Family & Relationships - 15 November 2006

My friend likes this guy. He likes her. He told my he was going to ask her out. but now he isn't going to ask her out because his dad said that if they do go out they won't be able to go to the movies, mall, etc, until he is in high school. my friend is really depressed because she is moving by the time we get in high school. i don't know what to do now because she is depressed and i am going to be depressed and i don't like seeing her depressed. i don't know what i should say to her or him. someone give me some advice please!

2006-11-15 10:11:36 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2006-11-15 10:10:40 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have two sisters. My older sister & I don't get along. My younger sister & I have always gotten along and been very close. For the last 4 years, they have lived in San Fran and my little sister has worked for my older sister as her nanny/housekeeper. Recently, my younger sister decided to move to Seattle to pursue a degree at Univ. of Wash. When she got here, she got depressed and wanted to go back to Cali. Both my sisters have a history of mental illness (older sister-depression, younger sister-anxiety). Now neither of them will talk to me, because they blame me for this whole thing. I'm left here wondering what the heck I did wrong. I expect this from my older sister, but not from my younger sister. I think she needs to seek some professional help to deal with her anxiety, but she refuses and now won't talk to me. What should I do? I feel so helpless.

2006-11-15 10:10:35 · 16 answers · asked by seattlecutiepie 5 in Family

My boyfriend is a wonderful guy until he starts to get drunk. He is always very loving but, he starts talking about his fantasies with other women and how he'd like for us to have a threesome. He recently told me he is deeply attracted to a couple of his daughter's friends and that he has had fantasies of seducing them. I find myself not trusting him anymore and although I love him, I don't want to be with someone who has to talk about other women. He always tells me I can trust him but, I don't know how he has come to this conclusion. What do others think? Why would he tell me things when he's drinking and then have no recollection of it later?? I'm torn and understandably upset about this.

2006-11-15 10:10:14 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-15 10:09:48 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

whereas all the good-looking ones and muscle-fitted guys are just standing in circle while the girl is doing it with an ugly fat big beer-belly "FAT" guy, granted, he is not ugly, but disgusting figure, why would any sane girl, even the drunk ones, would want to do it with that kind of guys? SERIOUSLY ANSWER PLZ!!

2006-11-15 10:09:23 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my acquaintance stole from me. what should I do about this. How can I appoarch her

2006-11-15 10:09:18 · 4 answers · asked by harlemsweety 1 in Friends

#1 Been with for 10 months. We moved in after 2 months. We are 9 years apart. Our relationship was romantic 1st month then died slowly after that. We've begun to fight a lot cause I worry and care too much and his job makes him work 24/7 so I am always home alone. And our sex has gone down to almost nothing. He does everything he can for me ie buy me things to keep me happy. But now I realize money doesnt buy happiness.

#2 Met at my job. He is a vendor that works here occasionally. We have hit it off...same age, same interest. When I see him he makes me smile and laugh. He tells me everyday he wants to be with me and take care of me, but he knows that I have a hard decision to make. And whatever way I decide; he will still be my friend.

I care for them both. But dont want to hurt anyone, but know I have to. If you where in this position what would you do?

2006-11-15 10:09:14 · 10 answers · asked by MsLysa 3 in Singles & Dating

When all of his friends ask him if he likes me he says not really. Do you think that he is just sayin dat cause it is his friends askin him?? And should I tell him how I feel?? Or would that be a bad Idea to tell him how I feel?? If I should tell him how I feel how should I do it?? HELP ME!!!

2006-11-15 10:08:13 · 9 answers · asked by Chelle 1 in Singles & Dating

Okay, let me lay out the situation. There's a girl in my Math class that I like, and I think she likes me as well. Unfortunately, I've never really talked to her a lot, and I feel uncomfortable to just go and start talking. Also, I'm not 100% sure that she broke up with her boyfriend. I haven't really seen them together, and they don't sit with each other at lunch. How should I talk to her? Should I just walk up and ask her out, or start a conversation? What should I do?

2006-11-15 10:08:04 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I was adopted from the Philipines when I was an infant. I'm not obsessed with finding my birth mother but would be nice to know something about her. I always have felt kind of wierd because it's a possibilty she was a prostitute. I don't look 100% fillipina so the father probably was american or from europe. I want to go to the Phillipines just to see what it's like. Should I even bother to think about this stuff?

2006-11-15 10:07:51 · 4 answers · asked by kayla j 1 in Family

I just watched the notebook and I have never had anyone in love with me that way. Has anyone out there had a man do anything really special for them? All of my ex's have been really lazy and never planned anything romantic.

2006-11-15 10:07:03 · 9 answers · asked by Stellar_Girl22 1 in Singles & Dating

what do I do about a girl who keeps saying that she wants to have my mans baby and she already has a name picked out

2006-11-15 10:04:45 · 17 answers · asked by adgshanice 2 in Singles & Dating

My son is 12 years old. I had pre-marriage sex with a ex boyfriend and thus my son was born. My ex didn't want anything to do with the kid at the time so I was left to raise him alone. Now 12 years have passed and I got a phone call a couple days ago. My ex wants to see his son. And he told me he is dying from HIV. (slept with too many woman after me I assume.) I personally don't think he deserves to see my son. He never paid for child support, sent him birthday cards, or tried to even get in contact with us until now. I know I may sound heartless, but that man was heartless! Leaving me pregnant! And I don't want my son to go through the trama of death.....I really don't know what is right to do....

2006-11-15 10:04:44 · 30 answers · asked by Alicia G 1 in Family

I'm curious why some women like to check out a guy's ***? I can kind of understand other parts of the body. I have seen some ladies stare at those the way guys stare at hooters. What is the big deal?

2006-11-15 10:02:27 · 15 answers · asked by Thomas K 3 in Singles & Dating

Let me know, I wanna know

2006-11-15 10:02:05 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

When I see her or talk to her (my stepdaughter) she still gets all emotional and cries which there is nothing wrong with that, because she associates us two together. Any suggestions or answers.

2006-11-15 10:01:28 · 5 answers · asked by hugh_laur 2 in Family

I am being stalked by someone that I have never been able to get close enough to identify. The face always seems to be obscure. I went to the cops but they say they cannot do anything without some type of proof. They also cannot issue a restraining order without a name. They are always in different vehicles, or on foot. I tried several times to chase after them but to no prevail. When I look at them all they do is constantly stare at me and put their hands over their lips, kind of like “Shhhh-ing” me. Sometimes they leave little things on my doorstep such as a few grains of wild rice, or a piece of paper with the word "Returns" on it. I do not know what to do anymore. SOMEONE PLEASE ADVISE AND HELP ME! !

2006-11-15 10:01:17 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Would you think it was strange behaviour. Romantic? A compliment OR very scary!!

2006-11-15 10:00:28 · 28 answers · asked by kiku 4 in Singles & Dating

Iam in my late twentys and I dont know what age woman I should be looking out for, older woman (30- 40) are usualy at there sexual peak, are more likley to look for a serious relationship,and are more mature, Which is good.But are usualy married .Younger woman(20-30) have there benefits too , but are usualy just looking to have fun,(what ever they say to there boyfriends) Is ther any point in going out with a younger girl , should I stick to finding someone who is my age or older PLEASE HELP !! P.S. (I like both)

2006-11-15 10:00:01 · 8 answers · asked by lotn100 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-15 09:59:22 · 31 answers · asked by Yokihana 7 in Singles & Dating

im 18 and my friend is 17. shes been dating this 22 year old black guy who is just a loser. he graduated with a tech diploma. it took him 4 years to just finish 1 year of COMMUNITY college. and he works some crappy job and lives with his mom. what do u think about the situation?

2006-11-15 09:58:59 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok i like 2 guys.
guy 1(ryan): funny, cute kinda smart makes me laugh all the time hangs out alot with me.
guy 2 (jake):funny serious smart sometimes makes me laugh hangs out some with me

wich one should i choose and what should i do to get them to notice me????

2006-11-15 09:58:32 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

bleeeh

2006-11-15 09:58:23 · 8 answers · asked by Joy 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok here's the deal. I've been dating my wonderful boyfriend for about 9 monthes now, and his birthday is coming up. i have no idea on what to get him for his birthday! I kinda feel like a horrible girlfriend for not being able to pick anything out but he's not picky at all, in anyway, so that alone is hard to pick something out, but on top of that i really want to give him somethign special. So I really need ideas! PLEASE HELP!

here are some details to help you guys give me some ideas

He likes several football teams so i dont know which team to pick out because im scared he would want the other team more then the one i picked out, and i think football is really the only sport he likes.
I only have around $150 dollar budget so it cant be too expiensive, but i want it to be nice

Thank you so much for any ideas you give me! And thank you for putting effort into helping me out! :)

Alline

2006-11-15 09:57:49 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i just got back from my advanced yoga class and my back and thighs are REALLY sore

2006-11-15 09:57:38 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok, I stopped likeing her. She is horrible, smiles in my face and then bitches about me to my partner behind my back. She says that I am lazy and useless, etc. Just to explain, I work full-time and study full-time, which gives me a 75 hour week. My flat is so clean that you could eat from the floor and whenever I visit my partner who unfortunately has to live with her at the moment, I clean up after myself, help her in the house, look after the granny, cook for them and help my partner building the house.
Now you might ask how I manage to survive so much work...I don't know.
She complains about me having pets (that's not her business), sleeping until noon when I am there (well, I go to bed at 3 am and I have to get some sleep). She knows about all the things I do, I just feel like I can't talk to her at all, because she uses everything agaist me. I am disgusted with her ways. How should I react in front of her? I confronted her and she puts on a mask and then keeps being a *****.

2006-11-15 09:57:33 · 16 answers · asked by Wednesday 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

My friends think this guy likes me right. He stares at me during class, trys to make me laugh, and we have the same things in common. He like flirting with me and teases me. Also when he friends ask him if he likes me it takes him like 3 minutes to answer.The only thing is it seems like he flirts with other girls. Is he trying to make me jelous or what? Does he like me or not?
i am afriad to go ask him because of wht people might say. i usually dont care what they think but for this paricualar reason i do care

2006-11-15 09:56:53 · 4 answers · asked by lilcutiebotie 1 in Singles & Dating

All the reasons my ex gave me for breaking up with me didn't exist, they all came from miscommunications and we both know that but he hasn't asked me back out. i'm not sure what i should do.

2006-11-15 09:55:50 · 8 answers · asked by Jessie 1 in Singles & Dating

have been married to him for 15 years, i think friends and family should know my name.

2006-11-15 09:55:44 · 31 answers · asked by mama 1 in Marriage & Divorce