Me and my boyfriend have been dating for almost 3 years, and we have a 9 1/2 month old daughter. I don't know what to do about our relationship, because all he wants to do is talk on the phone and text other females. he says he's never cheated on me, but how can i know that when he's done stuff on his phone (ex. had a girl send pictures of her butt to his phone). i don't know whether i should believe him or not. He says he loves me and he would never cheat on me, but i don't know if i can believe him after that stuff he's done and he continuously keeps hiding his phone when i try to look at it to see what he's typing and who it is he's talking to. I need help major with my relationship. I've tried to break up with him, but i have no car or license (because i got pregnant when i was going to try to get it and he didn't want me driving) So if i did break it off i would have nowhere to go. I don't know how to stop being dependent on him. HELP ME PLEASE!!
2006-11-16 00:52:20 · 5 answers · asked by Munkee-Luv 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I don't have a car, no license and my parents have their own problems to deal with so i can't and wouldn't think about going back to them.
2006-11-16 03:26:16 · update #1
i do ask him to spend time with me. and his view of spending time with me, is watching tv. no talking nothing. just laying on the floor watching tv. i always text him and sometimes he barely ever texts me back. I TRY EVERYTHING TO GET HIS ATTENTION. and he just keeps doing what he does.
(AND WE ARE MARRIED PRACTICALLY SO WHAT IS IN HIS PHONE IS MY BUSINESS TOO! MR. OR MS. EAC)
2006-11-16 05:54:14 · update #2
well staying in the relationship cuz of transportation reasons is really a bad and probably unhappy choice. You definintely need to break it off with him.he's not respecting you and even if he hasn't physically cheated on you he is still cheating by obviously saying stuff to girls he doesn't want you to know. in 2002 when I was with my b/f at the time,I was in his dorm and I was sitting on the bed and he had this chart thing on the comp, it had everyone's phone number and he freaked out at me, cuz I was looking at the screen and it was because there was a girl's phone number on there. I wouldn't have thought anything of it but he was feeling guilty.he eventually told me everything a week or so later.Everything started to make sense. he said ya know how I've been acting strange. well an example was I was talking to him on the phone and he said he was going out and I said oh what are you doing and he said GOING OUT! and I'm like omg wtf? ya know and it hurt,again that was him feeling bad about what he was doing.I mean what wrote seems a lot like what my friend Tom does.he's in a kinda controling relationship.he actually got married a year ago,definitely too young and he does say stuff to me that he shouldn't,so he sneaks around too on the phone and internet.You already saw a pic of a girls butt on his phone.that's cheating enough.You need to be like I'm letting you go.You obviously don't want 2 be here and you don't respect me and you don't care enough so you don't have to sneak around anymore cuz I'm threw with you. and then tell him to leave. ya gotta be tough like that cuz if you're not you might break down and let him back in.block his number and any communincation with him cuz it seems you might just go back to him.I dunno how old you guys are,but most likely he's gonna stay this way,unless he's a teenager and still young.Don't try to change him.just be done with him.Guys won't change unless they want to and you can't make them want to change.so many girls waste their time trying to change guys and it won't work and all it does is hurt you.Ya gotta just try and be happy and I'm sure another guy will come along.Just stay strong and be with family and friends for support.I hope everything works out for you.Just keep your hopes up and everything will be good.Think positively and confidently and you'll be happy.
2006-11-16 01:06:28 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What a person keep in his phone is private.
If you want more time with your boyfriend, ask him, either directly or by texting to him.
If you're lonely, you could always come see your parents, other family members, and friends.
2006-11-16 04:33:13 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to decide one thing...
what are you hoping to teach your child about what is right and wrong?
He needs to grow up and be responsible. you need to leave. there are resources for you to get out on your own.
2006-11-16 01:08:05 · answer #3 · answered by bluedanube69 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why not go back home with your parents?
2006-11-16 00:59:06 · answer #4 · answered by crazylady1193 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
seek help for the society organisation or from church..
2006-11-16 00:57:46 · answer #5 · answered by blur 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋