Family & Relationships - 15 November 2006

My sister is getting an iPod video for christmas and i am really mad about that because i had to pay for one with my own money. I get a big present this year i know its childish, but i want it to be something insanely cool that my sister will die over jealousy about... any suggestions? it should be around the cost of a video iPod (or higher...)

2006-11-15 09:55:24 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2006-11-15 09:55:20 · 7 answers · asked by cambosoup 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-15 09:54:42 · 10 answers · asked by Dorothy L 1 in Family

I'm not ugly, but I have braces. I keep my mouth super-clean 24/7, and use gum and breathmints 24/7, keep up the hair, makeup, clothes, everything... but I'm still very insecure about talking to guys because I have braces! What do they think about girls with braces? I've been told I'm pretty, but I honestly can't know if my braces stand in the way. Honest opinions, please!

2006-11-15 09:54:28 · 11 answers · asked by Tall&Lovely 1 in Singles & Dating

Ive been talking on the phone/hanging out with a girl that I really like. She has a boyfriend.. but things are kind of on the rocks between them and she seems interested in me, and Ive liked her for a while.

When we talk on the phone, we talk for like an hour to and hour and a half. When we hang out, Im always trying to think of things to say and what we should do.

Im not looking for advice on how to steal her from her boyfriend, but I at least want to be somewhat interesting when we are hanging out.

What should I say to keep the convo going and what should I suggets we do when we hang out? I live in a pretty bording town, so there arent many places you can go, you have to be creative. Any ideas? Thanks all

2006-11-15 09:53:51 · 7 answers · asked by Uh Oh 2 in Singles & Dating

I like a guy and he likes me. I want to go out with him but all of the girls on my bus make it sound like it would be a bad thing. I want to give him my number so that we can talk one on one about it but I don't want to seem to desperate.

2006-11-15 09:53:48 · 6 answers · asked by Sammy B 2 in Singles & Dating

when you ignore them and act like you dont care when they yell at you. Its really funny.

2006-11-15 09:53:46 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Or does this mean that you want something more?
I met a great guy that I really enjoy talking to, but lately I have the feeling that he want's something more, and I don't. What to do?

2006-11-15 09:53:45 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

say you've had sex with a couple of girls, what would you do?

2006-11-15 09:53:31 · 2 answers · asked by princess_anne_2009 3 in Singles & Dating

he has been nice when around me but I still feel uncomfortable around him. My wife feels I shouldnt be and I am not being fair because I dont think it is fair to me to have to spend time around him. He wants to go to her parents because he is fighting with his mother and sister and not going to their house.

2006-11-15 09:53:05 · 33 answers · asked by rottn30 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-11-15 09:52:20 · 6 answers · asked by Rebekah 1 in Friends

so let's say there's this guy Eric. and he is in one of my classes. now i'm really nice to everyone, so i tried being friends with eric this year. and all of a sudden he's helping me with homework, staying after school with me, and he even gave me his phone number and said i should call him if i need more homework help. i doubt he wants anything, cuz he's always staring at me in class too,
right now i was just talking to him online, and he wasn't really replying, so i asked him what was up and he said that he was being distracted, by another girl. so i said he should go talk to her because i'm obviously in the way... and he left. what's that all supposed to mean?

2006-11-15 09:52:17 · 3 answers · asked by Maria18 2 in Singles & Dating

This is about my new fiance--i have already posted about him being a mama's boy, but when it comes down to it, he tells his mother everything--i mean everything--this pisses me off to no end and i don't know what to do-i am fed up---he thinks that since he was the only child they could have he has to be some angel and tell them what they want to hear-he does not stand up for himself and i am sick of it--we just got engaged but i do not want to live with his parents anymore---he thinks its ok 2 live at home till ur 25 or married or whatever and more and more i feel like an outsider--i always get out voted on things, and he says he loves me, but i feel like he truly does not care-its only what his parents want and what makes his mom happy--he seems more and more like a whimp and i have stopped confiding in him--tell me, would you risk a long term relationship/relationships in general with girls just to make your mom happy? i don't feel i stand a chance! Help!

2006-11-15 09:52:13 · 15 answers · asked by SuzyBelle04 6 in Marriage & Divorce

I've just started going out with a girl, and I'm a virgin. Some things worry me, other things don't. There is one thing about sex that worries me, and I'd like some advice on it.

It's really to do with the missionary position. Firstly, I'm worried that I'll crush her. I'm a little over weight, but that's not the point. It's more to do with men being bigger/heavier than women.

Secondly, I'm worried about keeping a rhythm. I don't intend to be drunk, but even sober it worries me.

Lastly, if I lie on top of her, do I do it skin-to-skin or should there be a 'gap' between us if you see what I mean. I'm worried about getting started in my thrusts.

I thought that we could do other positions, but we'd probably do missionary eventually, so it's best to get things sorted.

Any advice would be greatly appreciated.

2006-11-15 09:51:54 · 41 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i slipped up and told my ex bf that i was still in love with him and that i would do anything for him still after he's already had two girlfriends after me...i didnt know what else to do because i love him still. i dont think that he is coming back to me but our relationship was pure bliss :) i just wanted to know, guys, if this was smart to do although he has said that he is over me (kinda) and he's restarting his life? i think im just gonna let it go but its hard when im not yet in a relationship...by the way, my friends are just telling me to move on because he's not worth it...i believe them to a certain extent...again, be gentle when giving me advice. thank yall

2006-11-15 09:51:52 · 10 answers · asked by porkydd 2 in Singles & Dating

I'm dealing with a lot these days, particularly two terminally ill parents but you know what? I'm so grateful for so many other things...namely: the good health of my husband, children and self as well as things like good food to eat, a warm bed to sleep in and friends that genuinely care and support me. These things are my 'stars'. What are yours?

2006-11-15 09:51:44 · 5 answers · asked by coronationcats 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

I met this guy about 2 months ago when he was in town on business. We talked all evening and I felt that we really connected. At the end of the night he kissed me on the cheek and said that he would like to get together the next time he was in town. We talked online at least once a week for about four weeks until he came back to town on business. We had another excellent night together. He told me how much he liked me when he met me, how much he had looked forward to seeing me again etc. He even cancelled his meeting the next day so that we could spend more time together. When he got home that evening after his flight he text to say that he had had a great time. Since then we've been in contact about every four days (we've alternated turns contacting one another). This has gone on for about two weeks. However, it's going on about six days now and I haven't heard from him. He hasn't tryed to talk to me online either. Why hasn't he called? Should I write him off and move on

2006-11-15 09:50:38 · 11 answers · asked by bg 1 in Singles & Dating

For example, he can’t recall a story the same way…….story changes OR he gets frustrated , angry, or bothered when asked about something that seems doubtful...what r some other examples ??

2006-11-15 09:50:10 · 7 answers · asked by lhoy2k6 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-15 09:48:47 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

It's a little more complicated than this but here is pretty much whats happening now.....
I've been dating my boyfriend for 6 years now...we are on the verge of deciding whether or not to get married...see he is in the military and stationed in Germany....so are plans are to get married and just Fianally be together!
But Now because of our bumpy past he still can't find himself to forget what I've done to him! But its not like he's been perfect either! I love him so much and would love to finally share my life with him...So my question is should I keep on trying to make him see how much I truly care about him or should I just throw in the towel and move forward with my life?

2006-11-15 09:48:27 · 21 answers · asked by Brenda S 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-15 09:47:31 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

any ideas on speechs and jokes????

2006-11-15 09:47:08 · 16 answers · asked by memegettingmarried 1 in Marriage & Divorce

im embarrassed to be asking,but i have worked for what little i have.but we have living here, 5 kids ,there mother, and myself. im not there dad, but 2 years ago when they had nowhere to go i had do what i then was able to do. we now are family to each other but i have to be honest its i bit over the budget due to the father ,that has not made any moves towards pitching in. in short,lol,we need propane. where does one get help with this? we are in oklahoma ,tulsa area, and im lost!! well thanks ,and you can bet we will keep these kids warm this winter,without doubt ,no matter! i tell ya, it sure aint the usa i once remembered! im thinking were all fixin to see some ugly days ahead. lets stay together all...were all we got. peace yall

2006-11-15 09:47:03 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2006-11-15 09:45:55 · 14 answers · asked by umimthinking 1 in Singles & Dating

feeling about him. Should I tell her about this? We live in different cities and she told me all about him over the phone, hes got a really bad past and doesn't seem to have much of a future. I want the best for her and I think she deserves better. Should I tell her anything or just let her learn herself?

2006-11-15 09:45:31 · 6 answers · asked by Cristy B 3 in Friends

2006-11-15 09:45:23 · 12 answers · asked by ann jo 3 in Marriage & Divorce

ok i talked to one of my best friends to try and set me up with a guy and now all she does is flirt with him. and he seems to enjoy it...i dont know what to do about it! its getting on my nerves and idk if i should say something to this girl or not -- oh and just for the record...this girl has a boyfriend

2006-11-15 09:45:21 · 12 answers · asked by VolleyballChic4eva*** 2 in Singles & Dating

I love my fiance to death and he loves me too, we've had fights and problems before about a "friend" of mine. I don't talk to her often anymore because she's a big flirt and I try find every excuse under the sun to avoid me & my partner from seeing her.

Like I said, we've had fights over her before & he knows how I feel about her, he says he has no respect for her & that she just causes trouble between many couples but his actions speak louder than his words. She is the last person I would expect for him to tickle and wrestle on a bed with as he is only encouraging her to flirt. We had a massive fight last night about it and he walked home (10km) He says to me that he knows how I feel and he wont do it again. But he said that last time when he kept smacking her on the butt.
Has he learnt his lesson? I still have the doubt in the back of my head that we will fight about this again & that he will forget about what I've told him.
What should I do?
I love him so much.

2006-11-15 09:45:17 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

i ave met a gal ove the matri site but i donno how shud i ask her number cuss previously wen i asked another gal she refused me so m bit affraid this time and dont wanna take any chance!!!

2006-11-15 09:45:03 · 10 answers · asked by amyin 2 in Marriage & Divorce

please someone give me advice, this kid at my school loves to mess with me by throwing stuff at me what do i do their always messing with me

2006-11-15 09:44:53 · 15 answers · asked by trncbeard 2 in Friends