i slipped up and told my ex bf that i was still in love with him and that i would do anything for him still after he's already had two girlfriends after me...i didnt know what else to do because i love him still. i dont think that he is coming back to me but our relationship was pure bliss :) i just wanted to know, guys, if this was smart to do although he has said that he is over me (kinda) and he's restarting his life? i think im just gonna let it go but its hard when im not yet in a relationship...by the way, my friends are just telling me to move on because he's not worth it...i believe them to a certain extent...again, be gentle when giving me advice. thank yall
2006-11-15 09:51:52 · 10 answers · asked by porkydd 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If he's restarting his life, and didn't show any interest when you told him you still loved him, it doesn't take a crystal ball to see that you aren't in his future. Sorry. Your friends may or may not be wrong in saying not to worry about him because he's not worth it, but they are correct in tellining you to move on.
Keep looking. Mr. Right is out there somewhere. All you have to do is find him.
2006-11-15 09:57:09 · answer #1 · answered by old lady 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's moving on, let him. I don't want to be too harsh, but the relationship must not have been pure bliss if it ended. I think you should let go of the past and move on yourself. You've probably been so focused on the past that you have passed up some great guys. I would believe your friends completely because they know more about the situation than I do and how everything went down.
2006-11-15 09:56:17 · answer #2 · answered by *mxgirl115* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all you sound rather young, and secondly, you have a loving heart. So my best advice would be to wait, to have lots of friends and a busy social life. Get to know a lot of different people, both boys and girls, and don't devote your thoughts to this boy entirely. If he's the right one, he'll come around eventually. But if not, don't worry. There are plenty of guys that are looking for a girl who will be true and loyal to them, and you sound like you have the makings of being loyal. So just be yourself and have a happy life with or without a man in it. When the time is right, and the right one comes along -- you'll know it! It's nice to have pleasant memories of past loves, but always keep the door open for the future....Good luck!
2006-11-15 10:01:56 · answer #3 · answered by gldjns 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok, he's hurt. those two girlfriends hes already had, they were probably fall back girl. someone he thought he liked, but truly, he just need to get over his big relationship. if your relationship was pure bliss, that gives you all the more reason to love him, and all the more reason to let him go. you cant hold on to him, it can never go back to the way it used to be. sorry, that chance was taken and ruined. try to move on because it sounds like he may not trust you in that way any more. then again, if he used the words "kinda over you" it means that he realy wants to get back with you. only if he said thos exact word, though. :)
2006-11-15 09:57:37 · answer #4 · answered by Daniel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
everyone always says to play it cool and move on and what not, but i think if you still care for this person and don't say anything then they might not realise how you feel and then miss the opportunity for getting back together.
personally i don't see the harm in it this time, but if it becomes a habit and he's definitely moved on and you're still chasing him, then you'll just make things worse and hurt yourself more.
don't fret about it and leave it for now and see how things go. now is the time to do things for yourself and learn that even though you do care and miss him, you can still be you.
all the best
2006-11-15 09:58:34 · answer #5 · answered by pugsbaby 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well. You can't make him like you, honestly. But maybe if you believe in love potions and stuff? That was a bad joke. Anyways. Yeah. Just let it go.... Once you decide to move on he'll probably come running back anyways! At least that's what my theory is.
2006-11-15 09:54:36 · answer #6 · answered by itsallforyou 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey um i know EXACTLY what you are talking about cept the guy that did that to me... we dated for almost 6 months (the day before we broke up) actually i broke up wit/him b/cuz he liked my friend that i have been friends wit/ since preK! and she liked him too and he was cheating on me with her so i dumped him and then i tryed SOOO hard to move on and i know you probly dont want to know this but it took me about 7 months to get over him i know deep down in my heart i will always love him but you have to just TRY your hardest to get over the guy. and i had to tell myself that "if he's meant for you ... it will happen" so just live life and try to be happy cuz if you just mope around it wont help just try to get out of the house and do fun things wit/ your friends! its worked out for me!!!so pleaz take my advice!!! sorry so long!
2006-11-15 10:01:46 · answer #7 · answered by *becky* 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry about. If it's meant to be, it will be - "what's for you won't go by you" as my great-aunt used to say...
2006-11-15 09:53:30 · answer #8 · answered by katiemigs 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he dont deserve ya .........
go on ............
and gorget about him..
2006-11-15 09:56:31 · answer #9 · answered by dar662_lesgirl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please move on. You will be much happier.........
2006-11-15 09:54:32 · answer #10 · answered by jdelcoiro@sbcglobal.net 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋