Exes ever forgive or want back?
my ex and i broke up quite a while ago. although i think he loves me well he says his heart is with me.he sed if u love some one let them go if they come back there awlays ures. i have been a ***** to him since we broke up because i didnt know how to deal with it. threatening him with various things. ehich i regret totally.
he says he needs to find out who he is , he sed his heart is with me but his head isnt and circumstances mean we cant be together at mo becaus at the monet he cant forget the bad stuff that happened at the end? some explanations please. is he needing this time to forget the bad stuff , if so do u think he ever will? or can
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the whole purpose of not finding somone knew is thta i love him and know it can be good
i asked if he wnats me to move on , and he sed no he doenst but he cant be with me at this time.
2006-11-16 00:54:55 · 8 answers · asked by lola f 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
HE HASNT MOVED HAS HE IF HES SAYING HE LOVES ME AJUST CANT BE WITH ME AT THE MOENT. HES AN HONEST GUY HED SAY U NEED TO MOVEON TO M E. HE IS NOT SAYING THAT
2006-11-16 01:26:17 · update #1
Just give him the space he needs right now. It sounds like you've hurt him and maybe he is afraid that you are a psycho...since you threatened him with things. If I were him, I'd rethink this relationship and decide if I'd want to go through all of it again. Love can endure alot, but not everything sometimes.
2006-11-16 01:00:30 · answer #1 · answered by angeleyes 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have to wonder what "the bad stuff that happened at the end" was about. Were you unfaithful to him? Are you the jealous type? That can drive a man away. Jealousy serves two purposes, really. It drives a man away and it leaves you thinking "I was right that he wanted someone else". Ironically, it's the jealousy that makes him want someone else. If you were unfaithful to him, and he can't get it out of his head, he simply doesn't trust you anymore. It takes but a moment to destroy someone's trust in you, but it can take a lifetime to win it back. If you've been unfaithful, perhaps consider starting over with someone new, and don't be a whore this time.
2006-11-16 01:02:10 · answer #2 · answered by Jack 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
See what being ignorant and childish gets ya? I'm sorry, but you have lost that guy. You should have been a better person when he informed you he needed space. You must have been pretty nasty for him to not like you anymore. I suggest you apologize to him for your bad behavior and try to remain friends. He will never forget how nasty you were. See, when guys see girls acting bitchy, the get turned off. He thinks that is the real you and that you will turn into that at the drop of a hat. Give it up and move on. Good luck.
2006-11-16 00:59:53 · answer #3 · answered by cookie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sorry but this is his way of letting go of you. I went thru this a long time ago with a previous boyfriend that I was with for a very long time. All of a sudden he needed space and wanted to find himself. I decided to wait for him for about 2 months because I thought that we would get back together as well because that was the impression that he was giving me. But in actuality he already knew that we wouldn't get back together and had already moved on himself. When I realized this I knew I had to move on as well. I learned an important lesson as well. If a guy tells you that he needs space...you need to let go of him and move on. No guy who says that to you is worth waiting for.
2006-11-16 01:43:18 · answer #4 · answered by Jennifer W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When someone says these things it's their way of trying to dump you gently. He hasn't got the balls to say that he really isn't interested anymore, so he is treating you bad so you will give him the flick. It's a classic trick so he can come out on top with everyone feeling sorry for him because you left him.
I might be wrong but I don't think so.
2006-11-16 01:05:05 · answer #5 · answered by scottleigh89 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think...
both of you are overlooking the fact that you HAVE moved on.
Thats why you are exes...
thats why he feels he needs to find himself.
that's why he hasn't let go of the bad stuff at the end.
You can find another...but you have to let go first.
There's no such thing as only loving one person...
- you can, should, and probably will love another.
Maybe not the same way - hopefully better...
but I think you might even feel it to...it's time to move on...
otherwise you wouldn't be asking...
good luck.
2006-11-16 01:01:07 · answer #6 · answered by Warrior 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hate to say it but it's over. That is just way nice way to end things. And being mean to him is defiantly strikes against you. I know you regret it but it shows him you maturity level.
2006-11-16 01:01:14 · answer #7 · answered by highrange101 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget about it, you don't need his permission to move on. If space is what he wants, then space is what he gets. And more of it that he ever bargained for.
2006-11-16 01:18:57 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋