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2006-11-15 10:02:05 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No. Its IMPORTANT to be single for a while, especially in your late teens into 20's so you can grow into yourself, and develop more of who you are. That way you can learn to love yourself and have fun without a girlfriend or boyfriend there...so when one comes along you're not just a tag along...you know who you are, what you like and most importantly, you know that you can be okay by yourself. Thats absolutely necessary in my opinion before getting into a serious relationship.
2006-11-15 10:05:16 · answer #1 · answered by CoCo 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hi, you are pretty and its sounds like a bit paticular, which I think is good. At 26, you are just heading into the peak of life, you have a lot of energy you have learned a lot about people by now. Serious relationships require sacrifice commitment, and honesty that is hard to come by now days. It seems after the infatuation part grows cold we then see things in our partner we dont like and quickly hope to find a [ better person ]. We should instead try to find ways to cultivate our appetite for each other, like raising a garden, you pull the weeds and plant new seeds. Go out of our way once in a while, do something special for our mate, and we will soon see that it comes back, so take your time with your freedom and when you meet someone that has this attitude go for it. The best to you my friend, Glenn
2006-11-18 09:21:35 · answer #2 · answered by glenn d 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You've been married since you were 16? Or did you mean you've been going steady or dating someone since you were 16? Maybe it's time you tried staying single for a while, just to find out what it's like being on your own. There's lots of positive aspects.
2006-11-15 10:06:39 · answer #3 · answered by old lady 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being single is not a bad thing! It is a great time to get reaquainted with yourself. You are a terrific person even without a significant other. You don't need someone in your life to validate how attractive you are and to boost your self esteem. . Learn to love your single self.
2006-11-15 10:08:59 · answer #4 · answered by mellow_mellie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
personally I think it's great!!!! I'm not responsible for/to anyone else for my actions.
(I already did the family man thing and am a widow).
at 26 it's a good time for you to be single for a while even if you want family life someday.. now is a good time to be single..
- do dancing, concerts, away for few days or even overnight; have fun!!! and do all this with a friend, even an intimate friend.
2006-11-15 10:08:13 · answer #5 · answered by gjm 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, the single life is great. You don't have to worrying about impressing someone all the time, you can spend your time doing what you want to do, and you don't have to feel guilty about casual flirting or looking at a hot guy. Enjoy!
2006-11-15 10:11:57 · answer #6 · answered by Simone E 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it wasnt for me. I enjoyed it..it took several years for me to find someone comopatible with me.. Dont get in a hurry, let it soak in for a while.. that Mr. right is out there go find him, but go slow..
2006-11-15 10:07:53 · answer #7 · answered by dr.pepper106 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think it's great, becasue then you really get to know who you really are.
2006-11-15 10:04:58 · answer #8 · answered by maya 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no it is not so bad as long as you have friends
2006-11-15 10:04:47 · answer #9 · answered by tigweldkat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋