Family & Relationships - 15 November 2006

If a man came from a poor family/background and worked hard to teach himself to type and learn office procedures, then got a good job as an Administrative Assistant (secretary) or Legal Assistant, which paid well and had benefits, would you think it was a "girl" job? Guys would you say "That's a chick's job" or something like that?

2006-11-15 10:48:55 · 21 answers · asked by Ade 6 in Marriage & Divorce

my mom died when i was born. and my dad has been taking care of me. im 11 years old. i came here because i need answers to my problem. my dad had been sad because my mom died and was never happy. he drunk alcolhol a lot. before he died i yelled at him and told him i hated him and i never did that before and dad killed himself! am i going to hell?

2006-11-15 10:48:48 · 20 answers · asked by John N 1 in Family

a lot? a little? or none at all?

2006-11-15 10:48:20 · 4 answers · asked by Brandi 2 in Singles & Dating

I cheated on my man over a year ago, it was a mistake that I am not proud of and we got married a couple months ago. I just told him now about it a week or so ago. I can understand the upset, the pain and tears but we were doing better for a few days. But now he treats me like dirt even after he said he forgave me. He's turned into complete monster. I don't even want to be with him anymore. Mentions of divorce? What should I do? :'(

2006-11-15 10:48:10 · 8 answers · asked by mrschrisbennett 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Any hints please share them wit me... I am clueless!!! How should I flirt back wit this guy and what does he do to flirt wit me?

2006-11-15 10:48:06 · 13 answers · asked by Chelle 1 in Singles & Dating

Now don't get me wrong i am crazy about my husband love him so much. I know he loves me but he has not made love to me in over a year. He says he is stressed but even on vacation he did not. I know it is not me he says i am still sexy and desrible. I think maybe he had EDand is araid to tell me.

OH and i KNOW he i not cheating i alreadh had that checked out.

2006-11-15 10:46:02 · 17 answers · asked by l_iwoman 3 in Marriage & Divorce

My roomie and I got in an fight. He trashed our apartment braking my picture frames and tearing up MY photographs of him. He shredded a blanket I spent hours crocheting and gave to him 2 days ago. I gave him to the end of the week to get out. (There's been a lot more building up to this) I know that it's childish but I'm feeling really vengeful. Am I in the wrong for wanting to get back at him? Any ideas ion how to?

2006-11-15 10:45:52 · 23 answers · asked by [un]bro/ken 3 in Singles & Dating

I've know her 5 months and my girlfriend is naturally very quiet. It is a long distance relationship and i only get to see her about two days a week. I stopped visiting her for a month during the summer and during a recent tense discussion she brought this subject up.

I'm beginning to wonder if she loves me, she might be being assertive by saying "i don't know" as i read in a book it is good to say this.

2006-11-15 10:44:39 · 27 answers · asked by Leftfield fan 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-15 10:44:15 · 40 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-15 10:44:10 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend and I have been together for almost a year. I am 22 and he is 27. I love him, but he has a drinking problem. He also smokes pot and gambles. I want to break up with him because I can't take it anymore. He has gotten better eg less drinking and less smoking and gambling. But even that is not good enough. We live together so I would have to ask him to move out. I feel that we could have a good relationship if he stopped doing the above, but I am not sure he can. I have given ultimatums and they work for a few weeks, but then he starts up again. He drinks about 8 beers a day. I feel that that is excessive and it affects the quality of our time together. Am I being mean by not sticking by him and trying to get him help? I think his life will go down the toilet when I break up with him, but i don't know if I can be his crutch.

2006-11-15 10:43:52 · 9 answers · asked by Stellar_Girl22 1 in Marriage & Divorce

okay....i heard that there are going 2 b disney auditions in jonesboro arkansas!!!!!!! anyone know where?? or how i could find out where???? thanx..ITS SO VERY FREAKIN MUCH APPRECIATED!!!! :D

2006-11-15 10:43:47 · 1 answers · asked by Counting the Days. 3 in Friends

I notticed omething unusual. Girls from 6th and 7th are staring at me or takin bout me when i'm in the hallway or eating lunch. I was talkin to my homey Muad and then saw 5 girls from 6A talkin bout me. Same class that this girl i like is in. But she was appcent today. And in the hallway I saw a blonde 7th grader staring at me. And some other girls. And then i had to lose my eye contact with her cause my friend Mark pushed me from the back and scared the **** out of me.

2006-11-15 10:43:33 · 24 answers · asked by max p 3 in Singles & Dating

With all the talk of fat chicks and all the pressure for us women to be perfect why is it never brought up about how tolerant we are of imperfect fat men??

2006-11-15 10:43:29 · 7 answers · asked by FoxyFoxy, Kickass Drama Queen 5 in Singles & Dating

I just broke up with my ex for 2 months now. We've been together for 4 1/2 yrs. He is younger than me 5 yrs. ( i am 26 and he is 21)The reason that we broke up is kinda complicated but the main reason why, is because his parents didn't agree that we should be together since i am a lot older than him. But the thing is we both still care for each other. On the day when we broke up we made a promise that we still be friends, and we are hoping when the time is right we will be together again if God's will. However, it's hard for me to be friended with him because obvioulsy i still love him so I told him that i need time alone so in the future i can still be freinds with him. But now it turns around, he has been avoiding me (because we still see each other at church) before we can still say hi and chatting for a bit. But it has been 3 weeks now that he doesn't wanna say hi to me. Now I'm affraid that I couldn't be friend with him and I totally lose the chances to be with him in the future.

2006-11-15 10:43:17 · 2 answers · asked by juicyjuicyqueen 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-15 10:42:56 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

okay so there's this guy I majorly like, and I've like never talked to him! I need tips.. how should I become his friend..and eventually, girlfriend? I need to do this quick, because the rumours of me liking him are spreading QUICK!

2006-11-15 10:42:37 · 11 answers · asked by Ezz 3 in Singles & Dating

What is love

2006-11-15 10:42:03 · 9 answers · asked by !!yentruoc!! 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-15 10:39:55 · 31 answers · asked by crystal t 1 in Singles & Dating

Hi everyone, i need to do a short survey about tattoos for class, i was wondering if you guys could answer!! thx! (if you dont want to post it you can send me a msg.)

1. male or female

2. how old are you?

3. do you have a tattoo?

4. how many tattoos do you have?

5. why did you get it?
A) for no reason or just felt like it
B) for a reason:_______

6. where is it?
A) arm
B) back
C) leg
D) stomach
e) other
(you can answer more than one)

7. How old were you when you got it?

8. Do you plan on getting more?

9. Do most of your friends have one?

10. Do you regret getting a tattoo?

2006-11-15 10:39:31 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

list as many examples as you can find.

2006-11-15 10:39:27 · 6 answers · asked by Suzy Suzee Sue 6 in Singles & Dating

I am going out tonight and dont know what to wear under my clothes. We are going out to a nice dinner then back to his place. (im 26 he is 33) nothing? g-strings? matching panties and bra? any ideas..what kinda stuff turns you on?

2006-11-15 10:39:26 · 15 answers · asked by diego~girl 4 in Singles & Dating

my mom and dad talked me in to it i never cheat on her she is my best freand so i could never hurt her what do i do

2006-11-15 10:39:17 · 17 answers · asked by arc 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-11-15 10:39:13 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

She thinks we should get one less expensive, (I purchased it at $1300, not too high or low), and prefers one that is one solid color; in other words, a similar ring with identical diamonds, but white diamonds instead of yellow and white, and yellow gold instead of white gold. I feel like she is rejecting the ring I got her for something different, am I being foolish?

2006-11-15 10:39:06 · 17 answers · asked by politechaos 2 in Marriage & Divorce

do you think a stay at home mom should make her husbands lunches for him?

2006-11-15 10:38:34 · 7 answers · asked by Candy C 2 in Family

ok my cousin has a problem with me talking to a certian girl and i talked to her yesterday. well now she is mad at me and won,t talk to me. what should i do??? should i tell that girl or just leaveit as it is. i am so depressed about this

2006-11-15 10:38:32 · 3 answers · asked by tech_whiz12 2 in Friends

Me & My bf hve been together for a while now and hve decided to start *ahem* hvn 'it'. We tried it out but he wasnt 'wet' enough to well, get the job done. (Slip in) I need ideas for what lubricant to buy cuz he really wants this and i do too. And im sure there are good lubes out there! K, Thx. xox(L)

2006-11-15 10:38:18 · 13 answers · asked by Ronnie 1 in Singles & Dating

my partners ex has just got married and has changed their childs name with out speaking about it. is it correct that he should still be paying csa. or is it now up to the new dad to support his family

2006-11-15 10:38:16 · 21 answers · asked by gilly_marty_bailey 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-11-15 10:35:56 · 37 answers · asked by RNM 4 in Other - Family & Relationships