there to notice me,how do i stand out

Answer 1

Have your own style. The thing about spoiled, beautiful rich girls is that they are usually all the same and the only style they have is the ability to pick the priciest thing on the rack at Needless-Markup.

Give yourself a new look, different, more about you than fitting in with all the glamourous wanna-be magazine-cutouts.

Next, have some confidence in yourself. If you have to pretend to be you about five years down the line to do that, then do it. Smile, look that guy in the eye and ask him if he wants to dance. If he says no, good, you get to dance with him. If he says no, then tell him that's good, because you'd rather go into a dark corner and kiss him for a while than dance anywise.

Be forthright, be strong, be confident and if he isn't interested, don't push it, just go find someone else to spark some romance with. Maintain eye contact and smile. Believe me it works.

Answer 2

SMILE #1. (not the fake kind, be real). Look people in the eye. More than likely the others think they are to good to be nice to everyone. Be outgoing & friendly to everyone in the room, even the not so beautiful or spoiled people. You might create a situation so that you can look him in the eye and smile, maybe ask him a question, not a stupid one, walk over with the uppity gilrls if they are going to be around him, then take it from ther. Don't try to outdo everyone, that will be the start of a miserable relationship if he notices you for that! Maybe a bit of advise about him or any other guy you are ever interested in. If he is the type that only goes for the most popular, most beautiful, mostly wanted girls than he is probably a very shallow, self centered, arrogant, ugly on the inside & conceded kinda guy that you would constantly have to watch and worry about cheating if he see's something better.
This is not just for this social gathering, apply this everyday of your life. What I mean is don't short change yourself in the quality of a guy, the most handsome or popular is not always the best choice for your happiness in the long run. You want everyone to like you always.

Answer 3

OK here's my tips, dress elegantly, and classicly beautiful. When you see this guy, walk over to him and tell him you are glad to see him there, and ask him questions about himself. Ask about what he thinks of the social gathering, where did he get his outfit, how'd he come to pick it out, did his Mom help and is that his favorite color. What would he rather be doing? Just questions that center around him and what he likes, or for that matter, what he doesn't like. Not many guys can resist the temptation to talk about themselves. And a girl who asks about them is so rare, you will stand out in his memory for years as the only girl who asked him about him. All you have to do is take notes and let him talk. When he finishes, ask another question about him and listen. Hard to resist a girl who listens to you brag a little. So those girls will fade to background while he talks to you about him. Trust me! Works everytime! If he asks you something, make sure you answer nicely and work it back around to him. If he says, "gosh you look so pretty, I love your dress" say "thank you, my Mom helped me to pick it out (or didn't). And you look so handsome (nice, cute) where did you get yours?" You know? Don't ask questions that require only a yes or a no, but require some reflection of explanation. Also works at parties where you know no one, just find someone interesting and do the same. I try and find someone with something interesting like a necklace, pin or bracelet and say something like "Oh my, thats a lovely_____, where did you get that?" And they are off and running with their husband got it for their anniversary, from their Grandmother, etc.......and that leads to other questions. I don't have to be a great conversationalist, just ask some good questions and people will talk to you! Good luck darling, I hope you have a wonderful time!

Answer 4

Be yourself. Since if you're also beautiful spoiled (nothing wrong of being one), then it's your other features that will stand out.

But if you want to stand out with good attention and/or bad attention...

At the gathering, observe what is the average and what is not there. Do what is NOT average and what is NOT there, amplify it if you want extra attention.

Answer 5

Be the life of the party. Make it a point to go up to people you don't know and introduce yourself. Don't let those spoiled girls ruin the fun you can have at any party. Act like you own the place, be confident, assertive and remember your deserve to be there as much as those girls. Have fun and just enjoy yourself.

Answer 6

Well, for a start, be yourself. Arrive a bit late and make a "grand" entrance maybe?! Doll yourself up to the 9's, and try and "hover" near this guy, and hopefully he will notice you. Don't put on airs and graces - guys hate that! And anyhow, you know this guy, so say "Hi" or arrange with a friend who knows him to introduce you. Good luck!

Answer 7

Take some advice from a gracefully aging debutante-cultivate your mind. Beauty fades, brains don't. Educate yourself on past & present events, devote yourself to your passions, develop your spirituality, your own niche, so that you will have interesting things to talk about. Chemistry may attract, but it won't hold a man like a fascinating conversastion.

Answer 8

Hire 3 mates to act as body guards, boys are better, big boys better still.

Have cards printed with your pic and sign them then get said fellas to distribute them.

Failing that, wear no make-up or clothes, hire a real big romping room, walk up to him and lead him away.

At the end of the day girl, be you.

If he don't love 'you' , then find someone who does.

I'm quite easy on the eye myself xx

Answer 9

Ask a waiter or bar man to bring him a drink from you.
When he looks over blow him a kiss.
I bet no other girl will have the guts to do this and it will make you stand out. And remember dont say goodbye when you leave.

Answer 10

reverse everything
straight hair goes curly
wear your real nails instead of tips or a full set
wear a cinderella dress instead of the current trend
find costume jewelry to accent dress
if its cool wear a stole or shawl

but most importantly be you

if this guy doesnt notice you-his loss becuase i know plenty of others will