Family & Relationships - 15 November 2006

I will be going on a trip out of town this weekend to visit my family I will be travelling with my husband. I still keep in touch with my ex boyfriend who is in jail right now, I told him about my trip today and he is very upset with me for going out. I am still so in love with him that even though Im married I cannot get over him and sometimes when he calls me we make plans on getting back together when he gets out of jail. The reasons I broke up with my ex boy friend was because he cheated in my face all the time, he lied, he did drugs and he was always very agressive with me. He would always be accusing me of cheating. He did not want me going out of my house at all or talk to my friends. My husband is a nice and responsible person I could not ask for more from a husband but I do not love him.I feel very guilty that I will be going out to have fun and he is in jail. Please help me decide what to do. I feel terrible and very depressed.

2006-11-15 09:20:44 · 7 answers · asked by 0022 1 in Singles & Dating

must be male 35 -40 years of age, must need a ready made family of five, kids range from 14 - 7.... obviously rich (w/ family size).

2006-11-15 09:20:32 · 13 answers · asked by simms 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My boyfriend tries to have open communication with me and wants to feel free to discuss any and everything with me. I try to be understanding, but its difficult because know he was once "In Love" with her.

2006-11-15 09:19:56 · 18 answers · asked by roxie 1 in Singles & Dating

My bf and I have been dating for over two years. For reasons I don't wish to get into on her, I snooped into his email - the first and only time I've done that. While in the email, I saw that he wrote the following email to somebody:

"Hey - remember me? We hooked up about a year ago... fun times, we f$#%ed and moved your bed all over your room. You game for another round?

Let me know-"

I confronted him with this. He said that he never slept with this guy. That he was just talking dirty and that it was so long ago that he was going on the idea the guy wouldn't remember what happened. He says he's never cheated on me, not once. That he was only responding to this guy who used to constantly email him. Then, last night, he was drunk and just decided to email him to talk dirty like that.

I don't know what to think/do. We live together. We were planning on moving to a different city when our lease is up. He's told me he wants to spend the rest of his life with me.

2006-11-15 09:18:58 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Who do I turn to regarding a divorce order? It states for neither my ex or I to make bad remarks about each other. Well he did I heard him on a speaker phone conversation with our daughter. He was supposed to pay me also still nothing. I dont have a lawyer who do tell?

2006-11-15 09:18:44 · 9 answers · asked by mperezwp 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Okay so I met this guy who is a few years younger than me. Since the first day I met him he calls me every morning and every night. I've only known him for a week. We've been out on one date and we have another date planned for this weekend. He says he wants to spend as much time with me as I allow him to.I've been hurt before and want to take things slow. He says he's okay with it and that he'll wait for me. Now I'm not naive enough to fall for the game. But how do I know if he's really sincere or just waiting until he gets some from me then cut and run.

2006-11-15 09:18:41 · 29 answers · asked by Heaven26 3 in Singles & Dating

i left some pee on the toilet seat. the girl who got mad at me asked me why i couldnt have cleaned it up. she then said she cleans up when she misses. i can understand how a man with bad aim (me) can miss the toilet, but how can a woman miss the toilet????

2006-11-15 09:18:37 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Is there something wrong w/ a man that sits down and pees? Does it make it any better that he was drunk?

2006-11-15 09:18:14 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend had a hard on for about 15min until it suddenly went down. We tried everything to get it hard again but it was hopeless. Any suggestions other then viagra or similar pills? Thanks!

2006-11-15 09:17:49 · 19 answers · asked by Zoy 2 in Singles & Dating

I like a boy and his name is john he talks to me but i think i scared him away Please Help me because i really like him!!

2006-11-15 09:17:46 · 11 answers · asked by Mandy M 1 in Singles & Dating

when you start talking to a girl you just meet, what are some good questions and things to talk about that can keep her talking. also, alot of people say when you start talking to a girl you should start touching her hand and wrist and stuff, is that true, girls wont get angry because some stranger is toucher her? please help!!!

2006-11-15 09:17:00 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm worried it won't always turn her on like now. We have a large size and strength difference between us. In fact we are opposite in every way, profession (she loads trucks), education, earnings, physique, endurance and knowledge (arts, politics, literature).... All this seems to excite her. Plus she is 15 years younger.

We are jointly turned on by her power lifter size at 6'3" and 350 plus. I'm 5'7" about 97-99 lbs. She lifts me with one arm, we play wrestle and that always leads to the bedroom after she overwhelmes me in 6 seconds. She likes to watch me unsuccessfully try to lift her free weights or do the treadmill. I'm worried if she gets bored with this, the relationship will end.

I spent a lot of money on her and don't want to go any further if it isn't going to last. Do these things last?

2006-11-15 09:16:57 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

you see the second man the one i was with for five years is a great guy too, and he has a stable job he just got his own home but like i told him yeah that stuff is great to have but i dont want to be with someone who works 90 hours a week, i want a capanion, i know he does care he, he always says he wished i could read his mind so i would know that he cared or he was great full. but i told him nobody can read minds you have to show it. he is a great dad but i just wish that he was with them more. he said he wants to be with his family and yeah we were a family but it seemed like i was the only one doing all the work, because he worked all the time. he says he works that much because he wants to have nice things and give us what he could not have when he was a child. we got along good but it seemed to me like we were best friends with sexual relations. we can talk about everything all the time and like to be in each others pressence. this is the last paragraph tell me what you think !!

2006-11-15 09:16:53 · 5 answers · asked by Brian 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

What would a woman who enjoys being single enjoy about being married ? What she enjoys about being single can't be part of her marriage . Why wouldn't she lose interest in being married after a while ? Wouldn't she miss the single life ? What's to stop her from going for a divorce the minute her marriage gets difficult ?

2006-11-15 09:16:45 · 5 answers · asked by I_hate_being_single 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I just got engaged last night, we're planning to get married Spring of 2008, is there anything you could change about the way your wedding went or any advise or suggestions you have for me would be great Thanks!!! YEAH I"M GETTING MARRIED!!

2006-11-15 09:16:33 · 26 answers · asked by graciegirl 5 in Weddings

my wife complained that we never have forceful s e x. what does she mean. any suggestions

2006-11-15 09:16:22 · 25 answers · asked by gazzaprince 1 in Marriage & Divorce

how do u keep them out of ur life and keep them out, i wanna make a fresh start

2006-11-15 09:16:09 · 8 answers · asked by sarah_squidge 1 in Friends

What would a woman who enjoys being single enjoy about being married ? What she enjoys about being single can't be part of her marriage . Why wouldn't she lose interest in being married after a while ? Wouldn't she miss the single life ? What's to stop her from going for a divorce the minute her marriage gets difficult ?

2006-11-15 09:16:09 · 5 answers · asked by I_hate_being_single 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-11-15 09:15:55 · 41 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-15 09:15:34 · 4 answers · asked by freeza m 1 in Singles & Dating

i live in the boston area (but he hates baseball so no red sox ideas!!) and we've been together for 2 1/2 years. we're in college..he's the guy with everything so help me with some unique or unexpected ideas!!

2006-11-15 09:15:03 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I mean can't we leave our house at age 99. I want to leave my perants at age 20.

2006-11-15 09:14:51 · 5 answers · asked by gabrieladc96 1 in Family

This boy is really sweet and I just want to get to know him better. Maybe he is the boy of my dreams but I can't find a chance to talk to him because I only have one class with him. When I do see him he is with his friends or I can't think of anything to say. I am frightened because I don't want him to hate me and not give me a chance. I am scared that when I start to talk to him he will think I like him and horrible things will start to happen. Please help!

2006-11-15 09:14:19 · 5 answers · asked by clarecubbear 1 in Singles & Dating

The Columbian guy that comes to fix the drain and the walls is one papi chulo...we were flirting a bit in Spanish. Is it proper for me to make a move on my dad's employee?

2006-11-15 09:14:03 · 14 answers · asked by Oopsie Daisy 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-15 09:13:19 · 12 answers · asked by metalbiblue 1 in Singles & Dating

in xoxo is the x hugs or kisses?

2006-11-15 09:13:13 · 13 answers · asked by Kaitlyn 2 in Singles & Dating

Sometimes I just feel invisible.

2006-11-15 09:12:31 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-11-15 09:11:57 · 18 answers · asked by smizzle 2 in Singles & Dating

so i went out with this guy and we never kissed and then i broke up with him for no reason im stupid but i totally regret it :( i see im every day in school and he looks at me and i look at him and i still like him a lot i was wonder if i should kiss him and if i should how would i approach it. please answer thank you

2006-11-15 09:11:05 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am getting married May of 2007. Our Reception is at a different location then the ceremony. The ceremony is at 1:30 Dinner will be served at 5 that to me is WAY too much time between, but nothing I could change. Guests can enter the Reception hall, drinks will be served but I don't want them getting bored.
SOOO I am wonder if anyone has good ideas to keep my guest entertained in that time frame ?!?

2006-11-15 09:11:04 · 12 answers · asked by Nichole 3 in Weddings